Has the eye doctor confirmed that she truly has a lazy eye? I'm not questioning your doctor competence, but my son has what looks like a lazy eye but it is actually a condition called esotropia, where he uses each eye to focus differently. One eye focuses up close and the other far away. It looks like his eyes are lazy, because one or the other will drift off when he is looking at something. He wore glasses for a year, and when I took him to a different doctor, he took away the glasses and started him on special eye exercises to train his eyes to focus togehter correctly. He wears an eye patch during the exercises. It has been difficult for him to do them, especially because one eye is worse than the other, and he thinks the patch looks bad. I have tried different ways to get him to keep the patch on. I try to make it seem not so bad by telling him he looks like a cool pirate, and I even bought him some books about pirates. I have also gone online to show him other kids wearing. That has seemed to work. I don't know how long your child has been wearing the patch, but I think she will get used to it eventually. It's important to not get angry or frustrated with her, even though I know that can be hard. Just remember that she is probably feeling angry and frustrated too, and giving her constant reassurance that the patch will make her see better should make her feel better. I hope things work out for you and your daughter. BTW does the doctor have her doing any exercises to train her eye? Exercises have worked wonders on my son's eyes, even though it's only been a few months.