You only have a couple of ways of dealing with this since you are currently expecting. Do you really need the money that bad? If your husband can take care of the finances and you just do something on the side you would be a lot more relaxed and not so frustrated all the time. You might be overeacting because of your hormones but the main point is your not comfortable in that situation. There are a lot of at home businesses you can do so you can spend more time with your children.
I sell AVON and love it because I don't have to leave my house to do a party or even have one when I don't feel like it. It fits my life pretty well. Things to look out for when going into your own business like AVON or other companies is how much it costs to start out (don't spend a lot to get started because you might not like it), what is the cost of your supplies and what supplies do you need to do the business, what is it that you are expected to do in order to keep the business, and what kind of travel is expected. If you talk to someone that does an at home business and seems to be giving you the run around on the details then I wouldn't try it. I bring people into AVON and I make a percentage of their sales when they are a part of my downline. Remember that people that talk to you about getting into the business is going to get a percentage if you get into the business so if you don't feel comfortable being under them in the company go with someone or something else.
Home businesses need support from with in the company to excell because you have set backs occassionally and it does take work to build up your clients but it can also be very rewarding as well. I go to college, watch my niece and nephew, and run my AVON business. I am always busy but a lot of the things I do for my business I can do with my children here with me. I love being able to have them with me the majority of the time and knowing I am the one teaching them right from wrong. I also love the flexibility of being able to be home when needed like now when my niece just went through surgery and needs someone to help her get around.
The last thing I will say about home based business is take into consideration how long you will need to be out because of giving birth to your second miracle. In some home based businesses it could cause you to have to start from scratch again. With AVON or a company that you can run from your computer you don't have to take that down time. I have had to explain to my customers that I needed them to pick up their orders and I would give them a free gift for doing it. I know all the tricks to get the nice items for the least price so it doesn't cost me more than $1 or sometimes nothing at all to give the free gift. www.youravon.com/jjurgensen