Think of it this way. Most of the time they are accusing you of something because they did it or are doing it. Sometimes we wonder why we go thorugh the things we do. God has a plan for our lives and sometimes we may not understand it but maybe there is a better future for you by yourself and your children. THink of it this way. You really love him so you would never cheat on him now if he really loved you why is he cheating. Would'nt you rather be really loved by someone. Not just half way but all the way. I have been there and your love isn't going to be enough to save the relationship it takes two. And beleive me you cannot change anyone. They have to change because they want to. I just wish at the time I had someone to give me advice. I probably did but never realized it because I wasn't hearing what I wanted to hear. Here is something I think is important and would like you to read. Rememeber a man can replace us but you'r children never will.
A newborn's conversation with God:
A baby asked God, "They tell me you are sending me to earth tomorrow,
but how am
I going to live there being so small and helpless?" God said, "Your
angel will
be waiting for you and will take care of you."
The child further inquired,
But tell me, here in heaven I don't have to do anything but sing and
smile to be
happy."
God said,” Your angel will sing for you and will also smile for you.
And you will feel your angel's love and be very happy."
Again the child asked, and how am I going to be able to understand when
people
talk to me if I don't know the language?"
God said, Your angel will tell you the most beautiful and sweet words
you will
ever hear, and with much patience and care, your angel will teach you
how to
speak."
And what am I going to do when I want to talk to you?"
God said, your angel will place your hands together and will teach you
how to
pray." Who will protect me?"
God said, Your angel will defend you even if it means risking its
life."
But I will always be sad because I will not see you anymore."
God said, Your angel will always talk to you about Me and will teach
you
the way
to come back to Me, even though I will always be next to you."
At that moment there was much peace in Heaven, but voices from Earth
could be
heard and the child hurriedly asked, "God, if I am to leave now, please
tell me
my angel's name."
God said, You will simply call her, "Mom."
Lift a mother's spirit, send this to every mother you know (no matter
how old
her child is)