We waived it all at Henry Ford Macomb, formerly St Joe's... you have the right, don't let anyone tell you you don't!! Now I don't know how many hoops Beaumont makes you jump through, but it is your right, it is just a matter of finding out how. I know we had a lot of problems with Beaumont and that is why we switched to Henry Ford!
Another note to make, like the previous reply, I also sent my husband in when they took the baby to the nursery and he had to be very staunch about no bottles, no water, no pacifier, no vitamins, etc... they talked about getting them like he wasn't there and he had to step in and say No I Don't Think So!!! So just know your rights and use them. It is your baby, this is America, no one can make you do anything.