Weight Loss After Pregnancy

I wouldn't worry about what others think. The only thing that matters is how you feel about yourself. Before I was pregnant I had an average build, I had a nice body. When I got pregnant with my first son he blew up like a balloon. My starting weight when I got pregnant I was 164lbs. Right before I had my son I topped out to 224lbs. I was huge, that was the biggest I had every been in my life. I lost only my baby weight and the amniotic fluid as well. Then when my son was 5 months old I found out I was pregnant again. I then had an emergency C-section with my second son. Now it's been 3 months since his birth and I have lost over 48lbs and still dropping. My grandfather makes fun of my weight but I don't let it bother me. I know what I like and I am working towards it.

The question isn't really how much you weigh, it's how you feel. Do you feel healthy? Do you have enough energy to do everything you want to do? If the answers are yes to both questions, then you are fine. But you do want to keep an eye on your weight-loss. Sudden, unexplained weight loss can be sign of serious illness. So if you aren't really doing anything to cause it you might want to talk to your doctor about it.
And your family reacts so much because they are either concerned or jealous. :)

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65kg is not chubby and 60kg is not skinny.

It all depends on your height, fitness and well-being.

I have no idea why your family is obsessed with your weight. We can't tell you that. I don't know what your weight is, have no idea how to convert the metric measurements. If your family saw you have a sudden and drastic change in weight, that may be a cause for concern. If you're concerned about your weight, speak to your doctor. If your doctor is fine with your weight loss, that may reassure your family.