I think that's a perfect age to take them to such events! Like a lot of other people have told you...my experience with my son was, he slept through such things! Ear plugs aren't a bad idea too. I always cover my sons ears (with a hat) for hockey games etc...have fun.
I personally wouldn't. Let Grandma watch the baby which she's probably happy to do for you, and you and your husband go and enjoy yourselves for the evening. What a great way to reconnect and focus on you and him!
As bad as it sounds... it depends on the music and crowd. You hate to stereotype, but you shouldn't have a tiny infant at a DEATH METAL concert or hardcore RAP concert where people have been known to get very rowdy. Now if it's something you and your hubby can sit way back in the back, away from the crowd and where the music will not as likely be very loud, and if it's "easy listening" type of music, then sure... I don't see harm in it! I've taken all 3 of my kids to different events (monster truck shows, Nascar races, concerts, etc.) and have never had an incident. I'm also a single mother though, so I never had a "sitter" to babysit. Short and simple - you seem to have common sense, so just use it. You know deep down whether or not you should be bringing your baby or not - so follow your instinct! :) But I agree with other Mamas, if there's a sitter available... enjoy your KID-FREE evening with your man!
We took our little guy to a number of outdoor concerts when he was a baby. We didn't have any problems, in fact he fell asleep at all of them. At most of the concerts the volume was fine, not an issue. IF it were, I would simply stay farther away from the band.
I think that it is a personal choice. Variant on the music type and seat option, it is up to you. If it is outdoor and in the grass then it is ok. If it is Metallica and in the first row then I would reconsider. As well I would be mindful of the people around you. I would take my daughter but NEVER my son because he would not sit still and CRY and I would feel bad about that for the people around us.
What kind of concert is this? If its a rock concert, it still may be very loud for your little baby. Do you have a sitter?
Our Daughter was born at the end of May 2006. I was breastfeeding and unable/unwilling to leave her with a sitter. We went to two concerts at Blossom Music Center that summer. We sat on the lawn and found a spot near the back not too close to others. Both experiences were positive. We were able to take in our stroller and plenty of blankers to sit on and cover while nursing. We saw Jewel, then the orchestra (neither were crazy crowds). Good luck, I say go for it if it feels right to you, but expect that you may not be able to stay for the entire concert (watch out for bugs)
Sarah
Aside from the noise, with it being outdoors, you have to think about the heat and sun. You don't want your little one getting burnt or overheat. I know how hard it is to leave your little one at this point, but you might enjoy yourself if you had a date with your husband. If you have shade though and it's not a rowdy crowd, I wouldn't see a problem with taking him.
I agree with Crystal. I think concerts should be reserved for date nights with your spouse. Children will grow quickly and get to concerts soon enough. No need to start ear damage at a young age! Even with earplugs damage can occur.
mddhf
If it were me, I would only take an infant to a classical music concert, not an amplified concert. And only if comfort breastfeeding is an option to keep them quiet. Both of my children were sensitive to too much loud noise, whether it be a party or loud music. Besides, little ones' ears are MUCH more sensitive than our ears. Be patient, you will be able to enjoy concerts again some day when your baby is older and you can leave him with a sitter.
I would keep the baby at home. Even with the earplugs the amps at a concert are still too much for their little ears. Find a sitter for him and go out. The music may scare him and he may do a lot of crying. Even outdoor concerts are very loud and can harm the ears. Either find a sitter for him or you may have to forego the concert. It is not a good idea at all.
Debbie
I am 31 and have been married for almost 12 yrs. My husband and I have 3 boys ages 10,7 and 4.
Hi there-I also have a 3 month old it is hard enough going to the grocery store let alone an outdoor concert-not a good idea I would leave him at home. It has been so hot and humid even in the evenings I would be careful about that.
PLEASE,PLEASE,PLEASE DO NOT TAKE YOUR 3 MONTH BABY TO A CONCERT!!!! I don't think that you will be allowed inside with an infant. I feel bad for you because I'm thinking that you don't have anyone that you feel comfortable enough to leave your baby with and I know how that is because I felt the same way when my children were growing up. All I can say is you might have to pass on this one but just remember that one day you won't need a sitter. Good luck,
my three children have been to concrts since the womb! When they are babies I put earplugs in and then a hoodie, Then if needed, I cover a blanket, to swaddle. We did not sit close to the stage or speakers. They all love music!
Hi Rebekah! I did the same thing. My Emily was only 2 weeks old when I took her to an indoor (echoing) brass band celebration. As long as Mommy didn't yell she was fine. I have taken her to many loud functions since and it was the same thing. Have fun!
If it is necessary and you think both you and he can handle it, then bring him.
I think it depends on what type of concert, where it is, how far you'd be from the stage & speakers. If it's a rock concert, then no, I wouldn't take him. If it's an outdoor concert, where there's plenty of room, and you can stand back, then I'd say ok. But if you think, in the very least, that it'll be loud, then I wouldn't chance it. You'll have plenty of chances for concerts in the future, or get a sitter for a couple of hours.
Hi Rebekah
I was wondering what kind of concert this is, if it is a classical music concert or something like that, it might be ok, if it is a rock concert, I would urge you to leave your baby with a sitter, if you have one, not only for the baby's benefit, but for your's as well. You will have a much funner time without the worry of having a baby with you, rock concerts are for letting loose and having fun, if you get a sitter, you will be able to get drunk and party all you want, as long as you have a responsible person to drive you home!
Good Luck!
I have to say that I am surprised by so many of the mamas feeling so strongly you shouldn't bring your son. First, I think that being outdoors and with ear plugs, you shouldn't have a problem. Secondly, do the moms really think you would be rude enough to stay with a screaming baby and ruin it for others? Maybe I am just assuming too much, but I would think it would go without saying that you would leave (for other's sake and your baby's and yours and your husband's) if the baby was unhappy. We are about to have our 4th baby and we do very little without our children. They have been to concerts, races, amusement parks, more restaurants than I can count (again, you leave if baby is really crying), etc. I think you just have to be flexible when you have kids and know that sometimes you do have to leave in the middle of whatever. We don't have a lot of options for babysitting, but even if we did, I still think we would take them everywhere. We firmly believe in families spending time together and not pawning our kids off on others all the time! Whatever you decide, I'm sure it will be the right one for your family. Good luck!
Well I have 2 kids 3 and 10 mo. I took my daughter to a show BUT she was in my belly still. lol It was a TIME McGraw concert we were 5 rows from stage 8 mo pregnant. I did get a slap on the hand and she did not MOVE 1 inch through the whole thing she to this day listens to his music and LOVES him. NOW to take a baby OUT of the womb not sure I would do that. MY OPINION YOU do what you want BUT If you want to enjoy the show and not have to leave when it is getting good b/c baby is not doing to well with it I would sell tickets or get a sitter. WHAT is the show. I see that alot and I have not seen a response of what kind of music. OH PLUS SMOKE I AM BIG on not having my kids around smoke. Think of that as well do you want your child around 2nd hand smoke if it is out doors even then it still gets in your face with the wind and all. Still just depends on the music type and if drinking is going to be there as well people CAN get stupid when they get to much. I am probley putting to much thought into it . Sry