Teenage Daughter Has an Opinion for Everything!

Hello J.,
My name is D., I am a single mom also of a 13, 11 and 9 year old. I understand what you may be going thru, as I have a 13 year old daughter who tries to switch the role of mom and daughter. I think when they get to a certain age they try to take over. You should lay down the ground rule, let her know that you will always be there for her and no man will ever come between you two. She may think that your attention may be taken away from her. My daughter feels like the attention is taken away from her. But if you dont tell her how its going to be, you will end up being single for a long time. Ever hear that story about the little old lady who lived with all those cats. Someone told me that will be me one day if I dont get out there and have a healthy relationship. :)
Remember kids come first always, but you also need mom time as well. I hope this helps. I am just going thru issues with her as well. Be strong and love your kids to no end.
D.

J. -

Sounds like you know what you need to do. Have a conversation with your daughter let her voice her concerns, but remind her that you are the mom, and that she needs to trust and respect your decisions. She will not be with you forever. Let her know that you'll want her to have a healthy happy relationship when she becomes of age. She should also want that for you. It will only come with her help.

Good Luck!

She is not dictating unless you let her. She is just jealous and will be with everyone you date. Untill you find the man who knows how to get along with her too. Than everyone will be happy.
She is 15 so ofcourse she has an opinion about everything. You'll find a way to let her know what makes you happy is better for her too.

hi. it sounds like your daughter is a bit jelous,i think shes having a tough time dealing with a man taking all of your attention.when she is use to getting all of the attention from you and someone comes in and takes it away. it makes her feel sad!!!!