What Are Your All Time Favorite, Empowering Break up Songs?

Updated on March 18, 2012
R.D. asks from Richmond, VA
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I'm trying to put together a good, uplifting song list for someone, and I'm hung up on Mumford and Sons 'The Cave' (because it's just a cool song), but now I'm having a brain fart, LOL!!

So what are your all time favorite, positive and empowering break up songs? Doesn't matter what the circumstances, just any suggestions are appreciated. She's in a good place right now, just trying to keep her happy going and I'm trying to support that :)

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DUH @ Gloria Gaynor, see? I'm having a brain fart, LO!! Thanks for the suggestions so far, keep them coming ladies!

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T.K.

answers from Dallas on

I have empowering breakup artists. I would not have gotten through my divorce without

Alannis Morrisette Jagged Little Pill. Completely wierded me out when I found out she wrote all of those dark songs about Joey from Full House.

Aretha Franklin - AInt No Way, The House That Jack Built, and more

Bob Marley - 3 little birds, no woman no cry, one cup of coffee

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J.S.

answers from Columbia on

I walk alone - greenday

King of Pain - sting

I get knocked down (but i get up again) - chumbawumba

owner of a lonely heart - yes

bouncing off the walls again - sugarcult

closing time - greenday

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H.H.

answers from Washington DC on

I know it's "old school" but I LOVE Alanis Morissette's You Oughta Know. Makes me feel like a strong woman! ;)

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⊱.H.

answers from Spokane on

I Will Survive by Gloria Gaynor. LOVE this song :)

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K.B.

answers from Detroit on

Sara Evans - "A Little Bit Stronger"

Des'ree - "You Gotta Be"

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M.P.

answers from Portland on

Helen Reddy, I am Woman!

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J.W.

answers from St. Louis on

I will survive still makes me think of my ex. :p

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B.G.

answers from Champaign on

I love Mariah Carey's "Hero", and what girl doesn't sing "I Will Survive!" once in awhile?

I really like "The Sign" by Ace of Base." My favorite line is:

I saw the sign and it opened up my mind!
And I am happy now living without you
I've left you, oh-oh-OH!

"This One's For the Girls" by Martina McBride. We played that when I tossed the bouquet. It's just a good "girl power" song.

This one's for the girls
Who've ever had a broken heart
Who've wished upon a shooting star
You're beautiful the way you are
This one's for the girls
Who love without holding back
Who dream with everything they have
All around the world
This one's for the girls

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M.L.

answers from Chicago on

Somebody's Gonna Give you a Lesson on Leavin' - Jo Dee Messina

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P.R.

answers from Cleveland on

Of course Gloria Gaynor's I Will Survive. I love Christina Perry's Jar of Hearts too.

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B.C.

answers from Norfolk on

Hands down best break up song ever:

"One More Minute" by Weird Al Yankovic from his Dare to be Stupid cd.

My Mom heard this one with me and almost fell over laughing she thought it was so good.

http://yankovic.org/WeirdAl/c_Dare_To_Be_Stupid/#04

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J.S.

answers from Jacksonville on

Fighter _ Christina Aguilera
Single Ladies_ Beyonce
Independent Women_Destiny's child
Leave the pieces_Wrecker
This is how you remind me- Nickleback
Here's a quarter call someone who cares-Travis Tritt

That's pretty eclectic. :)

Forgot about these two-
Goodbye Earl _ Dixie Chicks (they poison an abusive husband)
Gunpowder and Lead _ Miranda Lamber (you can probably figure that onelol)

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P.G.

answers from Dallas on

Quoting Laura -

"Alanis Morrisette - "You oughta know" Man...I went through an awful breakup and this song was GREAT!"

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A.C.

answers from Columbus on

"Hero" by Mariah Carey, got me through a really bad break up....

Also like Katie Perry's new song "Part of Me"

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D.H.

answers from Louisville on

I see several I like on here - but I don't see this one!

"How Do You Like Me Now?" - Toby Keith

nor

"Lover, Lover" - Jerrod Niemann
also from him - "What Do You Want From Me"

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H.P.

answers from Houston on

"Bye-Bye, Love" by Jo Dee Messina!!! Very upbeat with spot-on words! (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bNOUNFNYAmA)

Not sure of the name, but..."I don't love you anymore!" by Teddy Pendergrass.

"Almost Doesn't Count" by Brandy.

Oh, and "Independence Day" by Martina McBride! (I look forward to hearing that on the radio every July.)

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B.B.

answers from Missoula on

Go Ahead by Alicia Keys
Rolling in the Deep by Adele
It's Not Right, But It's Okay by Whitney Houston
Leave (Get Out) by Dream *shame face* but it's a good song
Before He Cheats by Carrie Underwood
Lesson Learned by Alicia Keys w/ John Mayer
Irreplaceable by Beyonce
Me Myself and I by Beyonce
So What by Pink

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A.C.

answers from Jacksonville on

Irreplaceable by Beyonce...I'm not always a huge fan of hers but this song is great. The Cave is a great song bc it can be applied to almost any challenge we face in life.

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R.K.

answers from Appleton on

All previous are great break-up songs are:

Where were you when I needed you Grass Roots:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AmQsCRFycaQ

and the best break-up song ever:

Red Rubber Ball by The Cyrkle:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EbDKN0dk54M&feature=li...

has some of the best lyrics "The rollercoaster ride we took is nearly at it's end -- I bought my ticket with my tears -- that's all I'm gonna spend"
Written by Paul Simon

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M.G.

answers from Seattle on

She Has A Girlfriend Now - Reel Big Fish
Evanescence - Sweet Sacrifice
Flowing Tears - Undying
Save Ferris - I'm Not Cryin' For You

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R.J.

answers from Seattle on

These boots are made for walkin' - Nancy Sinatra
So What - P!nk
F**in Perfect - P!nk
Before He Cheats - Carrie Underwood
Lonely Road - Greenday
Someone Like You - Adele
You're Gonna Go Far Kid - Offspring
7 Nation Army - Whitestripes
Respect - Aretha Franklin
Survive
Breathe - Prodigy (this might just be me)
Little Lion Man - Mumford & Son's (I reverse the pronouns in my mind)
Sexy and I Know It - LMFAO

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C.O.

answers from Washington DC on

REO Speedwagon - It's time for me to fly.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TGwCP2hX2FM

I sang it Ian on Christmas 1996.

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A.V.

answers from Washington DC on

RESPECT
Believe by Cher
I Will Survive

If she just wants to be in a good mood, there's Pocketful of Sunshine, Celebrate, Party Rock Anthem, I just wanna be happy (Gloria Estefan)...

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S.T.

answers from Washington DC on

i feel like such a geezer.
'feeling stronger every day' by chicago.
'best of my love' by the eagles
'owner of a lonely heart' by yes.
:) khairete
S. (still trying to wrap her head around alannis being old school)

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T.N.

answers from Albany on

Straight up, Paula Abdul

Like The Way I Do, Melissa Etheridge

:)

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L.M.

answers from Dover on

Kiss This - Aaron Tippin
My Give A Damn Is Busted - Jo Dee Messina
Right To Be Wrong and You Had Me - both by Joss Stone

Also, one that is very uplifting but not really a break up song is, Good Morning by Mandisa w/ Toby Mac.

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J.T.

answers from Chicago on

"Fighter" by Christina Aguilera!!!!

R.A.

answers from Providence on

" I will Survive" is my ultimate one, of course. I've belted it many times over the years.

The new one by Kelly Clarkson " Stronger" is such an empowering song..

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