CONGRATS!!!
I had preeclampsia with my first pregnancy (and only so far, but we're trying). I had awful symptoms starting at 6 months, and my son was born 3 weeks early to the day by c-section also. I also had a headache that just wouldn't go away, so went to the ER to get it checked out as my dr. had said and they admitted me immediately. 12 hours later, but son was born. At the time when I got preggo, I had gained some weight, but was still within the average range for my size (I was used to being on the very low end). I had just started working out at the time too, and my doc said as long as I take it easy, it would be okay. Water aerobics are supposed to be great for the joints (I had awful joint problems), and also for the circulatory system & all sorts of stuff.
When we moved back to Houston, I had discussed with my new OBGYN the risks of preeclampsia a second time around, and she was not overly concerned, but said we would just have to be a bit cautious and keep an eye out for symptoms to be treated early before it became severe. Since every pregnancy is different, it could go either way just like it did the first time. She said the risk was only slightly higher because I had it with #1.
I'm with you on not eating a lot of veggies, so I'm curious to see what the other moms say on that. My mom served only russett potatoes, corn, and green beans or peas once in a while, so I didn't grow up with a lot of variety. I have recently started on a whole wellness program after having a health scare, and am trying to incorporate different healthier foods into my lifestyle too. So far, I've set a goal for myself to try a new veggie each week. Even foods I had tried and hated before, I have decided to try again and have discovered I really like spinach now. For me it's all about my mindset. I gave up Dr. Pepper & fried food, both of which were favorites and all I consumed, and now I don't even like them. I have tried them both a couple of times since and can't understand how I used to live like that. Every time I grab a sip of my hubby's DP or a bit of a french fry or something like I used to do, I just cringe from the nastiness of it. And then I get a huge smile of disbelief. It's a great feeling!
Sorry for the rambling... I hope something I said may help. I also am hoping to shed a few pounds before we conceive #2, but would be thrilled either way.