Does anyone know how to sew?

Ok I am VERY new to sewing and attempting to make curtains. I found the perfect fabric, bought the lining, cut the fabric. I started a test project and the material frays very easily I have a needle for fine material and I don't know what to do. I am not a very domesticated person so this is quite an undertaking.. anyone know what I should do or any good books I can get on that topic? I stitch and then when I pull on teh stitch the fabric pulls right away from it. Thanks all for reading this I appreciate any response!! - Faith :)