V.L.
You have a lot of good advice already, but I'll add my 2 cents... My nipples were flat when I started breastfeeding, and drawing them out via feeding and pumping had me in pain for several weeks. It was enough pain to give up, but I was so determined. Dont give up unless you've tried everything (including a visit to the doc and/or lactation consultant!) Breast shields, a bag of frozen peas, warm compresses, lanolin and even cabbage leaves (look it up!) are all options before throwing in the towel. It WILL get better, so do not give up!!! Im rooting for you! =)