Twin Pregnancy Questions

Congrats!!!!! I also have beautiful twins (b/g) and they are almost 17 months (natural). Just to warn you, it is a bit crazy in the beginning with round the clock feedings for 2 little ones (my husband & I didn't quite know what to expect), but it DOES get easier. As soon as the babies sleep for longer periods at night, life gets better. Every minute with them is absolutely priceless. There was nothing better than cuddling with the 2 little ones at the same time= so sweet- we feel so incredibly blessed!

As for labor, I did go into preterm labor- I had them at 32 weeks. For the last week before they were born, I began feeling much worse- I really slowed down, was sore all over, had carpel tunnel, had a ton of braxton-hicks etc- I told my OB about it & she just kind of shrugged it off & said all of the stats are fine (blood pressure, heart beat, etc) & not to worry or do anything different. That night, I went into labor & my OB didn't come to the hospital until I was in the OR the next morning (had to have a c-section b/c lower twin was head up). So, my advice is to make sure your OB listens to how you are feeling. And to make sure you have an OB you really like. Don't be afraid to speak up.

Needless to say, Albany Med did a great job- the c-section was not a big deal, so don't listen to all of those horror stories. The twins spent 3 weeks in the NICU and are happy, strong & healthy. The nurses & doctors there were incredible- they were in excellent hands. Very professional & caring!- We could not have been happier with the NICU there.

Also, I read afterwards that moms of multiples need tons of rest towards the end of the pregnancy- 2 naps a day, should make sure to minimize stress, & should eat a lot of omega-3 with DHA (helps to prevent pre-term labor). (My OB didnt' tell me any of this). Dr. Barbara Luke's book- When You're Expecting Twins, Triplets, and More was a really useful book- I totally recommend it. Her advice is really great.

Chances are you won't go into PTL too early, so try not to worry about it. There are things that I think you can do like, eat right, get tons of rest, try to stay relaxed, and read that book for extra tips on how to manage the pregnancy. I wish I had read it more while I was pregnant. I'm so happy for you & know what an exciting time this is. Enjoy it! Congratulations! With such great medical care in out area, you'll do great no matter what happens.

Hi Jessica. Congratulations! I have 16 mo old fraternal boys also conceived by IVF at age 31. Yes, carrying twins is much different than carrying one baby, but don't get too stressed over it. I might be one of the rare cases, but I had absolutely no problems during my pregnancy. I delivered vaginally (no c-section here!) at 38 1/2 weeks and actually had to be induced. My boys were born healthy at 6 lb 1 oz & 7 lb 3 oz. and I'm only 5'3", 125 lbs. As long as you eat healthy & get moderate exercise...WALK & DRINK LOTS OF WATER and don't get too stressed out you should be fine. It's always good to read as much as you can because anything can happen, but don't think something has to go wrong just because you're carrying twins.

Oh, by the way...after trying for years and conceiving by boys thru IVF, I am now pregnant with a little girl due in April(spontaneously). Who knew!?!? Good luck!

Hi Jessica:

I hope some of my "sisters" from the twins club in Bergen County will respond. I just wanted to tell you that the spotting is common with twins. I have b/g/ twins who were the result of IVF. They are 4 1/2 y.o. I also saw a peri and my OB/GYN, I was high risk since I was 46 when they were born. I was monitored closely and did great. I hope you do, too. My OB really wanted me out of work at the latest 24 weeks. I managed to stay working and be comfortable until about 30 weeks. I had some swelling but never had any PTL. I tried to relax and stay on my left side when sleeping or lying down. Get plenty of rest ad you will know your body very well. Hopefully some of the others who recently joined will respond.

Cathy

My twins are now 19 yrs old. They were my 3rd pregnancy. It's hard to spot signs of PTL with twins because your body is under more stress. I always made sure I was well hydrated and if something didn't feel right I'd take a couple minutes to sit down and relax before I paniced.

Enjoy picking out all those new baby thing!

Don't know if you're storied out-but I've got another one for you! I also have fraternal g/g twins conceived thru IVF. They are 28 months old now and are wonderful! I think that just the fact you are pregnant with twins makes you "high risk". I'm not sure how much the IVF factors into it, but the doctos like to know that. I did experience some minor spotting at around 12 weeks(it was minor but since I didn't have that with my 1st pregnancy I freaked) so I saw a peri-natologist early on & very regularly. But other than that one incident, there were no real problems. I was very uncomfortable-had dizzy spells, lightheadedness and my heart raced at times but the babies were fine. I knew it just was something that I had to deal with since I had it w/ my 1st pregnancy also, but I told the doctor everything. He did a lot of tests to keep an eye on me and everything turned out fine. Just stay calm, just because they are being cautious, doesn't mean anything is wrong!

Drink plenty of water and rest when you can and when you want to. Get it now because you won't later! And let people help you-they wouldn't ask if they didn't really want to help. It was hard for me to realize and accept that help, but I finally did and I'm glad I did. I would have gone insane w/out it.
My girls were born by c-section at 37 1/2 weeeks(no PTL Dr was worried about my blood pressure & they were both breech). They were 5lb 9oz & 5lb 11oz and neither spent any time in the NICU. They did have jaundice and baby B had to stay one extra night at the hospital to stay under the UV lights. But my husband picked her up the next morning. They also both have the same minor heart murmur, which I have come to learn is actually common with twins. I also heard that an umbilical hernia is common with babies conceived by IVF, which both of my girls have. But other than those minor things they are both extremely healthy and happy. It just meant a few more doctor appts for them.
Just enjoy as much as you can of your pregnancy. Learn as much as you can about being pregnant, listen to your body and don't worry. It's more common that nothing goes wrong.
Good luck and best wishes!

Hi Jessica,
Hang in there, a twin pregnancy is tough but very rewarding! I had g/b twins 10 months ago as a result of fertility drugs. They were born 4 1/2 weeks early and only spent 6 days in the NICU. I don't think the fact that you had IVF makes you any more at risk, twin pregnancies are just naturally higher. Your doctor should be monitoring you more closely. I experienced some upper leg pain and my doctor told me to take a calcium supplement on top of the prenatals b/c the babies were sucking so much calcium from me. Just take at easy, don't stress and enjoy it. As they get bigger you'll be able to actually watch your stomach do some pretty funky stuff as they move around in there. It's pretty exciting. Good Luck ~ Toni

Congratulations! I am a new mom with girl twins...now 4 months old! I had a similar situation...IVF...bleeding at 7 weeks...lasted until around 12 weeks. Everything worked out GREAT! The girls were born at 32 weeks and 6 days! I was not put on bed rest...but my recommendation is to TAKE IT EASY IN THE END! I woke up on New Years Eve morning when my water broke. The girls were born by C section 3 hours later! Best experience in my life and would do it all again today! Be mindful of back pain, lots of pressure down below, and super tiredness! After that...enjoy!! They are the best!

I wasn’t too happy to find out I was pregnant. My boyfriend and I decided not to have kids. I went into labour after 6.5 months and didn’t even know I was having twins until I actually gave birth to two baby.

Wow! What extremely helpful responses! I have poured over all of your stories and advice. Please keep them coming. I am very thankful to have all of you twin mommies here to help me out. I did forget to mention 1 thing: Baby A has a low lying placenta (not a previa) but my docs all want me to take it easy (no sex, working out, stop commuting) until it hopefully moves up in the next couple of weeks. Did anyone else have this?
Some things I have really taken to heart: 1. Drink lots of water (I am now tracking my daily water intake - I don’t think I was drinking nearly enough before), 2. Rest whenever I can and listen to my body 3. Don’t be afraid to call my doctor 4. Some great books I have to order. 5. Join a local twins organization. I will do all of these things! Thank you again everyone, and congrats on your successful twin pregnancies and your lovely babies.