Get her a gift card for a nice restaurant and offer to babysit so her and her hubby can go out by themselves after the baby is born for some much-needed time away.
That was the best thing I got when kiddos #2 and #3 were born. :-)
-Deb
I know this may not sound like the most fun gift to give, but diapers or wipes are the best gifts. I just had my third and I had all the stuff from the other two so friends got me diapers or wipes. My daughter will be three months next week and we have not had to buy diapers or wipes yet. Believe me when I say it is great to not have to worry about that in the beginning. Also, I would buy size 2.
How old is the daughter? We're expecting our second child in February, and there are some things that we need another one of (crib mattress, as the one we have is in our son's toddler bed; high chair/booster seat, etc.).
See if you can get a gift certificate to an online grocery shop, that way she doesn't have to drag 2 kids out for grocery shopping so soon.
Another thing to consider is a little something for the oldest, as sometimes they feel a bit left out of all the excitement.
Hello Janelle diapers, diapers, diapers. These are always in need of, the wet ones are great and save on laundry with washcloths. Also a gift certificate where she will be buying any baby item that she doesn't receive. Too I would get a little gift for the sibling so they don't feel left out. Good Luck and hold the baby for me ;-) an ole grannie
This may have already been suggested, but what if you found out what brand of carseat/stroller she had for her daughter, and buy her replacement covers in "boy" patterns? You could also be completely different and buy the big sister a present: there are tons of books, games, and dolls to help prepare kids for a new baby in the house.
A gift certificate for a local photography studio is always a nice gift for the parents that aren't in need of "baby stuff".
Give her a gift certificate. and she can get what she need or want.
Diapers are a must! Newborn and size one are great starters. You could throw in some wipes as well. It may not seem like the cutest gift, but coming from a mother of two boys, with a baby girl on the way in Oct. a gift of diapers would be my dream gift.
diapers in a size 2 might be a good choice
A special album for the child's pictures? You know the one's like "Baby's first years" is always nice. If the children aren't going to share a room a special lamp for the baby's room. His own dish set. A special picture for his wall, we use guardian angels with the child's name on them in our group. If they are church members his own Precious Moments Bible.
Just a few suggestions.
The book RAISING BOYS by DR. James Dobson.
Diapers. Best gift ever :) You know she'll need them and so they aren't a waste, nor will they just get pushed to the back of the closet. I just had my 3rd boy and my church had a diaper and wipes "shower" for us and it helped so much.
The best gift I received when I had my second child was my neighbor made dinner for my family the first two days we were home from the hospital. It was such a nice, thoughtful, never thought-of gift that I am still in shock by it. We had only lived in the neighborhood for two years and had not become close neighbors, but she knew exactly what we could use. We still are not close because we each are involved with our own families, but I have told her many times how greatful we are for her thoughtfulness. It was so nice knowing that we didn't have to worry about dinner when you are bringing home a new baby. There are enough moments of anxiety.
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I haven't read any responses yet so this might be a repeat..But put together a baby care package in a basket or a huge oversized gift bag. Diapers are ALWAYS needed with babies..obviously! Wipes, baby lotions, soaps, cereals (check expirations to make sure that it wont be expired by the time a 4-6 month old gets to eat it), sippy cups in boy colors, never can have too many onesies! Anything a baby needs put in the bag.
There is a PHENOMINAL book called THE TWELVE GIFTS OF BIRTH. BBEEEEEEEEEEEEEEAUTIFUL!!!
Hi, Janelle! How about a small pre-decorated baby album? You can decorate the pages and she can just pop her pictures in as she likes! Everyone takes pictures of their babies, and with a new one, it's hard to find time to put an album together. You can also give her a nice photo safe pen so she can journal in her new album!
Hi Janelle,
If your friend plans to breastfeed, how about a nursing cover with matching burp cloth? Also, depending on the age of her daughter, she might enjoy having her own little "Pee-a-Dollie" to match mom's! Check out this website: www.peekaboobees.com.
Thanks for the wonderful ideas everyone!! I have a lot to think about. Diapers were going to be a definite thing and I really like the idea of a gift card to a photography studio. So much to think about…thanks again for all of the ideas!!