Why do you Insist on keeping score like that? It's not that big of a deal.
My daughter has had a lot of friends who have stated here numerous times and have been welcomed to do so. There are a couple of friends my daughter has never visited at their home.
I don't get the big deal. I have a larger house, one child, and it is easy to have children over. Sometimes it is easier for me to host because there are no other siblings to deal with plus it gives the other mom a break to spend time with other children or get something done.
This is the beginning of friendships and many play dates to come for your daughter. Be supportive of your daughters friendships and quit keeping up with each tit for tat.
I live being the one where the children want to come over. It's especially good as they get older because I know what they are doing at my house.
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Why do you Insist on keeping score like that? It's not that big of a deal.
My daughter has had a lot of friends who have stated here numerous times and have been welcomed to do so. There are a couple of friends my daughter has never visited at their home.
I don't get the big deal. I have a larger house, one child, and it is easy to have children over. Sometimes it is easier for me to host because there are no other siblings to deal with plus it gives the other mom a break to spend time with other children or get something done.
This is the beginning of friendships and many play dates to come for your daughter. Be supportive of your daughters friendships and quit keeping up with each tit for tat.