My One Year Old Is Addicted to Mac and Cheese

Updated on April 20, 2008
C.C. asks from Fremont, CA
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I happened to introduce Gerber's graduate mac and cheese to my one year old daughter. She likes it so much that she has stopped eating all other solid food. She does not let me put anything else in her mouth. If I don't give her mac and cheese, she will go without having any solid food. Her pediatrician said there is very little I can do about this. He has heard of kids eating only mac and cheese for 4 years continuously.

I would appreciate if anyone has any suggestions for me. I am not able to give her any vegetables 'cause of this. I tried adding veggies to the gerber mac and cheese, but she refuses that. I tried making my own mac and cheese with/without veggies. She refuses to eat that too. She wants ONLY Gerber 'pasta shells in cheese', nothing else.
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So What Happened?

Thanks everyone for your advice! I did try not giving her mac and cheese at all for couple of days. But, she just goes hungry and survives just on milk. She gets more cranky as she is not full on such days.
I think I will just try what Noelle says. I hope she soon out grows this addiction. I plan to feed her what she wants, mean while will keep trying to give her other food too.

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N.M.

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I wouldn't worry too much about it for now, since she's bound to get tired of it after awhile. The rule at our house, though, is that the children have to take one bite of whatever it is they don't want to eat. (Yesterday my daughter took her required bite and ended up eating a whole serving--she was surprised that she liked it!) A one-year-old won't be able to reason with you about the one bite, but maybe you can find a way to slip it in, even if it's while she's crying and having a fit about it. I think it will help her at least keep familiar with a variety of tastes while she's on the mac and cheese addiction. By the way, we always tell our kids "Thanks for trying your one bite!" very pleasantly, even if they were having a fit. And you might want to ask your pediatrician about a multivitamin to help make up any missing nutrition for now. Good luck!

After reading the other responses, I thought I'd better add a little more to this.... Of course, as a parent you are in charge of what your child eats, and if you want to enforce that she eats what you give her when she doesn't want to, you'll likely be in for a battle. Even if you are passive agressive (no yelling, just firm with your stance) with the "you'll eat this or nothing" strategy, it's still exhausting. (At least it was for me--we had many fierce food battles between about 1 and 3 years old.) If you can succeed with it, wonderful.

As for me, I finally decided that food wasn't an important enough battle to lose my sanity over. I wish I had relaxed a little about the issue sooner. Our policy now is that I make sure there is one thing on the dinner/lunch menu that the kids will eat (even if it's just the carrots), and with everything else we have the taste rule. Also if they don't finish the required amount of food, it waits for them (because you know they'll be hungry in an hour--that's their only choice until it's done).

It would be good if you can find a balance between making her eat what you put in front of her and letting her have total control over the menu. Even with your one-year-old, there must be some reasonable eating rules you can set with her. Best wishes with it.

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L.H.

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Maybe try putting a little bit of baby food veggies in the Gerber's Mac & Cheese. That is what I do with my 3 & 4 year olds mac & cheese.

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B.L.

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She will eat when she gets hungry enough. Do not give her Mac & Cheese unless she eats something else first. She will not starve but she needs to know that you are the boss and you get to decide what she eats.

Your pediatrician is crazy that you cannot do anything about this. You are the mother and what you say goes. Oh you will definitely get some major fussing out of her but remember - children learn what we teach them and if you give in on this and let her have her way, she will continue to think she gets her way on everything.

Be strong - you can do it.

Good luck -

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L.S.

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She can't eat it if you don't buy it!

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T.V.

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Dear C.,

I'm with Lynn, your one year old is not the boss of you! Many babies her age are still nursing, so I assume she still takes a bottle. She will eat, when she is hungry and she will eat what you give her, if she is hungry. I would suggest rice cereal and squash or carrots, peas etc to start with. I would also consider changing pediatricians or at least getting a second medical opinion.

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A.C.

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My 4 yr old has been picky about veggies since I can remember. He drinks carrot juice, but will not eat a carrot in any shape. Last year, I bought "The Sneaky Chef" by Missy Chase Lapine. More recently I bought "Deceptively Delicious" by Jessica Seinfeld. Both have recipes for veggie and fruit purees. I make an orange puree from carrots and a sweet potato. I started by adding 1/4 cup to a box of mac and cheese. The puree doesn't change the flavor in a major way. I keep tiny containers of frozen puree in the freezer. I now add 1/2 cup to mac and cheese. If my sons sees the puree defrosting on the counter, he's like "yeah, you're making me macaroni and cheese?" Try it out. At least she'll be getting some veggies.

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