M.L.
Wow, I am not alone :-)
That is why I love this tool we have. Don't let the negative responses keep you from coming here to find support and ideas. When I send out my questions I always hold my breath knowing I might get a negative response and when I do I just go on to the other responses and always, there will always be more positive than negative.
I have a 3 year old going through the same thing, it's been several months of this and I also have a 18 mos old who wakes once for a bottle so Mommy doesn't get much sleep and boy am I feeling grumpy these days.
I too can't sleep with my daughter, she likes to sleep on me, I love her, I love to cuddle her but I am a better mommy the next day when I get sleep. My husband and I just this morning talked about trying something different to keep her in her bed, when I find something that works I will let you know. :-)
Hang in there, this too shall pass, at least this is what I keep telling myself. AND remember we aren't alone, sounds like most parents of 3 year old are going through this with us.
Hugs