Lizbeth. Sadly you know the answer to your own question. Your husband is a slick one, I’ll give him credit for that. Give me a break. He is cheating. Who borrows someone else’s cell phone and has sexual conversations with it? Nobody! Because they know it is not their phone. Don’t be a fool. I am sorry but he is caught. Don’t let him lie his way out of it.
I’m sorry but speaking from experience, I’m pretty sure he’s cheating. My husband (soon to be x) and his lies and I believed them all. I wouldn’t have believed he was cheating had “she” not told me (he wasn’t going to).
There is no way, someone is going to borrow a phone to send texts like that back and forth.
I would call from a different phone. I am sorry, but this doesn’t sound right to me.
souunds crappy. I’d call the number and find out what she says.
why would others use his phone everyone has there own phone it could be someone he works with just monitor his phone and watch his behavior dont jump the gun
Sure his friend used his phone to send sexual text messages. I believe him. NOT! He’s cheating! My daughter went thru the same thing with her husband. She believed him for a while. But not anymore. Not since she also found similar messages on his myspace and facebook! He is soon to be an EX.
I’ve been through a similar situation. It was definitely him, my husband tried to pull the same BS by blaming a friend. I kicked him out of the house but took him back too soon. You need to let him stew and figure out things. You also need to reevaluate your marriage. Maybe this was a one time deal, maybe this has been going on for years behind you back? Either way, he stepped on your trust and burned it alive and he needs to fix it.
You are strong and you can do this.
Somethings up. When something seems weird it usually is. I think you should call a couples therapist and get an appointment. Find someone you like and go often. If the trust between you is disappearing you are on a bad road. Don’t keep suffering. You deserve peace and happiness. Be strong. Good luck.
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I would ask him to show u the texts going back to when his friend used it and confirm that it goes along with his story. Did he write asking to see a picture if something or was that his friend and if it was him why would he ask that. This lady may have gotten ahold of his number because of his friend but if she’s constantly tempting him into a conversation that isn’t good being how weak minded men can be at times it’s best to keep the temptation away and nip this in the bud I would call the women myself leave a message if you have to and tell her your calling the wrong person this is your husbands phone not Mikes. Good luck I hope it all works out.
His friend would not need to use his phone to send sexts. His friend has his own phone, you only need to use someone else’s for an emergency. You can stick your head in the sand and ignore the fact that your husband is having sexually explicit conversations with another woman, or see a lawyer to protect your assets and have him served.
This does not sound good.
Maybe he’s not physically cheating, but it sounds like something is going on on an emotional level. Which is just as bad.
Try googling the number or her name.
Good luck.