I have never been in your situation, but I have people in my friend/family circle who have. I think your husband would want you to have joy and love in your life... your kids want it to! I believe things happen for a reason.. maybe he came along in your life at this time for a reason.. Good luck with things and I hope you find comfort and love!
I thinks since your husband has been deceased for one year that it is fine for you to start a new relationship. As long as your kids are fine with it, I think it's great!
I am so sorry for your lose. I can't even begin to imagine the pain you have been through.
Listen to your kids. It's okay to date and it's more then okay to fall in love again. I am sure your husband would want you too.
Life is a crazy path and if you get another chance for love. Take it.
Good Luck!
go for it. be aware that your inlaws and probley some of your family and ya'lls friends are going to be disapointed. but its your life and you only have one to live. good luck. i wouldn't date anyone till my husband was gone for a year or longer if i needed. but not sooner i think it would be too emotional for me before then. i think your timing is right if you know its right. good luck and take your time.
gO FOR IT. YOU NEVER KNOW WHAT TOMORROW WILL BRING.
First of all sorry for your loss. I understand what you are going through. My husband just passed away a year ago from cancer that sudden. He was fine and healthy til check up then found he had stage4 cancer. Funny thing, an ex of mine called to give condolences and we started catching up. Over time we became friends and then more. I am currently expecting with this man. I would suggest taking it slowly and understand that your late husband would want you to be happy. If your kids and you are ready then take your time and find some kind of happiness. Good Luck.
Remember you only have one life! go for it! be happy and enjoy every moment.
Let me start with I'm sorry for your loss.
You said that he fought it for two years so in that two years your mind has accepted it. I feel that if you are happy starting a relationship with this guy then you should. Your kids seem to be fine with it if they are encouraging you. So go for it and enjoy the life that you have, it's the only one you get. Godd luck.
I think all people mourn for different amounts of time. If you feel you are ready then you probably are. The only concern I have are your kiddos. I don't know if your kids are grown and out of the house. If they are not, you may want to take time to get to know him (all over again) before introducing him to your kids. This way you can make sure that you both agree on how to parent your children. I am sorry for your loss and I hope that no matter who you choose to date that you will be happy and make sure that you are treated right! God bless you in all that you do!!!
A year or 5 years does not matter. Let things go on see where they lead you. Everyone should be happy this could be your chance again you will never know if you do not try it out.
Dear Anna,
I'm sorry to hear about your loss. I lost my brother 2 yrs. ago at the age of 54. He was a DEA agent and worked all kinds of shifts etc. He was a loving father, husband, son, brother & friend. He left his family secure, & his 2 daughters just graduated a yr. ago. My sister-in-law had a difficult time accepting the loss & emptiness. She went on a retreat last Oct. The retreat is called New Beginnings. She said that was the best thing she could have done.
I can tell you that you should go, allow the time you need to find only yourself first. You are very lucky your children are unselfish also. It's a sad life without a companion as we get older...it is also harder to find one because we begin to get ill & we don't one anyone to have to take care of us nor are we up to caring for someone when either of us are ill.
Go to the retreat to clear the air then start singing before life passes you up like it has me.
May you be guided by your angel down the Lord's wonderful path He has for you.
God bless you & yours.
Ms. Olga Delgado
I don't think it's too young. Be very clear about what you want from a new relationship, though. Make a list of ten must-haves and ten can't haves. If he falls short on either of those lists forget him.
YOu know honey you ar eyoung and have so much life to live. I am sorry that you have had to deal with the losses you have. What is youur fear about dating again? p.s.My uncle met his love when he was 55. Joy is out there Anna. You just need to be ready to accept it. I hope this helps.
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Thank you everyone for your advise. I have decided to take a chance. Taking things one day at a time. And thank you for saying that this will not dishonor my husband. It is so great to be a part of you wonderful people.