Ideas/solutions for SAHM

Updated on June 04, 2009
M.B. asks from Coeur d Alene, ID
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I stay home with my 21 month old. My husband is the only one with the outside income. Putting my child in daycare is not an option, and money is very tight. Does anyone have ideas or suggestions for a very part-time at home income for me or ways in which to handle the one income more effectivley? Any ideas about saving money on food, clothing, baby stuff ie; diapers? I feel that we are pretty frugal but maybe there's something I'm not seeing. Thanks for your suggestions.

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K.G.

answers from Medford on

Hi there. My name is K. and I too am a stay a home mom of 3. I have searched out different ways to make money online and I have found this wonderful website, cashcrate. They charge nothing to join , and all their offers are 100% free. I created a separate email address to complete the offers with, then my normal email doesn't get cluttered with junk.
Here is the link to sign up. It is very easy and legitimate. http://cashcrate.com/21366

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D.M.

answers from Sacramento on

Hi, M.~

I've read thru the wonderful suggestions that you've gotten so far. One more thought that I have is trying a work at home business. I started working from home about a month ago and it's nice having the extra incom. If you are interested in learning more, please take a look at my website...

www.mommiescanworkathome.com

Thanks!
D.

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C.T.

answers from Seattle on

Hi M.,

Know that you're not alone. The average American household has over $9k in credit card debt. Almost everyone I know is struggling.

I highly recommend Dave Ramsey's book The Total Money Makeover. I work with a health and wellness company committed to helping people in ALL areas of wellness (physical, environmental, and financial) and we're reading this book together as part of that. Dave has some really radical and great points (I'm only on chapter 7 right now but he's making sense).

I work from home and have 4 y/o virtual twins. I am helping families like yours every week. What I do may or may not be of interest to you but I invite you to check out my website and if you'd like more information I'd be happy to schedule some time to talk with you.

I encourage you to look carefully at the compensation plan of any thing that crosses your path. I've tried many home businesses in the past and some are so confusing to understand people really don't know what they're getting into until it's too late.

Please check out my listing here on mamsource: http://mamasource.com/business/3482040865927462913
or visit my website directly at http://www.BeHappierAtHome.com

Best of luck to you!

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C.S.

answers from Spokane on

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K.A.

answers from Portland on

I am a stay at home mother of three beautiful girls (twins 2yrs and a 5mo) I looked into many different in-home businesses as my husband and I live on his teachers salary. I now work around my children and my husbands schedule approximately 4 nights a month through a business called Private Quarters selling the finest quality of linens, bath and spa items. This last month I brought in 1,200 to our family income! This was a company I did not have to invest much into starting this business at all! Within the first month recieved back what I invested as well as extra spending money for diapers and wipes! I have only reeped the rewards of staying at home and providing people with wonderful things for the bedroom linens and bath/spa.
Check out my web site at K..privatequarters.net. You can e-mail me at ____@____.com if you have any questions. It really is a company that I am proud to represent and allows the flexibility that us moms need!

It doesn't have to be that hard to stay at home and boy do I know the struggles before I made the decision to join this company! Whatever you decide I want to encourage you on being such a good mom in wanting the best for your family!

K.

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J.H.

answers from Spokane on

Hi M.....did you find any work at home yet?
:>) J.

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R.C.

answers from Seattle on

Hi M.,

I too am a SAHM and I love it my daughter is 6 and I have two older children already left the nest, during my years I've worked outside the home, NOT A GOOD IDEA FOR ME.
I am a Mary Kay consultant, and I would love to introduce you to this career I work around my family Mary Kay believes GOD 1ST, FAMILY, THEN CAREER/JOB!

I Just Love it, my daughter now helps keep me motivated contact me for a free no obligation infomercial(ha ha ha)

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B.G.

answers from Seattle on

Hi M.,

I recommend Mary Hunt's book "Live Your Life for Half the Price", it has a ton of good tips and idea. Really made a difference for my daughter. She's been a sahm for about 9 years now. Mary Hunt also has a website it is www.cheapskatemonthly.com and is really useful.

If you are still looking for some extra income also, my daughter is a star leader with Silpada Designs Jewelry and is doing very well and is always looking to help mom's be more financially stable in their lives. Her website is www.mysilpada.com/erica.salsbury , you can take a look at things and maybe give her a call.
But I definitely recommend Mary Hunt's information!!

Good luck!

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S.G.

answers from Spokane on

Hi M.,

I have saved quite a bit of money by going halves with cloth diapers and disposables. There are some good cloth diapers at wal-mart called Kushies (you can order them online and have them shipped site-to-store for free!), which are cloth on the inside and water proof on the outside. I got 5 of them for $30.00. I pretty much have my son wear them at home and then I put disposables on when we're out and about or when I don't feel like washing diapers for a while. I get my disposables from www.diapers.com; you buy in bulk so you don't run out fast, they are way cheaper than at the store, you can get free shipping if you spend more than $50.00 (and there are more things than diapers there too, there's diaper rash ointment, feeding supplies, etc.), and if you are a first time customer, you can type "MOTHER" into the promotions box when you check out, and you get $10.00 off your order.

Another thing I did was help a friend of mine with an in-home business by doing some paperwork for her, and I got free cleaning products as a result. She's looking for women who want to make extra money from home, and I really love her business model. The products are concentrated and you really save money with them, and they are safer than the chemicals you get at the store (I'm sure your little guy is probably into all the cupboards and stuff! These products are so safe that the FDA hasn't required them to use child proof caps!). I get their glass cleaner for $5.25, it comes with a sprayer bottle that you mix the product with water in, and it makes four windex sized spray bottles... that lasts me all year long!

Another way I save money, is by completely budgeting our grocery spending, and then we have things that we buy every time my hubby gets his paycheck. We stream right through the grocery store, get the regular items and a couple novelty items that we budgeted for, and then we DON'T buy anything on the fly. No impulse buying, nada. We've got our grocery budget down to $300.00 a month, and we keep it that way by eating healthier, no junk food, no empty calories, we make every food dollar count. :-D Buying concentrated juices that you can mix with water, buying bigger packages of meat that you can separate and re-store in your freezer, and buying good quality frozen veggies (which we steam to cook) are all ways that I save too.

Hope that all helps!

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R.E.

answers from Seattle on

Hi M.,
How is staying at home working for you? Has your situation changed?
I would love to share with you how I was able to walk away from Corporate America and earn a real income without being ripped off. If you are interested in seeing if this is a good fit for you or not, email me at ____@____.com

Make it a great day!
R.

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D.M.

answers from Anchorage on

Sure we have ideas, lol.
=On the back of each product is a phone number/website for questions and coments. Call or write, ask to be put on the mailing list, and you can get coupons directly from that company. Pick products you use often as your time is precious too!
=Check out crafting sites to see if you could make somethings at home to sell at bazars and such for your special occasion money.
=Do a websearch for frugal living- lots of sites! And for anything in your area, garden clubs, co-ops, ect.
=Buy whole milk and half the gallon with water, viola 2% for half the price.
=Good investments are - a sewing machine (blankets and such are easy and fabric is commonly found at 2nd hand stores), a chest freezer (good deal? stock up!), energy efficiant appliances.
=Find all the clearence aisles at your stores and shop there first. I shop birthdays 2+ months in advance and Christmas starts January 1st! I have a special closet shelf for these things and a few extra great deals just incase I have forgotten something or we have a kids b-day party when money is tight.

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M.E.

answers from Portland on

Hi M.! You remind me of my friend Sara, who was in exactly the same boat! Check out the following 20 minute presentation: www.presentation4women.com and if you are interested in learning more, please contact me at ____@____.com. I am working my way towards being a SAHM:-) I hope you find what you're looking for!!

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J.C.

answers from Seattle on

Sometimes local MOPS groups and bible study groups will pay for childcare during meetings and you could have your child with you. Contact the groups in your area.

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K.I.

answers from Spokane on

First I would like to say I was just in the same position. We needed help this summer and were on a very tight budget.

So here are my suggestions...I got a very part time job at the local Albertsons. I was the baker in the bakery and my hours were 4a-8am. I know that it sounds terrible and it was but you got to do what you got to do. That way I was home at the time my hubby had to leave work. He tweaked his schedule and asked if he could work 9a-6p instead of 8-5p. It wasnt very much money @$130 a week but that was our grocery money, which helped out Hugely. Once a week shopping and it pains me to say this but we shopped and still do at the walmart for food. It is so cheap if you get the generic stuff, which surprisingly some of it isnt that bad. I am or was I should say not a generic girl so this was hard for me and took some real getting used to. We are a family of 4 but sometimes 6 or 8 depending on nephews and step kids and we came up with good healthy meals.
They have great deals on bags of frozen chicken breasts for $5.00! You can do enchiladas, soup, all sorts of things with chicken, if you need any recipes I would be happy to share. They also have 50 packs of diapers for $10.
It sucked for us all this summer but my hubby got a raise and slowly it is getting better. We are still not out of the woods yet but if you and your hubby try to laugh about it, it makes it easier...we did!

I cant wait till I can afford the expensive great smelling laundry soap and fabric softner again:)! It is amazing what you learn about yourself when you really have to sacrifice.

I am sure it goes without saying but we cut out any un-necessary shopping, or eating out!

Good luck!

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T.S.

answers from Yakima on

M.,
I know exactly how you feel. I have been a SAHM for 2 1/2 years. Money is very tight with my husband being the only income available. Here are some things that I do that may help you out. First Sunday paper...COUPONS! If you use diapers, formula etc. You can go to their websites and sign up for coupons also. Shop Goodwill for good deals on gently used clothing. Watch your favorite grocery store for their weekly ads and buy on sale when you can. You can also sell things on Craigs list or ebay. Instead of having a yard sale this past summer I sold on ebay and made much more money than I would of at a yard sale. Just find things around the house that are in good shape that you no longer use or want. I also sell Mary Kay cosemtics, which is great for extra spending money for birthdays and Christmas. Hope this helps yoou with some other ideas. It can be tight but so worth it!!!! Good luck!

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A.R.

answers from Portland on

Hi :)
I don't have much to say after the great suggestions already made, but I would like to add that car insurance is often one of those things we don't think about as an added expense. You should definitely look into Wawanesa.. their number is 1-800-438-4300. They are the best company I have ever had. They even covered me in an accident when I was late on the payment!! And they cost me half as much as I was previously paying with Progressive {and Progressive was cheaper than anywhere else for me}. So I just wanted to give you a heads up :) Could save you alot of money.. it's saving us $90 a month.
A.

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S.S.

answers from Seattle on

Hi M....check out www.praibeautyproducts.com. It's my website that I've created to promote my business. I have just started promoting PRAI Beauty skin care products and make anywhere from $500-$1000 a month just doing a few shows a month. The products are fantastic and the company is amazing. Work as little or as much as you want. Most of my beauty events are done in the evenings in approx. 2 hours. Works out very nicely!! You decide how many beauty events you want to do each month and go from there. I'm looking for others to join my team of beauty advisors across the country and I would love to help you be as successful and I have been!! Have a terrific evening!!

S., PRAI Beauty Advisor.

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D.B.

answers from Bellingham on

Hi M.. I'm a SAHM with my 5 year old son. My husband and I have two at-home incomes. My son has never been in daycare and I have the same belief as you that this is not an option. He is in private school kindergarten and it's costly but worth it. The extra income covers the cost of his schooling and more. I have a preview of the company that I'd like to send you via your e-mail address. It's a 5 year old company out of Utah, it's an incredible success story called XanGo. It's very important that you get the facts about this company. It's very easy, teachable, done at your time, and can create the income that you need. Please e-mail me at ____@____.com so I can e-mail you a video about XanGo. Best of wishes to you and your family.

D. B

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J.S.

answers from Portland on

Hi M.,
I have been in your position many times. When times were really tough with my family and I would have to work, I worked an opposite shift as my husband. I didn't get to see him much but we didn't have the extra expense of day care. Something you might want to check into is Blessed Toys. I am an independent messenger (rep) for them. It's an awesome company and the toys are wonderful! Here's the link to my website.
http://www.blessedtoys.com/members/jsisco/
You can email me if you have any questions at
____@____.com

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C.N.

answers from Seattle on

check out freecycle.org and also check out craigslist.com in the free section. If you are crafty, you can make and sell things on Craiglist. Best of luck to you!

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J.T.

answers from Louisville on

M., I completely understand how you feel. My problem, is that I have to work full time outside the home and send all three of my kiddos to daycare. My cousin did the same with her 6 kids until she found Arbonne International. After 4 months she quit her job as a real estate agent and only does Arbonne. She's able to work from home and when she does have a presentation, it's when her husband is at home for the kids. She makes about 9000/month and I currently make between 700/1000 a month, still working full time, from Arbonne. You can look at www.arbonne.com and click on Opportunity Presentation, on the far right side of the page. It gives you information on the company and what it has to offer you. Our team does free training and complete support. We don't get you signed up and then run away from you! It's minimal start up too, only 36.00 with shipping and tax included. Check it out and let me know what you think. I can even meet with you if you want and discuss any questions or concerns. Hope this helps.

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M.M.

answers from Portland on

Hi M.,
Another good idea is http://www.freecycle.org You can post for things on there like clothing for your little one or you guys and whatever other things you might need (diaper coupons). It's also a great site to get rid of stuff you have laying around that you don't want but don't have the time to take it to Goodwill or just want to give away and not want in the land fills. One person's junk is another's treasure. Another thing that I did when my kids were little is sell their old clothes that weren't stained and I didn't want to keep on Ebay for a little extra cash. Just a couple ideas. Hope that helps!
M.

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C.W.

answers from Seattle on

I don't know if this would work for you but I volunteer at a local food bank once a week. They let me bring my daughter with me. At the food bank there is always food that will just get thrown away if no one takes it so they encourage me to help myself. Now that money has been tight I've been going thru the whole line like everyone else but even if you aren't comfortable with that you can usually get unlimited bread and some produce. Also have you heard of freecycle.org? There is one here in Bothell. People post things that they are getting rid of and they can be things that you need like baby clothes etc. There is no charge. You just sign up and you'll start getting emails from members who are looking for a home for their stuff. You can also post requests for something that you are looking for. Craig's list has a "free" section too so I check them every so often.

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E.R.

answers from Medford on

You could watch another child. Just one would give you about $450 a month (full time). I can help you with that if you want.

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W.B.

answers from Portland on

One of the blogs I read recently started a new blog about just this topic. She's got some great ideas about how to use coupons to save money. Here's the link:

http://sahmmoney.blogspot.com/

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