Hi J.,
I agree with the end of Pamela's response to you, the part about your husband doing his part. I think women a lot of times don't appreciate things that men do things that are built into them biologically. Just like women "nesting", men tend to want to boost up the provisions when a baby is due. I know my d/h was eager to buy a home when we had our first born. The funny thing is, we never lived in it as we were over seas for almost 16 years. It did provide inexpensive housing for his brothers family all these years, but that is another story! lol
Anyway, I think it provided my d/h with a sense of security he craved at the time. You know, just covering his bases just in case he was forced to leave the military. I would try to be supportive of your husband being the best he can be, even if he doesn't know how to articulate what it is that is driving him. He's a male, let him be the MAN he wants to be for his family. Remember, he may not always understand you either, but supports you none the less. In the end, just look at the positive side...He WANTS to be a good provider. Do not "what if" yourself to death because the "what is" is much more important. ;)
If financial concerns are at the root of his desire to work so close to the baby's due date, perhaps you might be interested in working from home. Just something to put in your pocket for later. I represent a very generous jewelry company and can offer you a No Investment work from home opportunity. I would love to help you be with your bundle of joy AND have extra money to buy all those diapers you will be needing in the not too distant future!
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Best wishes for a speedy delivery!
T.
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