i agree with sandy in that deliberately chosing a "creative" name is going to guarantee that people will mispronounce and or misspell it. you don't say whether this is your daughter, but if it is, the person who made the decision shouldn't really be the one "going nuts" when people mispronounce a unique name. i'd say the person who was named that, is the only one who has the right to get frustrated - she didn't have a choice. and unfortunately, she can't really blame the mis-pronounc-ER, but rather the frustration will probably go back on the person who gave her the frustrating name. just saying!
i actually think it's a really pretty name, for the record. but with some of these more creative names that are so "in" right now, you have to accept a certain amount of confusion.
the "Y" in it makes me think this should be "uh- LAY -nah" hope that's right! if not, sorry! for the record, i don't see what the big deal is, if i mispronounce someone's name, i'd hope they would politely correct me. i don't WANT to say it wrong, it's an honest mistake. not like someone would mispronounce it deliberately...