Volunteer Opportunities for a 4 Year Old

Updated on December 18, 2011
S.K. asks from Minneapolis, MN
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Hi! I am trying to instill in my 4 year old the true meaning of Christmas and the value of giving to others. Are there any places my 4 year old can volunteer? I want to do more than drop off a toy in a random Toys For Tots box. Thanks!

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M.M.

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There really isn't much, if anything, for a 4 yr old to volunteer for. My kids couldn't volunteer until they were 10 at the local food bank. We have always done Meals on Wheels since they were very young. As they got older, they took the food to the door. That really is the only thing I could find. Or you could get an Angel Tree angel and have her help shop for the gifts. There is also the old folks homes you could go read and she could just be there to help put smiles on their faces.

I like you being proactive with this issue...way to go!

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C.C.

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Just teach her caring and empathy...she doesn't need to be out in the public eye for everyone to eww and ahh. Genorisity begins at home. What's wrong with giving a toy to Toys For Tots...doesn't matter who sees or doesn't see...it's what you know that you did in your heart.

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E.B.

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Meals on Wheels! My kids loved it!

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T.S.

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As a scout leader with many years of experience I can tell you that 4 is probably too young to "officially" volunteer, as a matter of fact a lot of places won't take volunteers under 12 (though some will with a parent.)
There are many ways to teach empathy and giving to others: collect food for your local food bank from family, friends and neighbors, adopt a family in need and shop together for them, collect coats and toiletries for your local homeless shelter, there are LOTS of things you can do!
You could also visit a senior center but be careful around the frail elderly, some young children are actually frightened by the sad conditions and all the medical equipment.
And when your daughter starts kindergarten, sign her up for Girl Scouts, we LOVE volunteering and community service!!!

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A.J.

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When I was little, our family would sometimes host needy kids in our home. There were parents who could not handle holidays who would sign up to have their kids go out. It really made an impact to give them presents under the tree along with us, and we usually ended up giving them ours! That was the 70's, I haven't found that near us. My little ones and I have been doing lots of donating and talking about all aspects of Christmas and giving. We literally wrapped most of their smallish old toys leaving the playroom almost empty for Christmas, and dropped them off to our local thrift store who put them in a "free basket" (we got permission-we would have left them somewhere else if they needed to charge for them, they obliged because we have donated tons to them I think and we know the people working there-we also donated some bigger items they could sell). It's a good location because they have lots of needy parents shopping there. Each thing was labeled only "boy" or "girl" with age on it, so parents would know what to pick. It's adjacent to a food bank where food drives happen (our second choice of where to leave the gifts), and the kids understand the food drive process. They also helped me pick out hats and mittens for a warm clothing drive at the library, and pajamas for foster homes we dropped off at mall. We're still deciding what to go out and "do"-it's hard to find things. I may skip it this year again with 3 because we havent' found something manageable. If you go work in a food bank or something, though, I'm sure they would let you bring your daughter.

Churches are the best source, but we don't currently go to church, I guess you could contact one to speak to someone for ideas. We checked some nursing homes, and their regulations don't let strangers visit (another thing we used to do as kids). At her age though, donating and talking about things (all year) is great even if you cant' go "out" to do stuff. But I'll be watching your answers for ideas too! Oh, yeah, and each child folds up some bills for our Salvation Army people out at several places right now. Little things are fine for little kids, my kids grilled me about the Salvation Army for 20 minutes in the car after the first time we gave to a bell ringer :).

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H.W.

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Contact your food bank, and ask about age requirements. This would probably be the safest venture. Most hands-on outreach opportunities often come with the possibility of dealing with individuals who suffer mental health issues. This is fine for an adult, but not suitable for a child.

And at this age, modeling kindness and generosity in your own life is the best place to start. Something your daughter could do ( a compassionate act) is to help you maintain bird/squirrel feeders and water during the cold winter months. You could go to the park and scatter seed for the birds if you don't have a yard. There are also some children's stories which contain great giving/charity/compassion themes. Ask your local librarian for suggestions.

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M.J.

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For age 4 I would have them pick out a few of their own toys to donate to other kids who do not have enough money to buy their own toys.

If you really need "fieldwork" for your child then call the Salvation Army and see if you can volunteer at a bell ringing station.

S.L.

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Visiting a senior citizen center or retirement village!

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