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Updated on March 22, 2012
V.G. asks from Birmingham, AL
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marital aid, AKA vibrator?? Or got any new exciting toys lately?
I just thought we could use a little excitement today:)

PS - We are all grown and have sex. No need to be a prude. So if you don't believe in owning sex toys, for whatever crazy reason, just DON"T RESPOND. You are more than welcome to start your own thread about why you don't have one:)

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T.K.

answers from Dallas on

I do, but it's gathering dust. :) I call him Rex - as in Rx - he's the prescription

I prefer a pulsating massaging shower head. That way I can get clean and dirty at the same time.

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T.F.

answers from Dallas on

My favorite one is called BOB.... battery operated boyfriend.

and yes, there are a couple others aloing with some DVD's that stay stashed away.

Nothing wrong with adding spice. We don't "need" to add excitement either... we just like to have fun.

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T.M.

answers from Philadelphia on

Need a new one... the couple that i have are either broken or stink! I'll take suggestions ;)

To the moms who have not tried one.... you are missing out on a massive big O. One that a hubby cant give.....lol! It does not mean that there is anything wrong with marriage or sex life. It is just fun :)

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J.H.

answers from Birmingham on

That reminds me, I need to buy batteries on the way home...

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A.S.

answers from Kansas City on

I do! We actually bought it together when we were on an overnight trip away from the kids. Hubby wasn't sold on the idea of using it on him, but really liked the idea of using it on me...I asked him to at least try it, and surprise surprise, he enjoys it occasionally!

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N.C.

answers from Rockford on

Hehehe...most of my friends own "toolboxes" that are well stocked, but I do have one friend who's husband is a non-believer. O well...too bad for him, right? LOL!

Yes, we got a new toy not so long ago...I DO like it! I even mailed a pocket size "toy" to a friend I don't get to see too often cause I thought it was funny! She loved it! (newly divorced!)

And I have gone toy shopping w/ another friend who just got divorced to see what she could add to her collection! hehe! It's all in fun, right? :)

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S.L.

answers from Champaign on

we have a few BUT my favorate one I have (and my husbands too), you hook to you ipod or mp3 player - and it vibrates to the sound of the music, fast & slow, short burst of vibration - long burst - ah, you get the idea ... it's a little over a year old now and doens't work the best... guess it's time we get something new :)

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E.D.

answers from Seattle on

Sure I do.

I was just in the bay area and stopped over at good vibrations (love that shop - the employees are incredibly professional and knowledge). They were giving away free vibrators for their store's anniversary celebration/promotion so hooray for Ephie, I have a new vibrator.

I've got to say, more than I like vibrators (they're fun, but I can take 'em or leave 'em), I like lube. Lube makes everything/anything much, much more enjoyable. Next time I'm going silicone. So that will be my next 'fun' purchase.

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M..

answers from Detroit on

No! {{{Sigh}}}

My husband thinks I would never talk to him again if I did, which today would be tempting...

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J.M.

answers from Philadelphia on

Yes. A tiny little one the size of a big eraser to use to help things along and the the regular one for other times.

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⊱.H.

answers from Spokane on

Yup! We have a variety :)
my favorite is a tiny little battery operated one that tucks into a special pair of panties that has its own remote control! It's fun to wear them to a party or something then slip the remote into my hubby's hand. SO much fun!

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C.N.

answers from Baton Rouge on

I have a three-speed ribbed vibrator, a pair of handcuffs, and edible oils.

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L..

answers from Roanoke on

Yep, we have one, but we haven't gotten anything new lately. In fact, I think we may be due for a new one soon...::gears turning::

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V.W.

answers from Minneapolis on

Yes, his name is Mr. G (It's a long story). He is way more powerful than your typical vibrator because he has to be plugged in to use (That is his only fault... Not his powerfullness but his "restrictions")

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E.A.

answers from Erie on

I find it very sad that there are men that are threatened by sex toys. But I guess they are lucky if they find women who will tolerate it, so kudos to the ladies who go without so their men don't feel like they have small penises (or whatever). Not that there is anything wrong with small penises, because there isn't. I've been with men with micros, and they know how to use their hands and tongues brilliantly. :D
Yes, we have lots of toys and things, though not everything I want. No, I'm not going to tell you about them, we're pretty kinky. We don't use them all the time, and we don't like edible "products". We're just too picky about the way things taste, so it's real food if we use anything like that.

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C.W.

answers from Lynchburg on

Hi V.-

I had gotten one YEARS ago from my bachelorette party...and frankly had forgotten all about it. Years later, when kiddos were helping to pack up the house (post divorce) my eldest daughter (then maybe 15 ish) found it!!

I was mortified! lol

Needless to say I tossed it out. Probably the ONE time in my life I was speechless...lol...But some 'teachable moments' are best ignored!

Best Luck!
michele/cat

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E.S.

answers from New York on

Yuppers. We have different sex drives. I'm in my prime and have the drive of an adolescent! DH actually bought it for me since I was too shy to go into the store :-)

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J.G.

answers from Oklahoma City on

LOL I am not married but do have a boyfriend. We don't use them together but I use them on my own. I also really like the shower head. He doesn't have any issue if we use them in bed but as of right now we are still pretty early on in our relationship and just haven't gotten there yet. I love mine though, in fact I am about or order a new one :)

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K.M.

answers from Chicago on

Had one ... need to replace it - my dog go to it (don't ask). However, yes I had one, maybe I can read further and get some ideas on something new/different I have always gone for the same good old standby. It is nice for solo when your man is gone a lot OR together for something different.

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A.M.

answers from Kansas City on

i have had a couple. thanks for reminding me! hey variety is the spice of life....and i have a hot date tonight! :)

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L.U.

answers from Seattle on

Nope....but not because I don't think it would be fun! I used to have one, but not anymore. My husband is the one that doesn't want to bring it in the bedroom and that's fine. He feels threatened by it I guess. For right now we don't need to add any excitement. :)
L.

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K.M.

answers from Oklahoma City on

I never had one before I started dating my (now) husband. When we were first starting to get physical, he asked me about it and seemed mortified that I didn't have one! I dunno, I just figured I didn't need it...my fingers worked good enough ;) So he surprised me with one. I can't think of what it's called...it does have a cord and several attachments. It looks like a smaller version of a back massager I saw once.

I use it sometimes but not very often. It's fun but kind of a pain to get it out, clean it up when I'm done and put it away again. Whenever I use it I think, I should use this more often. But then I don't :)

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A.G.

answers from Houston on

Yes a little buzzy thing I use as a prelude with the hubby.

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B..

answers from Dallas on

Nope, don't need one! I guess my marriage doesn't need to be "aided?" I don't know, I just never felt the need. Not that I care if other people do, it's just not my thing!

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