First, I feel your pain, but remember that your daughter won't remember these shots (thank goodness!)My twins had a reaction to their first round of shots @ 2mo old so I waited until they were 2yo to start their complete set of shots.(this is what I found to be my best option after alot of research, at this point they had no reaction at all) At 2 yo, they had me hold my daughters facing me in my lap to give them shots in their arms, so that part is normal. Yes, I believe the nurse should have had gloves on and she should have put the bandaid on for you. After all, what did she expect to happen after a shot, I understand that they have certain protocalls that they have to follow but that's even more reason for her to wear gloves, for your child's safety too! All in all, your daughter loves her Mommy, and though your heart breaks every time you think of it, she probably forgot about it a very short time after.