Ideas for a 7 Yr Old Birthday Party.

Updated on March 14, 2009
T.M. asks from Brighton, MI
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My son will be 7 next week and he wants to have some of his friends over to stay the night for his birthday party. Is he still too young for this. I know that boys have a ton of energy and we will be in for a very busy night but he wants them to come over for pizza, movies, wii, cake and ice cream. He has stayed over at friends before and done just fine. I am just looking for input from anyone that has had experience with this. I am also looking for inexpensive ideas of what to do for his party. Thanks for your help.

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L.L.

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My children, especially liked playing musical washcloths which is like musical chairs, but takes up way less room. Also we painted t-shirts for an activity. Ask each guest to bring a white T-shirt. Quickly wash and dry them while the children eat or play. They then can use fabric paint on them any way they chose. Cut out cardboards to put inside each to prevent bleed through to the back side or worse yet on the surface you are using. Going to a local indoor pool is also fun and cheap.

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M.T.

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I have bbg triplets who will be 7 in June. Last year we had a small party with several kids and then I let each of them invite one child to spend the night. It went pretty well. I did have one of the boys go home at about 11:00 pm but it still went well. The girls played dress up and the boys played the PS2, cars, games, watched tv. I don't think you should have much of a problem.

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A.G.

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I don't think he is too young for this type of party but here are some tips I've learned over the years with sleepover parties:

1)limit the number of guests to about 6 for this age group
2)even numbers work better than odd so that even if kids pair off to play, it's less likely that someone will be left out
3)save the movie until the end of the night as settle in time before lights out and be sure to choose something that all the parents of the other children attending would approve of as their home rules may be different from yours
4)plan a little scheduled/structured time and some free time for play
5)boys this age usually enjoy scavenger hunts and that is something you can do very inexpensively indoors or out in the yard if weather permits
6)go into this with as much patience as you can muster, a watchful eye (even when you are trying to let them have a little space), and the understanding that it will take them awhile to settle in and fall asleep
7) another fun thing to do is an "indoor" campout - you can set up a small tent if available, make microwavable smores or make trailmix for a healthier option
8) even boys like to do crafts so maybe think of something they can be creative with as a back up plan in case of boredom or if you feel a supervised activity is needed
9) Just my opinion, but I would keep the wii out of the mix until he's a little older (save it for one on one playdates instead) as only a few can play at a time anyway and the rest will be sitting there waiting...of course you know your son and his friends best and can make that determination...it's just a very expensive investment and kids get excitable in groups which can lead to accidents
10) when everyone arrives, go over a few simple but firm rules for your household - you want this to be fun! so don't go overboard with expectations but be sure to fill them in on your key rules (this works well to do while they are eating the pizza as they can listen while they chew - haha)
11) offer a 1/2 sleepover for those boys that may want to celebrate but just aren't comfortable sleeping away from home yet...they could stay for some fun and be picked up around 10pm or so

GOOD LUCK! HAVE FUN AND HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO YOUR LITTLE GUY!

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C.H.

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I can help wÍth one part of your question. Check out www.birthdaypartyideas.com for some great ideas. It is organized by theme so hopefully u can find something!

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S.S.

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And so it begins! We absolutely had sleepovers at that age. Have fun! Remember though, it's not really a SLEEP over. It's more a play all night until you colapse party.

:) S.

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S.R.

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Try having a "pajama" party instead of a sleep over. The kids can be invited to cover over in the evening and stay a little later than their normal bedtime. While they're at the party they can get into their pjs and all lay down on sleeping bags (they can bring or maybe you have) to watch the movie and have some popcorn. And, if you happen to have a large space...set up a tent that they can play in.
They'll have the fun of pj time and a later night without having a sleep over; which, as you observe, is a bit too much for this age. Even at this young age, when it is time, a one-on-one sleep over is probably more appropriate than a group event until they're older. Good luck!

Mom of a 6-year old girl

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