Forget that bribery shouldnt be used to get your kids to eat, I did it and now my 7 yr old eats broccoli, cauliflower, and lots of other "yucky" veggies. Since she is 10, saying she cant have dessert and such isnt going to work anymore, she probably really doesnt care and she still gets her own way. The best thing to do is take way something she DOES care about like a video game, the phone, cant watch any TV that night, and so on, but if she DOES eat and eats everything, then she should be rewarded with something like picking out a video at the store to watch that night or getting to decide what game everyone gets to play and so on. Im sorry I dont know much of what your daughter likes. Maybe even some new cheap makeup for practice wearing. Whatever your standards are and what her likes are, go with that. If she refuses to eat, take away something important to her, but if she does eat, reward her with something important to her. If you have to buy something, make it inexpensive. At her age, she will understand money and can pick something in the price range YOU set. Good Luck and I hope something in here will help. My 7 yr old was very picky too. I caved in and for a yr or better he ate nothing but chicken nuggets and french fries with maybe some fruit and sometimes peas. He isnt fat nor is he skinny, but I knew he wasnt eating healthy, so I switched it. Now if he doesnt eat, he cant watch tv, play his gameboy or do any electronics whatsoever. He hates that, so I usually get a clean plate 90% of the time. Yes he choices once in a while to not eat things, and thats ok, but he doesnt get to pick something to eat, he goes hungry. I have made TV and his gameboy a reward, not some kind of punishment, just so everyone knows this. He doesnt get to play or watch TV all day, its a reward for doing something good for me. Good Luck!