Help, I Have the Sorest Nipples Ever!

There is a product called Soothies gel pads and they are AMAZING! It is a gel pad that you put in the fridge so that when you put them on they are cool and really help that burning feeling (and cracked nipples too). They are also reusable. You can find them at most Lactation centers.

Good luck and I hope they help.
Jen

I had the same thing and it's awful and I started to dread it and cry during nursing too due to the intense pain! I had a hard time from about 1.5 weeks until 7 weeks and then things sort of fell into place for us. I'm not sure if it was because my baby was a bit small at birth or my supply was too much so her latch was wrong or what. I also went to a lactation consultant twice which helped. I'm not sure if others recommended this in the postings but I tried Soothies (sold at Newborn Connections in SF or Walgreens and probably other drugstores and online) and they are really nice. They keep the nipple moist (wet healing) to prevent scabbing. They say to wash off your nipples before pumping or nursing so I'm not if what's on them is bad but I was desperate! Also, rubbing breastmilk on your nipples after nursing helps with healing. I actually pumped and bottle fed breastmilk to get relief and my baby was ok with switching between bottle and breast. Lactation consultants I know have actually recommended starting giving babies bottles at 4 weeks so they are used to it anyway. Good for you keeping up with it even though it's hard. No matter what you end up having to do be kind to yourself and know you're doing the best you can for your baby and you're a great Mom!

Hi,
I am not sure what you have tried, but the first thing to try is Lansinoh (available at Target). It is a very heavy moisturizer that is non-toxic and babes don't seem to mind it all. I can not remember what it is but is something very basic.
The next thing to try is a nursing pillow. I think the Breast Friend pillow is far superior to the boppy. I think it is better b/c it is more supportive for the baby and your back. You can also use a variety of pillows. Nursing in the same spot until the two of you really get the hang of it helps also.
Tyring different positions such as the football hold is helpful to. You can find it demonstrated in books and I am sure you can find it shown on web sites too.
I must tell you that nursing is all natural and is touted as being "easy." It is a myth. I have so many friends who have had problems. Most of us have two or three children and it is seems to be a new challenge with each child. I am not telling you this to make you think it is not worth it to nurse. But to let you know that you are not all alone. I am sure you will get lots of advice. Stick with it and it does get better. I have stuck through the pain, mastitis and eventually after a while a month with my daughter and six weeks with my son nursed/ pumped easily for one year with each.
Good Luck!
Kathryn

Try Polysporin. It was recommended by a lactation consultant and really helps the healing process whenever my nipples get sore and irritated. Make sure you are buying Polysporin, not Neosporin. The generic brand works just fine and it is safe for baby.

Lanolin...works like a charm. You can find it at target in the baby isle and it is in a purple container.

The thing that helped me the most was being sure to apply Lansinoh lanolin (you can find it at Target in a purple tube with the nursing supplies) directly to my nursing pads before putting them in my nursing bra. Also, giving your breasts a little time to air out every day is good. AND really make sure you've got your whole areola as far in his mouth as possible...your class should help with that. Also, I had some painful cracking when my son was three weeks old and it helped to give him a bottle once a day to give myself a break. I just pumped (which was a little easier on my breasts) and it was great for my son and husband to have that time together and I didn't have any trouble getting him on the breast again. Good luck to you and hang in there!

Hi J.,
I wouldn't wait for the Thursday class...I would call a local Lactation Consultant ASAP who can help you track down the cause.

I am a Lactation Consultant and generally speaking when all has been well and there have been no issues for a time - when soreness starts again it is usually thrush (yeast). There are many ways to treat for this and it is best to talk to an LC who knows thrush well and doesn't just dismiss it as latch issues. Burning pain is a common sign of thrush - the pain doesn't go away after nursing and it gets to the point that even thinking about touching the nipples makes them hurt! The skin can tear as it becomes fragile due to yeast overgrowth.

Treatments: really basic: Lanolins are useless for this type of situation, gel pads will harbor thrush and can make it worse, bra pads will rub and irritate. You need air exposure, yeast treatment (like miconozole cream or gentian violet) and you need to talk to someone who can tell you how to properly treat yourself AND your baby. If this is thrush - he has it too...even if he doesn't show signs.

I am really sorry you are dealing with this...call an LC in your area...go to www.kellymom.com or www.ilca.org to find one. You can also call me if you would like. :) I'm happy to talk to you and help you track down what is happening...no charge for phone calls. :)

Good luck to you - but seriously - don't wait until Thursday...if you are dreading feeding now...you'll be dreading it more by then...I have personal experience with that one...

Warmly,
J. Simpson, IBCLC, CIIM
www.breastfeedingnetwork.net
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Fresh air and a little sun can help. I had many problems but the best thing I did was find a great lactation specialist. It is so important to have a professional to help, the best ones know EVERYTHING. Ask at your hospital, some have drop in breastfeeding circles, or call a midwife. If your breasts are still sore and cracked there are things you can do to change the way he is nursing to make it more comfortable. Breastfeeding can be very difficult, it takes a lot of determination. But it is totally worth it, keep up the good work.

Yes, this happened to me too. Here's what I did:

1. Get nipple shields. I couldn't nurse on my left side without one. My son refused it after three months when he had grown a little bigger and didn't have as much trouble latching on.

2. Use Lansinoh cream.

3. Cabbage leaves in your bra. Gross, but rather surprisingly soothing.

4. Try (and fail) to continue to teach your infant to latch on better. Go to a lactation consultant and see if she can help.

I've been nursing my son for 2 and 1/2 years now. It only hurt the first month.

A natural way to relieve the dryness is to rub your own milk on your nipples when you are done nursing. You don't need a lot just enough to cover your nipples and let it dry. It sounds kind of funny but my lactation specialist told me to do this and it worked! It might take a few times of doing this before it starts kicking in. Good nursing pads will also make a difference-never let them get too moist. Good luck!
L.

J.,

There is a prduct called Lansinoh that is made for your exact problem. I nursed my last two and it saved me. It's sold over the counter at most pharmacies or grocey stores.

When you attend your nursing class they will probably recommend it also!

Best wishes and congratulations!

T. J

Hi J.,
Hang in there it will get better! The breastfeeding class is a great idea, they are awesome there. In the meantime, make sure you are using a lot of that nipple cream (Baby's R Us) after everytime you breastfeed and whenever else you think about it...really. Also try taking a cabbage leaf from your fridge and placing it inside your bra. This is like heaven..the coolness helps with the pain and any swelling. Hang in there, the pain will go away!
Good luck,
K. N

Hi J.,

Ouch, I feel for you. My nipples took a while to "toughen up" also and I started to dread breastfeeding, then felt guilty about dreading it...interesting the mental trips we take sometimes. Anyway, like some of the other women suggested, I would try breastmilk to help any healing that needs to take place. Also, Medela makes these funny looking hard plastic things with holes in them that you place over your nipple and under your bra that keep anything from touching/rubbing them called therashells. They really saved me! I understand you aren't supposed to use them too long but they will help while your nipples make the adjustment. Might be that you don't have a proper latch or it might just be that you have a vigorous eater with a strong clamp (that was my case).

Hang in there, it will get better!!!

HI J.:

I'm 63 and CLEARLY remember that feeling! (smile) VASELINE, lots and lots of VASELINE.

Hello J.,

Unfortunataly,I know exactly how you feel. Since you continue to breast feed, your nipples will not get a chance to fully heal. When I was in the hospital they offerd me a soothing medication that was safe for the baby to digest. It didnt totaly cure it but it was very soothing. You may want to ask your doctor or pharmacy about it. I dont remember what its called but I'm sure they will know what your talking about.. Good Luck!

I Used these natural lanolin breast pads from Denmark. They saved my life. Any pain, cracked, bleeding, they seemed to make it go away. They are naturally antibacterial since they are made from the special wool. If you have these you do not need the lanolin cream as this is the natural source. Here is the website. I recommend for every new Mom!!!
http://www.danishwool.com/products/item/nursing_pads.html

Good Luck,
J. S.

Get the nipple ointment Lanolin (I think it's by Medella) and some washable cotton breast pads (wash them before you use them the first time).

Lanolin is completely safe for baby to ingest, and feels wonderful on sore nipples. Rub some milk on nipples first. You should heal up in a few days if latching is going correctly.

Sounds like you are possibly getting blanched nipples. the baby is latching mainly to the nipple and not enough to the breast. That was happening to me and it's all a matter of the baby latching correctly. If this is what's wrong, it should go away when the latch is corrected. Best to be sure though by visiting a local LLL meeting or a lactation consultant. I was lucky and have good experiences with both.

ALSO... in the mean time... Buy some of those "soothie" gel packs. Those were such a life saver. At first I think Gerber was the only one that made them, but I think one of the breastpump companies makes them now... I think Medela? If you do a search on gel packs for sore nipples I would think it would bring it up. I know when I was first with my son nursing they only had them at wal mart but i think they are carrried more places now. good luck!!

Hi Jenny,

So sorry to hear you have this problem - and kudos to you for hanging in there! Don't give up!!!! I haven't had the same problem personally, but it sounds like something I've heard from other BF moms - sounds like it could be thrush, or a candida outbreak (yeast). If so - you and baby can pass it back and forth. However, you don't need to stop nursing (in fact the opposite is true) but you do need to treat both you and baby - this can be dealt with and is not that uncommon of a problem. What I remember being mentioned as an effective natural remedy was grapefruit seed extract (seriously). There are other things that may be tried but I'd try the GSE first if it were me...the moms I know all swear by it.

Here are a few links about thrush/candida symptoms and treatment w/GSE (and possibly other things too):

http://www.ehow.com/how_###-###-####_thrush-grapefruit-se...:

http://www.drjaygordon.com/development/bf/thrush.asp

http://www.breastfeedingmums.com/dr_jack_newman_candida_p...

I know this is discouraging - pain is not fun! - but have faith this will get better and do keep at it - your baby is very new so your nursing relationship has just begun. He'll need your nourishment for a long time to come; just realize this is one little setback but IT IS TREATABLE!

You might want to seek out a breastfeeding moms list online (I belong to ____@____.com) and get more advice/tips there as well. Mamasource is a great resource but not always a very pro-BF place depending on the respondents...many people are far too quick to buy into the "just give 'em formula" baloney and make the mistake of shortchanging their babies and themselves on good nutrition and all the other proven benefits of human breastmilk.

Best of luck in dealing with the problem (which I do think is thrush) - you're a great mom to your son, keep on keeping on!!! :)

Blessings,

S.

If the problem isn't thrush I would also recommend Lansinoh. I usually get some relief within a couple of hours of putting it on.
I have also read that putting a little breast milk on the nipples after you are done nursing will help with the soreness.
(Both of the above work for me.)

Hi!
I feel so sorry for you,that is so painful. My bet is that something is wrong when he latches, i.e he is too much on the side or too high up or whatever. I would recommend you to contact a lactation nurse so that she can help you make it right again. This website is great with a lot of advice:
http://www.breastfeeding.com/
They also have great movies you can check out! (They really helped me!) Don't wait til Thursday, that is too long! And hang in there, with some help it will work out really quickly.

Hi jenny.
I was like that too for the first 2 months of breastfeeding. I think your body is still ajusting to having a little person nursing on you. I nursed my sons for 19 months and I am also planning to do the same for my 3rd son. Just hang in there it will get better. I also used Lansinoh cream and pads, it helped a lot to get past the pain.

Wow! You took me back to when my son & I went through this! I was diagnosed with a level 3 nipple infection (the 2nd worst you can have) when my son was 2 1/2 weeks old because he was my first, and I just didn't know what was normal and not.

Actually LOOK at your nipples to see what they look like. I'm sure the breastfeeding class will help, but if you can afford it, I would find a lactation consultant. My LC was my SAVIOR during this time, and come to find out, my son & I were doing everything right, but he was tongue-tied and wasn't able to open his mouth wide enough for a proper latch.

I literally feel your pain, and wearing no bra (and no shirt when I could) really helped to air things out and helped reduce the friction and constriction that hurt my nipples so badly. Good luck!! Let us all know how it goes and what worked :)

I have a 3 month old baby girl, my 4th and final child and with her I had the same problem you are describing. Sore, cracked, very tender nipples. She has a very good "grip" and she was not latching on properly. Make sure the nipple is centered, and air dry it for now before you put your breast away. Lansinoh lanolin cream worked magic for me, I felt relief imediately, although I was still uncomfortable it was a bit more bearable.

Also, you can use your own milk...just rub it into the sore nipple gently and air dry.

Hope this helps.
God bless!

I used lots of lansinoh creme with the soothies soft gel pads. I alternated it with the nipple cages made by Medela, which gave my nipples a chance to "air out". Hang in there! It took about 6 weeks for my nipples to get used to breastfeeding.

The "burning feeling" you are describing and the biting sensation while feeding may be a yeast issue. I experience something similar with my daughter and while in the end I didn't have a yeast infection in the skin it was probably the result of a bad latch at one session. It took a while to feel better. If you look up Jack Newman he has a web site and something called "triple nipple ointment". It is a receipe for mixing an antibiotic, steroid and anti-fungal cream. You put it on your nipples after nursing and it can help you heal. Even if you have a good latch at feedings one bad time or bite from your kid can take a while to recover. Bring it up at the support group. If you are going to the one at Los Gatos Community you can call the consultant earlier for advice also. Hang in there. I've been there and it can hurt for a few days. I tried pumping on the sore side for a day to rest the nipple from latching.

My son was the first one I breast fed. (I didn't breast feed my daughter who I had first) I never dealt with the cracked nipples but I did deal with them being sore. Yes, I thought he was latched on right too but what I found out is when I tried other ways of holding him (football hold) where he was level with my breast it seemed to go better. The nurse that helped me told me that if the baby is not level with the breast that it can cause them to get sore even if it is just a little bit. I would recommend trying different holds with your baby the bigger he gets. The class is also a wonderful choice because then you can ask all of the questions that you want and also get hands on training. Good luck, breast feeding is so wonderful.

I am a first time mom and had the same problem I took the baby to the dr because he had white stuff that would not go away in his mouth it was thrush. It made my nipples feel like that but now after the medicine kicked in it is feeling great!

Are you sure that there is no infection? If the baby gets thrush, (white stuff on the tounge), he can pass it on to you which will cause soar nipples. There are also some creams but I can't remember the name.

Hi Jenny,

When I was nursing my 3 children and my nipples got sore/cracked I would buy Vit E oil caplets and cut the tip off and rub it all over my nipples..That helped IMMENSELY. You can also check out LeLeche League website and I bet they might have some additional tips for you.

Hope I was able to help in some small way.

Jenny

J., please look into the possibility of thrush, which can be diagnosed by your health care provider. This condition makes nipples very sore, and is passed back and forth from mom to baby thru feeding. Definitely treatable.

I had this problem with my first child. My nipples were so sore and one was cracked and bleeding--it was the worst pain I ever experienced, so I totally feel what you're going through!
It turned out he wasn't getting the entire nipple area into his mouth. He was sucking on the nipple itslf, but not the areola. Make sure he pulls it all into his mouth before he begins to feed. If he doesn't get it at first, put your finger in his mouth to break the suction and keep trying until he gets it. (Another thing that can contribute to soreness is pulling your baby off mid-suck, so always use your finger to break the suction unless he pulls off on his own.)
If he is a small newborn (as most of them are!) and your nipples are on the large side, this may be a bit challenging until he gets a little bigger. I know it hurts, but try to hang in there, it's so worth it for both of you!
Congrats and good luck to both you and your little guy :)

Cabbage!!
Put green cabbage leaves in your bra. The leaves will wilt from the heat, but it will sooth you.
Sounds strange, but it really helps.

Soothies helped me A LOT.

Lansinoh and soothies! These are two products which helped me get through the two to three week hump. It gets so much better if you can hang in there! Warm and cool compresses (whichever feels better to you) and a great lanolin ointment safe for your babe will save you. You are at that critical point where it hurts so much I wondered if I could go on, but then, like magic, at about 4 weeks, it feels so much better. You're doing great! Thanks for asking before giving up!

Good for you for keeping at it! Lots of good advice here--basically, you want to try to figure out soon whether or not you have thrush, because like the lactation specialist said, the lansinoh and soothies and all are great for plain old sore overworked nipples, but all wrong for thrush. Thrush pain often feels like a deep pain inside the breast when baby nurses; the nipples stay cherry-red; and sometimes you seem little white bumps like whiteheads on the nipples--that's the yeast. If you have that, there's lots of good advice on this site for how to deal with it. When my baby was newborn I suffered with thrush for weeks, thinking I was just a wimp and that I'd never be able to do this breastfeeding, until my midwife told it was thrush; 8 months later I'm still nursing my baby. Good luck, and don't lose heart! Breastfeeding is so great for both mama and baby, and it's worth working through these hard times!

Does it hurt down into the breast? I had a yeast infection in my breasts and it was really painful. A lactation consultant sent a note to my obgyn about the possibility and i got the proper treatment. otherwise they were goig to put me on antibiotics which would have made it worse! good luck!

As a mum who has nursed five babies, and encountered the same problem, I think you have a problem with the babies latch. Make sure his mouth is very open before you give hime your nipple, you need to give him as much of the outer nipple area as you can fit into his mouth. Make sure when he latches on and starts nursing that his top lip is not curled under into his mouth. you should be able to see the pink of his lips while he's nursing.

Try to skip the bra and let your breats dry out between feeding. Breast milk is the beast cream for cracked nipples, you've plenty of it and it's free!

Good for you for sticking with it through the pain! I know how hard that is. A crazy idea you can try that worked for me is ptting cold cabbage leaves on your nipples. A lactation consultant gave me that tip, and I was so relieved. Another reccommendation I got was to put cold tea bags on. That tip didn't work at all for me, and I ended up staining my bra with the tea- The Lanisoh ointment also helped me; and wearing the reusable breast pads were softer than using the disposable one.

There is a over the counter medicine that is not harmful to the baby. It's called lanolin. It's kind of expensive but it's worth every penny. You only use it to moisen your nipples until they feel better. You can get it at walmart, target. I suprised no one told you about it. It's been 6 years since my last child was born but i believe it's in a purple box. My own ob told me about it. It moiston the nipples so are not so dry and use it until they feel better and then use i if they become dry again. A little dab goes a long way. You can get it in the baby section near the breast feeding pads. Near the breast feeding pumps in the general section. hope this helps.. M. petersen

Well, my midwife has always bee very clear that sore nipples = improper latching so definitely have it checked out. Also, using soap to clean your nipples can dry them out. Your nipples excreat their own self cleaning substance so be careful not to let any soap get on them in the shower. You can also try the nippple cream from Lansinoh, it's a purple tube endorsed by the LLLeague. Stress can also be a trigger. My friends nipples got very sore and cracked when she was under stress. Feel better - don't give up!!

I was always told not to dry your nipples after feeding. A little milk rubbed all over them actually helps. Second remedy is a tube of Lanolin. OTC at Walgreens or wherever. Be sure you have some of these air cup thingys. Looks like half a whiffle ball you put between you and your bra. Your bra may be drying you out too. Sunshine, air, TLC should be the trick. Good luck. Keep nursing through it. Best thing.

Hi J., Congratulations on your little boy.

I had the same problem; however, I went 4 months feeling like that and not wanting to give up on breastfeeding. Turns out, I had thrush, but my son did not. I went to a lactation consultant to figure this out. I tried Gentian Violet and All Purpose Nipple Ointment and when that didn't work, I went to my OB. They gave my Diflucan (which is safe for the baby) and All Purpose Nipple Ointment. Finally after 4 months of pain, it was gone. Breastfeeding was miserable for me and I wanted to enjoy it. I put up with the pain for way too long, so if some of the other remedies don't work, don't be shy to get help, I thought the pain was part of breastfeeding.

Good Luck to you

DON'T QUIT!

I am breastfeeding my third daughter, she is 8 months old now. I had sore nipples for the first eight weeks...it feels like an eternity, I know. On thing that seemed to help me a lot - especially in the shower - was a nipple ointment. I like Lansinoh. It helps to condition your skin in between nursing and in the shower it protects them from the water beating on you - which to me felt like razor blades on my nipples. Also something else you can try is a nipple shield. My daughter wouldn't latch on to it, but maybe your son will...it's something you put over your nipple while breastfeeding so your baby isn't sucking on you but the nipple shield, which draws your milk out.

I think back on how painful it was back then while I'm nursing my daughter now, and I am so thankful that I endured through it. You will get through this, stay strong, and be determined not to quit - you'll be glad you did!

Go to Walgreens and get Soothies. They are located in the baby section. They were originally intended for burn victims. I used them for like 8 months when I was nursing. My son sucked really hard. He never bit me. These are a life saver!
Good luck
T.

It sounds like thrush to me. The fact that it showed up after a period of pain free nursing, and also that you're having pain in between feedings are telltale signs. I had this with both of my kids and it was so hard to get rid of (it is possible, but be prepared for a battle). I found that doctors are not very good at diagnosing or treating this. Your best bet is to visit a lactation consultant. Call around and try to find someone who has experience with this issue. They can examine you and the baby and figure out if it really is thrush, and recommend treatment.

Try checking out www.drjacknewman.com. There is a ton of breastfeeding and thrush info on there (Dr. Newman even developed an ointment that is used to treat thrush). Good luck, and hang in there!

Sounds like what I went through. I have battled eczema all my life, and turns out that's what it was. My doctor said to use a low percentage (.5 or 1%)hydrocortizone several times a day. I did it right after nursing. He said you just use a tiny amount, enough to cover the sore area. And you don't have to worry about the baby ingesting it, but you could always wipe off befor e nursing if it makes you feel safer. And, because I have eczema, I couldn't use the lanolin products or lasinoh...it just made it worse. Go shirtless/braless as much as possible around the house to avoid any friction. Within a few days you should be feeling better. If not, consider yeast(but your nipples will most likely have a white coating if it's yeast).

Good luck!
A.

My daughter's pediatrician told me to use Purlan for the cracking and some pain reliever for the soreness. The pediatrician said she did the same thing with her two children. Always check with your child's pediatrician or the lactation consultant to see what is safe.

Hi J.,
Going to the breastfeeding class will be a great help with your new little boy Jacob. They will be able to determine too if his latch is correct which could be part of the problem. It sounds like he might have thrush in his mouth which can be passed back and forth between the two of you. The sunburn feeling all the time even when he isn't nursing is a classic symptom as well as the soreness. There is a product out there called Genetian Violet that really works well to get rid of the thrush. You can find it at a drug store. A great breastfeeding site that I found extremely helpful was www.drjacknewman.com It is a great site and there is a section about sore nipples and breastfeeding related to thrush. He mentions the genetian violet too. I hope this helps and that you and Jacob get relief soon. Let me know if you have any other questions and good for you for sticking with the breastfeeding.
Sara :-)

You might want to call a lactation specialist (probably one at your hospital or your ob's office can recommend one) about a nipple shield. La Leche League is also a great resource. Don't wait until Thursday. Hang in there, it will get better.

He could be latching on wrong.... This happened to me too. I called a lactation consultant and she came out, figured out what he was doing and showed me how to correct it. Oh its so painful.... Get some help- dont give up breastfeeding!
Good luck!

The best thing that I found were the Gerber Gel Pads. Gerber makes a bunch of products, but the gel pads are the best. You can keep them on inside youe bra and they "cool and soothe" all day. I loved them!

Wow this is a hot topic . . . 100+ replies. Well here's one more!

Try rubbing a little breastmilk on your nipples after each feeding. Then let them air dry for at least 10 minutes, under a shirt is fine. Lansinoh is good too. I never found much relief with Soothies (and they are expensive too).

If it gets worse, give nipple sheilds a try. I used them for every other feeding for about 2 weeks and they helped me. You're not suppossed to use them for very long because they can affect your milk supply. So if you are considering this you need to be educated on how to use them. But they helped my daughter's poor latch and now we're on 8 months of successful breadtfeeding!

Good luck!

J.,
When I read your post it broght me back.... I had sore nipples from the get go. It took awhile for me to get my daughter and I on the same page as to how best to nurse. Latching is the biggest key into having painless breast feeding. Many other posters stated the same thing. Talk to a lactation spcialist or go online to look for breast feeding positions and try as many as you can until you find the one that fits. My daughter liked to lay on the boppy with my arms snuggled around her she later decieded that she likes to lay next to me on the bed to be nursed. Try the ointments and cold packs for the pain right now but find your and your daughters comfy spot and all pain will go away! Best of luck...

M~

I nursed my three over a year each and you are defininatly in the worst part. It just gets easier from here. I'm not sure what is going on but I know I had times early on when my nipples seemed to be very sensitive due to hormones or something. If this hyper sensitivity doesn't pass, ask your OB or pediatrician for a recommendation to a lactation consultant. The pros are awesome.

Soothies! They gave me a set at the hospital and then I bought my own at Wlagreens too! They are pricey, but woirth it. You can out them in the fridge so they are nice and cool and they are washbale with cool water. They were the only thing that helped me. Good Luck!

Hi,
Try the plastic nipple guards for a little while until the nipples are less tender.

Could also be a yeast problem, you might have to ask a doc.

Hope this helps
T.

Lansinoh is fabulous. You just put it on after you finish breastfeeding. I used it all the time with my girls and loved it. YOu can get it at any store by the breastfeeding section.

my best advice is to use the LANSINOH and keep on nursing. In a couple more weeks your nipples will toughen up and should stop hurting.

Hangin there momma! Those first 6 weeks are the hardest. If you make it 6 weeks you will make it for a year!

Use Lanolin...it works wonders! You can find it at Target in the baby section. I had cracked sore nipples too...but after using it...it felt much better.

Hi J.,

Having read all the responses from these lovely ladies, sounds like you've got all kinds of good advise and suggestions of things to try.
As a doula/lactation educator, the only caution I would add-
if you use the cabbage leaves Be Careful! The primary use of cabbage leaves is to decrease breast milk production. Unless that is your issue, don't use the leaves for more than a day.

Best to you - hang in there and do go to the class,
H. W.

This happened to me. I couldn't wear a shirt for a couple of days. I stopped nursing for a couple of days to help my nipples out. I got cream and put it on all the time. I also got nipple shields and wore them under my bra. My cracked nipples went away that week and then I was able to start nursing again. Make sure you put cream on them. Good luck.

I used pure lanolin oil I bought at the co-op downtown. It is really thick and looks like oil..not lotion. It is safe for baby and you dont have to wipe off before nursing. Also cloth nursing pads not cotton ones you can toss away. They will stick you.

If you would like me to, I could send you distance healing and see what happens. Let me know. 15 minutes should do it. If you like the results, you can refer me to others. It works on everything.

Love, L.
Teacher of New Consciousness

Lansinoh - best thing in the world!

Jenny- I swear by the Lansinoh cream. I used it after every feeding. It is safe to use anytime and will not harm the baby. It really worked well for me. Use it as much as needed to get that soreness taken care of! Good Luck!

-M.

I highly recommend Lanolin. You can find in at Target or Wal-Mart or pretty much any drug store. It's typically by the breastfeeding items such as breast pads or pumps. The brand name I used was Lansinoh. I also got free samples from the hospital and from my doctor when my daughter was first born.

Even with the Lanolin, it will still hurt while you are breastfeeding. That just takes time. But the Lanolin helps the nipples to heal faster without harming the "callousing" (for lack of a better word) process.

No one ever told me how difficult breastfeeding is. I think they don't want to scare first time mothers away from trying it because it absolutely does get better and is the most amazing bonding experience.

Good luck and I think taking a class is a WONDERFUL idea!!

When you are finished nursing, just get a little extra breastmilk out of each nipple and rub it all over the nipple and let it dry before putting your nursing pad on again. It worked for me! And it is cheap!

Jenny,

This may be caused by his latch. Be sure you are bringing baby to you and not breast to baby. The baby should always be tummmy to tummy with you. Also when you start to nurse be sure as much of the areola is in the mouth of the baby and that he opens his mouth wide to nurse. You should always here baby swallow every few sucks. I could feed a whole nursery with one breast so be sure baby is not sucking just to suck. He should be able to empty your breast within 10-15 minutes. Any longer than that he may be just passifing his need to suck which may be causing you severe soreness. Get him a pacifer (NUK) which is similar to breast. Watch your nipple after you nurse. It is usually flat on the underside as the NUK pacifier is. All my kids used this from day 1. I am a very experienced nurser, as I nursed 4 babies. My oldest are 9 year old twins, with a 6 year old following and now I just finished nursing my 15 month old.

Now that we have that established, there is some awesome stuff on the market by Lansinoh. It is in a purple tube it is pure lanolin. I used this with each of my babies while I nursed and I was cracked, bleeding, blistered and this cured it all. You can leave it on for nursing because it is pure lanolin and it is natural so it won't harm baby. Use this every time you nurse and all throughout the day.

FYI...Also be sure baby doesn't have thrush which is a fungus in the mouth. You will notice it if he has it. These are white patches in the mouth along the cheeks and you will have trouble scraping it off. This also could be causing sore nipples as this can be spread to you through nursing. Not dangerous, but will not go away until your both treated.
Good luck and if you need anymore advice let me know
T

When I was breastfeeding all those years ago--(6/7) I used to get a warm washcloth to help soften the nipple then I had this stuff call "Utter repair" yes it sounds as if you use it on cows. You can purchase it at almost any drug store and they lotion area. It works, not only do you nipples feel softer they won't hurt as much. Plus it is safe for the baby.
Hope this helps!

N. P.

OUCH! I used bag balm which is also the best for over-washed hands and cracking feet. It doesn't taste the best for baby when breastfeeding so depending on baby's eating schedule, try to put on nipples after last feeding at night.

Also, I read something recently about breast pads at Babies R Us that can go in the fridge/freezer. They have a gel consistency and act as a catcher for leaky breasts AND soothe.

Good luck!

I had soreness forever, and finally I went to the bf support place and the helped me figure out that I was producing too much milk, which then the baby was clamping down on the nipple to slow the flow, which caused the soreness. It was kindof achy all day. Putting a cold pack (like frozen peas) helped, as did feeding my baby in a more upright position so the milk didn't just flow out so fast. I put a rolled up washcloth under my breast to keep the niple more up right and within a day I was much better. And my baby was happier. I can't say thats what happening with you but, something like that could be the cause if you think that he is latching on right.

The best advice I could give you is to try "nipple shields" - Medela makes them. It's a plastic nipple of sorts that fits over your nipple. If anything you can try using them here and there to give you some relief. I have used them since the get go because I was having trouble breastfeeding and had to give him a bottle. I wanted to breastfeed so bad so I tried the nipple shield and he latched on no problem. Now I have no trouble breastfeeding and I never have any issues with chapping, etc. Hope this helps!

Hello,
I loved a product called Soothies. They're sticky gel pads to cover your nipples and they saved my life! you can get them at drugstores or baby stores. They're 12 bucks a pair (!) so what I did was cut them into quarters and used just the small piece to cover just my nipple. They can last for up to 3 days as well. I HIGHLY recamend these!!

Go to the doctor immediately! You have an infection and need medication. My daughter had the same thing.

You may have a yeast infection on your nipples. I had one for weeks before it was properly diagnosed. Either make an appointment with your OB or see a lactation consultant but have someone look at your nipples. If that is the case it is a relatively easy treatment.
Good luck.

I suggest you hit the lactation specialist ASAP! Call La Leche if you need to.

If it isn't the latch, though, I'm guessing you may have thrush, which is a yeast infection and both you and the baby will have to be treated. This may sound like TMI, but are your nipples bright pink? It's a sure sign and the pain of nursing with it is horrible. However, a prescription of Nystatin will start to work on it almost immediately.

Don't give up and have fun with your new little one!

Hi J.,
I remember that I used to get engorged alot and it hurt and I used frozen cabbage on my breasts and that helped with the engorgement and also the soreness. Maybe you can try it for the soreness. Just cut up some cabbage and have it be round so that it can cover your whole breast and just go ahead and freeze it. Then remove from the freezer and apply on your breast and especially nipples. I hope this will help...
I think the other think is lanolin (lotion) - I think that is was it was called??? Check with the pharmacist.

Take care,
A.

Jenny,
I switched to some cotton and washable nursing pads.
They were the best thing I ever did for myself, cost wise
and nursing wise. I was not ever sore again. I did however
get my first infection/clogged duct. Went away in about one week. But that had nothing to do with the nursing pads.
W.

Whoa! You have a lot of advice to sort through! I have noticed some of it is good, most of it is not. If I were you I would simply pick up the phone and call LLL in Truckee. Kathleen ###-###-#### or Kelly ###-###-####. Free breastfeeding help from trained people in your area!

With my first baby, it was six weeks before nursing didn't hurt. What helped the most were these things called Soothies. They are glycerin gel pads that you can get at Rite Aid. They were kind of expensive (maybe $10 a pair) but you can cut them into halves or quarters and you can use each piece for a couple of days. Don't give up on nursing yet! I was glad I stuck with it.

Have you heard of Lansinoh? It is especially designed for breastfeeding mothers. You can find it in Target or Walmart. It is located near the breastfeeding pumps and pads. Just put it on after your child finish nursing. After a day or two, you'll probably feel better. I noticed a difference the next day. Sorry that you are hurting.

Cabbage leaves (one over each breast under your bra) work like magic! You have to try it. You can use one leaf pretty much all day. No one really notices they are in your bra. They completely relieve that burning/sunburn feeling. I was obsessed with always having cabbage on hand when I was breast feeding. Good luck!

Have you tried using lansinoh(lanolin)cream? I used it for the first 2 weeks of breastfeeding until my nipples toughened up. Of course nursing was very painful for about a week, but after that I was fine and didn't need the lansinoh cream anymore.

Your doctor or nurse will probably recommend Lansinoh lanolin. You put it on after breastfeeding, and you don't need to clean it prior to your next feeding. Another life saver for me was the Contact Nipple Shield. It's made by Medella, and you can probably buy one from your doctor or from Target. I use it consistently because it was the only thing that helped. Good news for you though is that usually around 3 weeks is when it stops hurting. If it doesn't, I would recommend using the Shield.

Definately go to the class cause it sounds like he is latching on to just the nipple and needs to get more of the arreola part too. It is so amazing how they latch on like a vice the second they are born. You can try warm compresses even though you will probably leak. Stand in a hot shower and massage them to. You may be engourged a bit.

Hi J.,

Expose your breasts to fresh air as often as possible. Just remember to go topless on days when you are not expecting a UPS/FedEx delivery! ;)

Lanolin application is soothing and healing (I think I used Lansinoh: available at most drug stores).

If you can afford it, I strongly advise that you have a home visit by a lactation consultant asap. It will be the best investment you can make early on. I would have given up had it not been for some level of intervention.

I had the same problem with sores and my baby was losing weight. We were really struggling. I remember feeling so frustrated and helpless. I finally called a lactation consultant in my area, and with just one home visit (although quite expensive), she immediately diagnosed Benjamin with a bubble palette, and gave me some very simple exercises to do to condition him for a proper latch. It's effect was immediate. No more sore breasts and a thriving newborn! I was so grateful to her! Just an aside, I found it interesting that no one in the hospital (pediatricians or nurses) noticed his condition before we were sent home.

I hope this helps. Good Luck!

Hi Jenny, First off congrats on your new baby.
I would first make sure you have not devolped yeast on your nipples, it does need to be treated. Check with your laction consultant or pedatrian, it can be common if your keeping your breast covered and using to much of the lanolin cream. I know first hand! I would leave your breast to air just wear tee shirt no bra. Then there are these pads called "soothies" They are awesome! They are over the counter. I believe you can get them at any drug store. I know for sure you can get them at babys-r-us.
I wish you the very best. I remember all to well the first few weeks of breastfeeding ,its all worth it! My name is D. and I am Labor and Delivery nurse who has a 3yr old son.

I think it was at the 4-week mark with my first baby that my terribly sore and cracked nipples finally stopped hurting. I feel your pain. I remember bawling during nursing and thinking there was no way I was going to last. Sure enough, the pain went away and I nursed almost a year.

I used Lansinoh (pure lanolin that you don't have to wash off before nursing again) and soothies (glycerin gel pads). Both are pricey, but worth it. If you're local here in Livermore, I'll be happy to donate my unused soothies and almost new tube of Lansinoh to you. My son is now 7 months, and I haven't had any soreness this time around. It was with my first baby that I had such a sensitive time. That's normal. Good luck, and please get in touch if you'd like the products.

You probably have a yeast infection, although there are other causes of what you describe. You should see your lactation consultant or Ob/Gyn right away for a topical or even oral treatment.
I suffered with these with both my children. People don't understand how incredibly painful it is.

hi:

make sure you wash your self before and after each feeding, you could also wear some sweet butter after you clean your self with warm water... :)
frozen peas also help in order to avoid any of the ducts to get clogged..
warmly,
sandy

All of the responses you have received are helpful. However, you should CALL YOUR DOCTOR OR ADVICE NURSE IMMEDIATELY. DO NOT DELAY. You may be developing a breast infection. You need to nip this problem in the bud immediately or it can get much worse (sorer, develop a fever, dizziness and you may have to stop nursing for a few days and take antibiotics, a hypodermic needle in the breast is the most excruciating pain). You probably can get immediate help and should.

J.

J.,

I feel your pain! I nursed my daughter for 11 1/2 months and the first 3 were excrutiating! I never thought that something so natural could be so difficult!

I read all of the responses and I think that they pretty much cover it - I have tried everything they suggested and although they are really good ideas they never helped me. If this happens to you then I have two other suggestions.

1. After nursing rub some of your breast milk on your nipples and then sit in the SUN to let them dry - it is time consuming and a little tricking because you have to be in an appropriate location, but there is something about the sun light that helps them heal.

2. I used Lansinoh and other nipple creams containing Lanolin for the first two months. I had numerous lactation consultants and nurses ask if I could be allergic to wool. I wear wool sweaters and scarves all of the time so I told them no. After two months of total pain I ran out of my cream one day. I didn't get any for a day or two, but after I did I didn't use it becasue my nipple seemed to be doing better. About a month later when my daughter became a bit more aggressive with her nursing they got sore again and I started using the cream again. They got worse and worse and I tried everything again. Finally, out of desperation I decided to stop using the creams all together and see if that made a difference. As soon as I stopped, they started getting better! I just wanted to kick myself. I could have saved myself a lot of pain and tears if I had just not used the cream. I guess I am alergic to Lanolin.

For anyone experiencing ongoing nipple pain, I suggest you stop using the cream for a week and see if it helps!

Also I thought that the Soothies were very comforting! They are expensive, but you can wash them off and let them air dry once they stop being sticky. After they dry they are like new!

I wish you all of the luck in the world!....and just remember:

"This too shall pass"

D. and Layla (age 2)

I had the same issue with my daughter..

What the lactation consultant told me to do that helped a ton was, use my own breastmilk on my nipples and air dry.

It made my nipples a little sticky, but I swear it works. Apparently breastmilk is very healing.

Oh, honey. Three weeks nursing is honestly about the worst point for sore nipples. Don't give up, it will get better and you can enjoy many months of pain free nursing. I found relief from Soothies, gel-coated nursing pads. They are very thin and soft and you can refrigerate them to make extra cool. They keep the skin moist and prevent chafing when you aren't nursing. You can get them or a similar product at Babies R Us. I have also heard that touching your nipple to your baby's chin will get him to open his mouth really big and get a better latch, which means less discomfort for you. Be strong!

I have five children and I always thought that after a few babies your body gets used to nursing and the pain is not as bad, Well it hurts every time! Here is what I try to do.
1. Yes, make sure he is latching on well. Really taking in the whole nipple and areola.
2. Before I start nursing I put a wet rag into the microwave and get it really warm. I soak my first breast while changing the babies diaper or if you don't need to change them, about 5 min before. This helps the nipple to become softer and easier to stretch. I soak the other while nursing on the first side.
3. Make sure you are putting a lot of breast cream on the nipples every time you finish nursing. It really helps!

Good Luck. I always tell myself it gets way better by 6 weeks. So hang in there!

T.

there is a cream that comes in a purple tube. you can get it at Longs Drugs. I cannot remember the name of it, but it is crzily expensive, but worth every penny! It starts with an "L" I think. It is safe to put on at any time, even just before nursing. Also, if your nipple is round when he is done nursing, he is latching right. If it is flattened, you can try to reposition him.
Good luck to you.

When I was breast feeding someone told me this and I tried it and it worked... When you are done breast feeding squeeze a little of your breast milk on your nipple and let it air dry for at least 15 min. before you cover them up. Hope it works for you!

sounds like a latching problem, go to a breastfeeding class or support group & have a lactation consultant work with you. nursing shouldn't be painful. in the interim, slather a good glob of lanolin on each nipple, if cracked in bleeding, you can use neosporin BUT be sure to wipe it off before you nurse. Lanolin poses no harm to your baby during nursing so there's no need to wipe it off.

Sounds like you might have something more than just sore nipples. I would consult a lactation specialist. I dealt with yeast on mine and they hurt very much like you are describing. I got help and managed to continue to breastfeed till my daughter was 16 mos. Breastfeeding should not hurt.

Make sure the baby is not just sucking on the nipple, but is getting lots of areola.

Hope the group Thursday helps, if not talk to a Doc.

Lansinoh, lanolin lotion is very helpful for sore cracked skin and nipples and is safe for nursing babies to latch on to- you can find it at Longs or most drug stores- it does get better, so hang there, Can you go see a lactation counselor at your local hospital or birth center?- they have expertise and knowledge that may help
take care

Hi J.,

I would recomend Soothies gel pads. They work the best of all the ones out there. You can put them in the refrigerator for exta relief. You can also cut them in half to get more use out of them.

I had the same problem with my daughter and actually had scabs! It felt like I was getting a shot to the spine every time she latched on. I would also recommend seeing a lactation specialist. My specialist gave me some additional tips that really made a difference. The Breastfriend pillow helped too. I was able to enjoy breastfeeding again after a couple weeks. You can do it!

Hi! When I was breastfeeding my son, it hurt tremendously! He had a small mouth so we had to squish my nipple so it would fit. Then when he'd suck it seemed like he was ripping the skin off my nipple! And actually the skin on the tips of my nipples started to crack and bleed. So what I did was use nipple shields while he was nursing and then Lansinoh in between feedings. This helped me so much! I was able to heal and continue to bond with my child.

Take Care

I did have that sunburned feeling on my nipples at one point . . . my son was actually chewing my nipples with his gum! Because he has a slight tongue-tie, he was having a hard time extending his tongue past his gum on the nipple. We want to see a speech therapist which gave us some exercise to do with our thumb in his mouth to get him to extend his tongue further and that solved the problem. I also heard that getting his head more pressed against your breast might help (making sure he can still breath!). Good luck.

RUN to see a lactation consultant - the woman teaching the class is probably a consultant - an appt is usually about 100 and worth EVERY PENNY! they will adjust the feeding - makes such an enormous difference! will help so much - in the meantime try lanolin - brand lanoish usually sold in baby section at target
good luck

Hi J.,

You're in the most uncomfortable and painful part of breastfeeding. It will get better in another 1-3 week. I've been using Lansinoh Clean & Condition Cloths since it has Lanolin in it. I also use Lansinoh Lanolin to help soothes, heals and protects the dry, cracked skin on the nibbles. You just have to bear this process of nursing. I hope you feel better soon. Hang in there J.. I know how you feel.

Put some of the breast milk on your nipples - the fat in it coats and soothes without sideeffects to your baby. Rinse and completey dry after each feeding. Make sure your baby doesn't have thrush (white patches on his tongue- it can spread to your nipples). and most of all hang in there, it gets easier.

Hi! I'm the co-owner of an herb store in Point Arena, Ca. and we have some new mom clients who say the Calendula Ointment (not cream or lotion) by Weleda works very well. If you can't find it at your local natural health or body care store, get the purest product you can. Look for something with calendula, comfrey root, chamomile or plantain. These are usually very soothing and effective. Good luck, and keep nursing - even though it hurts it will help in the long run!

try wet tea bags in your bra for about 30 minutes. There is some new cream out there you can find by the nursing stuff. I used to use it on my baby when his lips were chapped too.

Hi Jenny,

I had some real problems with sore nipples as well. The lactation specialists gave me lanolin but it only made the problem worse. I finally went to see a dermatologist. He said that he wished lactation folks would stop with the lanolin. It's a wool derivative and many people are allergic to wool. I certainly am! He gave me something else, I forgot what, but I was able to breast feed both my children without any pain. My advice, see a dermatologist and stay away from the lanolin if you have any sensitivity to wool.

K.

Hi Jenny,

I am a mother of two girls my oldest is almost 3yrs old and my youngest 9mths old, I breastfeed both of them! I just recently stoped breastfeeding my youngest:(

I had a hard time with my first daughter it was so painful,I almost gave up, but I stuck with the breastfeeding the thing that saved me was the Lanolin ! I purchased at Target Lansinoh brand! It saved me so much . I applied it faithfully after every feeding!

I also recommend going to that class. They can tell you if you have the proper techniques to latching on! Very helpful!

All I can say is hang in there it does get better as time goes by, Enjoy every moment with your son!:) Good luck to you!:)

N.

I also had a horrible time with sore cracked and bleeding nipples.My sister found me the best thing ever. They are these gel pad protectors. They actually heal as they protect from leaking. I believe they are made by Gerber. I found them at Walmart before. Try Babies r Us too. It is a small white box with blue writing. They saved me. I also heard that using tea bags, like chamomile with help as well.
L.

Hi, there's definately lots of tips to be had on this subjuct. Be sure to read Jaye S.'s comments, I think you have thrush too. I went through what you are describing with my fifth child. I didn't suffer nipple pain after three weeks of nursing any of the others. Plus the type of pain you describe sounds like thrush ( a yeast infection of the breast). Look it up on line and get a hold of a good LLC. I used chlortrimazole cream, the stuff that's in lotramin. I also took my son to the pediatrician to get treatment for thrush in his mouth. They prescribed an oral nystatin solution. They recommended that I put it on myself as well - BAD idea. If they tell you to put that sweet sticky solution on yourself, don't do it. It makes your nipples far more sore and causes them to stick to your clothing. You would need a nystatin cream like what they prescribe for diaper rash if you were going to use nystatin on yourself. You will find that some health care professionals have little or no practical experience dealing with thrush. Online LLC sites were where I got my treatment plan after my MD failed to prescribe or give me any useful information. I also paid a visit to our local lactation consultant associated with the hospital, she gave me less advice than what I found online.

Thrush is very painful and takes a while to clear up. Don't give up or get too discouraged. I got to the point where I dreaded having to nurse my son, I was near out of my mind with the pain and burning. After a couple of months we were back on track and have rebuilt a wonderful nursing relationship. Get some over the counter treatment today! If it turns out not to have been thrush, no harm done. But if it is you'll be that much sooner on your way to relief. It takes about three to four days of applying an antifungal cream to the nipples 3/4 x's a day to get real relief. Keep treating for three weeks to prevent a recurrance. I got in a habit of rinsing with a vinegar solution and treating with anti fungal cream after every feeding. Best wishes too you.

Hi Jenny,
I too had the sorest nipples ever when I started breastfeeding my first child. They were bloody and torn and I cried every time I had to nurse. The things that seemed to work for me was lanolin and the nipple cups you wear on your nipples to keep them "out" and dry. Also, be sure to rinse your nipples off with water after you nurse and dry them well. Good luck!