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My daughter was the exact same way, we had to swaddle her until she was 6 months old!! We bought 20x20 blankets at www.BeyondBabyBasics.com they were great and they send you instructions on the best way to swaddle. We swaddled one way (the way we learned at the hospital) until she was about 3 months old, then we got the blankets and their way held better. At night we would swaddle her and then get the swaddle me velcro blankets and velcro her in the swaddle. (We could only use the velcro on the top she was to long to do the bottom, so she would only had the blanket on her feet). It was a miracle the first time we did it she slepe through the night, and has ever since. I don't know how good of a job I did explaining so feel free to email me with questions.. ____@____.com