yes, we should talk!
I am trying to be sensitive to my hubby's depression and his anger and helplessness over all of this, but that means i have to stuff down my own feelings. You bet i'm mad, and so lost and upset myself, but my kids don't deserve to have two parents having a pity party. He is starting to pull out of the depression ( please don't suggest medication in this situation) But now he is back to spending, not much, but $5 here and there, and i am so ticked because it's like I am the one suffering for his spending and not saving enough to get us through this in the first place. I have always been very frugal and now that I am the one bringing in the money its' even worse. So i hear you, and i hope we can both see the good of this situation, there has to be something, right?!?!