How I wish I were a good cook!

God love you, you have THREE babies to take care of!! Of COURSE you are exhausted. Don't even worry about trying to learn how to cook right now, my advice is to wait until your twins are in kindergarten and THEN take a fun hands-on cooking class @ a community college or at the classes they have @ the Farmer 's Market. Your main job right now is just to stay SANE - I also had twins and then another - three in diapers at once - and I know this can be the most demanding job on the planet. But it WILL get easier. Can you start a Babysitting Co-op with friends from Church? This way you can leave your kids in a safe place for a few hours and go home and SLEEP or watch your cooking shows with NO little people distracting you. Hang in there!

Here's a few easy recipes.

Take a loaf of french bread.
Slice french bread length ways. You can slice as thick as you want.
Sprinkle with olive oil.
Apply a layer of mozzerrella cheese
" " " of sliced tomatoes
Sprinkle salt/pepper... oregano (optional oregano)
Apply a layer of pepper jack cheese

Put in a 350 degree oven for 20 minutes; until french bread looks toasty/cheese appears melted. You can alter this recipe with cheddar cheese.

serve with salad


Does your family like beans? There's various types of packaged beans with seasoning packets. Really easy...
soak the beans the night before
drain beans
pour beans into a crock pot
pour about three cans of chicken broth enough to cover the beans
add seasoning packet
add half an onion; sliced
add a link of smoke turkey sausage; sliced

cook on high if you want this within four/five hours. if later in the evening... cook on low for about seven hours.

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Pot Roast

Chuck roast

One package of dry onion soup mix
One can of cream of mushroom soup
One or half can of water
slice a bellpepper, onion, garlic pod
mix all of this together in a crock pot
put chuck roast in the mixture
cook for about four-five hours on high.

Sometimes I slice the roast in 1/4 slices and cook that way.

Then serve this over rice. Get a rice cooker. They are the best way to cook rice. Pour rice/water/push the lever!!!

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mac and cheese box mix
slice up smoke sausage (cook in the microwave for about 1 minute or so)
about two cups of sliced frozen brocolli (cook in microwave for about 2 minutes or until they appear tender)
mix the sausage/brocolli/ and prepared mac/cheese together
serve with sliced tomatoes.

good luck.

I see you have received many responses already. I just wanted to add that I love Angela M advice. Take it slow, and perfect one thing at a time. Also a must have in my opinion is the book The Joy of Cooking. Many basic receipes and it teaches you terms and how to do many techniques as well.
The only thing that gets food on my table is planning, planning and more planning.
My husband (a chef) also just suggested putting a dry erase board on the fridge and keep a list of what is in there.
I forget what we even have pushed to the back and things go to waste-so far it has been a great help and keeps that part a no brainer.

I have a hard time cooking as well. I try but have never been good at it. One thing I do sometimes is get together with my sister and mom on the weekend and we cook together(they are great cooks). Then we divide up the food and that way I have some things to heat up during the week. It also is a good time for us to get together and for my kids to play with their cousins.

I know the feeling!!! I feel like I turn out a good meal about 50% of the time an the rest it is average or below. My guess is that you have the same problem that I have and that is distraction. I have a 2.5 yr old daughter and a 1 yr old son and it is nearly impossible to concentrate on following a recipe with the two of them running around screaming. I have this idea that it would be great to cook 1 or 2 times a month and fill up my freezer so I could be my own Super Suppers but I haven't found the full day I think will be necessary for that or the recipes but I know they are out there.
I do like Rachel Ray's 30 minute recipes. They generally take me about an hour but that is OK. I also try to do recipes with fewer ingredients, that seems to be a more workable solution for me.
Good Luck!

I'll just add two quick things I didn't see in the other responses.
1- HomemadeGourmet.com had great packets of ingredients ready to go. All you do is add one or two fresh ingredients, bake, and you have a great meal. The name says it all.

2- And as far as cooking goes, sometimes you shouldn't follow the recipe exactly. For example, my oven runs hot. So, when a recipe says I should bake something for 30 minutes, I set my timer for 20 minutes and check on it then. Meals in my oven are usually ready in around 22-25 minutes.
So, if your cooking issue is that meats are too tough, meals are dried out, or things are getting burned, you might want to experiment with temperatures or cooking times. Your appliances might be like mine and may be running too hot.

Feel free to write back with the specifics of your cooking issues if there is something else I can help with.
Hope this helps, good luck!

Malini, I think you are trying to hard and already have it set in your head that everything will turn out bad. I love to cook and I am planning on opening a resturant soon. I know it is difficult to cook with little ones around, so I put them to work with me. I would start off with something simple like a casserole. One of my families favorite is a creamy chicken casserole. I take chicken and cut it into cubes, then cut up some onions and celery. Add about 2tbl spoons of butter to a saute pan. Saute the chicken, celery and onions. Then you can do one of many things, I sometimes use lansanga noodles and layer the chicken mixture, cream of mushroom soup, and cheese (mozz or chedder). Make about 3-4 layers depending on how much you want to make, then pop it in the over @ 350 for 45 minutes to 1 hour. Until it is golden brown. You can also make macroni noodles and mix cream of mushroom soup and chicken mixer. Put cheese on top and pop it in the over @ 350 for 30-45 mintutes. Or use rice. You can add veggie is you want too. My family loves it and the kids like to mix stuff together. Just make it fun and if it does not come out just right it is okay. I was lucky my mom had us in the kitchen from the time we could walk. I do the same thing with my kids. Have fun!!! And good luck.

Hello Malini, wow you sure received lots of support from other stay at home moms! Sounds like you were given great ideas.

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Well, I actually used to be a chef and went to culinary school, so I am a good cook. I have one piece of advice for you. Get the cookbook "The Joy of Cooking". It is a classic and is very easy to follow and has every basic recipe you could ever dream of. It is the only cookbook I ever refer to even though I have hundreds. My first instructor in culinary school was asked once if she could only have one cookbook what would it be and that is what she said and I could't agree more. You could search forever but would never find a better tool for learning to cook! Good luck!!!