Something for the Best Hubby Ever!!

Thank you cards and Cake would be nice. Sometimes just showing people that u appreciate them is enough. Glad you are having a good recovery and that God has blessed you with a great family. Keep them close to your heart because a lot of people wish they had what you have and I understand how you feel. I passed out at work a few months ago, busted up my eye and lip needed stitches. My husband and kids had that same look of fear (like they didn't know what they would do without me) see I lost my baby sister in Dec, she passed out one night and was gone the next morning, so imagine what my family was thinking. Anyway, that's when I realized how much my husband really loved me he never left my side stayed right there until the last stitch was done and until I was able to go back to work did things I never thought he would like cook supper.As for the smoking that was the last day I smoked a cig quit cold turkey also. June 8th will make 5 months since I've had one so good luck and God Bless!!!!!!!!Oh, I'm only 37 also.

Sit down and put your feelings in writing to the best of your ability, you may want to do it for each girl also. In this way from time to time he can reread your feelings for him. There is nothing more a husband can have is to know how much he is loved.
If something did happen to you he would have something he can always turn to, so you may want to put a picture with it!

God Bless

C.,

I have a special relationship with my husband also. We just had our 19th year anniversary last week. Though we've never been tested as you have yet. I think that if he just reads what you just wrote it would really mean alot! Good luck and stay strong with the smoking cessation!

God Bless R.

Tell him how amazing you think he is, and how much you admire him for the way he handled the situation. Tell him how lucky you are to have him. Then ask him if you can do anything for him to show your appreciation for him being the best hubbie in the world! Maybe a camping trip, race, or whatever. Maybe he wants a weekend with "the guys" . He is deserving! I wish I had found someone like that!

Awww! What a great guy, and I truly hope you're feeling better! What a rough time! Maybe get him a gift card for something he really loves that he hasn't been able to dedicate time to while helping you... does he enjoy fishing? Movies? Sports?... or get him a 'manly' watch or something, engraved with something like 'you're my hero'... I don't know, my head hurts like crazy and I can't think, but you're right, he sounds like he deserves it. Best wishes!

Wow, C., you've been through a lot! Are you on BC pills? There is a strong correlation between BC pills, smoking, and strokes. I'm glad you have quit smoking! Your husband sounds like a really great man. You are blessed indeed. Be sure to thank him specifically for all he is doing. Vocalize all of your praise to him. Tell him how much you respect him. That's important. Men need to know how much we respect them. It's like oxygen to them. I'm not sure about what sort of gift for him or the girls. I think your recovering is a huge gift to them! They know it, too! And, a thankful attitude, loving words, patience with yourself as you recover, joyfulness - all these things are way more important than a thing you could possibly buy. Blessings to you and your precious family.

Wow. You are a strong woman. I praise you for quitting cold turkey. I know that it is hard. I'm still trying. You are blessed to have a husband like that. Mine is the same way. Maybe if you feel up to it, you could give him a really nice long massage! I knew my husband likes that more than anything! You don't say how old your girls are, but girls are more sentimental so anything from the heart would be meaningful for them. Bake them cookies or find something they would like on the internet. Or just have a heart to heart talk with them letting them know how much you appreciate them. I wish you the best of luck and hope everything works out for you. T.