Hi V.,
Honestly, I can't give any advice on a good dentist being that I just got into it with my present dentist and I'm looking for a new one myself. Nor can I help with the Pediatrician because we got to a military doctor.
But I can help with the party situation. I teach belly dancing at a studio and we do Little Arabian Princess Parties where all you have to do is show up. We supply the cake, goodie bags, entertainment, set up and clean up, a craft, story and loads of fun. You can have up to 15 children (boys also if you want) including the Birthday Princess. All the attendants get a tiara (since we are all princesses that day) and crowns for the boys, a craft, and a great goodie bag. I also help with the parties and I'm also having a party for my daughter this Saturday. My other daughter had a party last year on her birthday. It's a family friendly place and provides lots of fun.... Best of all, you don't have to do anything. We do parties on Saturdays and Sundays so you can plan it on a weekend you don't have to work. The website is www.chandani.net. Or if you have any questions, you can email me and I will gladly answer them for you.
Hope that helped out some. Have a great day.
E.