Perimenopause or Pregnant

Updated on July 16, 2011
J.W. asks from Cave Creek, AZ
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I have always been very regular until the last 2 months. Last month my cycle was on time but only lasted 2 days. So far I am 5 days late, and I do not feel like it is on the way. I have been having headaches, & some cramping. I have also been a little more tired than usual. I was going to wait until I am at least a week late before I take a test. I was wondering if anyone had perimenopause symptoms that mimicked mine or will I be pleasantly surprised? BTW I am 44 years young

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I took a test this morning and it was negative. Next step is making an appointment with my doctor. Thanks for all of the answers.

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K.H.

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They can determine if you are premenopausal with a blood test. It is hard for us to know whether you are. PreM symptoms can start 5-10 years before Menopause. I have had some PreM symptoms, but just irregular periods....everyone is different.

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C.C.

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I was supposed to be in menopause, (ovarian failure at age 37), they told me I had no eggs left. Had terrible hot flashes and irregular cycles. FSH level indicated menopause. Well, lo and behold, 6 years later, I was surprised with baby #2! Didn't even know i was pregnant until I was already 22 weeks. He is a blessing and we believe, a true miracle. I had him this past January at age 43, and he is perfect!I I am enjoying every minute w/ him. So you may have a surprise too! I would take a pg test and if neg, I woudl go see your gyno and have them test your FSH level and thyroid.
Good Luck!

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K.P.

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How old are you?

My aunt and uncle tried for 15 years to conceive and had given up on having a child. She was "late"... then missed a month... crampy, emotional... and at 41 assumed it was perimenopause. Eight months later my beautiful baby cousin was born! She was shocked and thrilled!

If you expected your period 5 days ago a home test would be accurate, so take one and find out! Either way you will need to schedule a doctor's appointment, so you might as well do that too!

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C.J.

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I was TOTALLY convinced I was in perimenopause at 39. Nope, wrong as HELL. We now call our "menopause" Alexander.

I was 5.5 months before I figured I was preganant. SO much for the cold, ear infection and possible Whooping Cough I went in to get taken care of.

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J.B.

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Wow.. Hope it's what you're hoping for. =D

I have girlfriends who are menopause and I'm in my early 30's.
Could go either way!

Best wishes!

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J.K.

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I thought I was perimenopausal and I ended up being pregnant. I was almost 40. =D I told my hubby not to worry because it was menopause. He believed me until the morning sickness kicked in. We decided that this wasn't a premenopausal symptom...LOL Good luck to you!!

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S.W.

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The average age for menopause these days is 51. I am 50 and have had barely any signs that it might be coming some day.

Take a test.

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V.W.

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Hm... have a friend who is 43 who thought she was starting menopause early. She is 4 months pregnant. Surprise!!!
So, yes it is a possibility... though her period stopped completely.

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C.R.

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I too had a brief period which only lasted 2 days and light. Nonetheless, I blew it off because I had taken a pregnancy test (don't remember if it was before or after my period) and it displayed a negative result.) I failed to get my period for the next two months before I figured out, I'm either pregnant or something is really wrong. Took another test which was around my third month, and this time it was positive. I guess I put a lot of faith in that first pregnancy test, so I would recommend you make an appointment with your GYN so there won't be any question if your pregnant. Good luck.

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C.C.

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The dollar store sells pregnancy tests, so if you are waiting because it's a big expense... If it were me, I'd want to know one way or the other.

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S.T.

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I would take a pregnancy test, because I was the same way, My periods were never regular though, n my period was late 2 days and i took a pg test, and it came out positive,, and I had the same symptoms you were having.

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