When planning a wake and or a funeral. Can a funeral be an invitation only event?? Because I come from a BIG family. And I know a lot of family will show up. And where it will / might be held at. The church isn't that big. How do you tell some a person or people that you don't want them there (politely)?? IF they do actually show up, should the police be called?? Should I already have the police there as a precaution?? Any suggestions would greatly be appreciated.
Crystal