Spiceing up a Marriage

Updated on July 06, 2011
J.G. asks from Dover, OH
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Hi, I wud like to hear from other wives how to put sum spice in a marriage!! ours is going real good but always like to suprise my man wit sum thing new:)

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answers from New York on

Here are a few of my personal favorites in no particular order.

It's summer time and it's hot. A bucket of ice and an imagination is your best friend.

Dress "it" up or dress it down playing off his favorite assets of yours. Example lingerie with heals or just bra and panties with heels or just heals.

Add flavor: carmel, chocolate sauce, strawberry sauce, whipped cream. again imagination is your friend. we use these things for body painting in the bathroom so you can wash them off or other wise and the water is right there.

Create fantasies. Wigs and costumes shouldn't only be for halloween.

Long dresses with nothing underneath or short skirts that would probably double for belts in some places are wonderful.

Try new angles and new places. He's your husband so make it worth his while.

Only you know your husband and what will work on him. Remember even for guys sex starts in their heads. Talk sexy to him or send him sexy messages throughout the day and be prepared to follow through. No one likes a tease.

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answers from Spartanburg on

Just don't wear undies under your skirt one random day..he's gonna be shocked and will totally jump on ya....;-P

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answers from Richmond on

OH MAN, where to begin?! Because there are sooo many things and I know you'll get tons of great answers, I'll just give one:

Cook in an apron and heels... ONLY an apron and heels.

This one never fails to please ;)

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answers from Phoenix on

If you have a pool or jacuzzi, go skinny dipping with hubby after the kids are asleep!

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answers from Dallas on

I send naughty text messages with a naughty pic

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answers from Dayton on

I love speaking my husband's love languages. His is touch and quality time. When I fulfill his love language, he gives back to me in my special way too. See the book, The Five Love Languages, by Dr. Gary Chapman. It is really fun to creatively think of new ways to tease him about his love language, too.
Have fun!



answers from Dallas on

sexting...as long as you know no one else will be around to see it lol
bubble baths
dinner dates at home after the kids are in bed (or even just dessert in bed)
random make out sessions

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