Having a MAJOR FREAK OUT.. May Be TMI

Updated on May 25, 2011
R.P. asks from Columbia Station, OH
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Okay my bf and i were doing things earlier and he was well having fun with my breasts and after everything was said and done he said that he thought i was leaking breast milk.. (we have a 2 yr old and i never breast fed so i dried up within a few months, and have not had a leakage in probably 18 months or so) and after he fell asleep i checked for my self and sur enough i had clear and white coming out of that breast and clear out of the other.. I have been off of birth control since january because i messed my hormones up way to much and we still use condoms whenever we do anything at all to be safe. and i was supposed to start my period to day and never did and i am a very very regular person except when i was on birth control.... i am having a major freak out.... can any one calm my nerves? I plan on getting a test thursday if i dont start by then

edit: With my daughter i started to leak milk about 4 months into my pregnancy

We we using two, condoms and birth control for about 2 yearfs but it messed my body up so much that i could not stand it any more (skipped periods, mood swings, acne, it was bad) so i got off of it and everything has been good since and we use condoms now every single time

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T.C.

answers from Dallas on

that would be pretty fast to have milk, even if you were prego! but everyone is different. i don't know! i do know some people who have had milk in there for 18 months after no longer nursing. i wish i could tell you to not worry, but anytime you're in an intimate relationship, there's always that chance...

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M.P.

answers from Provo on

My son is almost two and I steal leak. Just like Love My Boys<3 said, it can go on for years whether your bfed or not. Take a test in the morning or when ever you can get a hold of one, but I doubt you are if you have been using condoms. They aren't a guarantee, but the do the trick.

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J.B.

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Since it is freaking you out I think they best way to know everything is OK is to get checked by your OB/GYN or family Doctor. You are smart Not to take the pill as you stated they cause a long list of Bad things or can I guess I should say so I don't get bombarded with people yelling at me LOL. Keep us posted. I am sure everyone is right it is just from too much attention to that area.

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K.P.

answers from Seattle on

I have heard, and read before that it can be common for women to still have small amounts of milk or clearish fluid in the breast for years. I read a story about a few women who after being intimate would leak a bit. A few drops or so. I also had this a few weeks ago and it totally freaked me out too, and after research I found that it can be normal.

Try looking it up for yourself to see if you can find it.

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A.D.

answers from Washington DC on

If your BF routinely "has fun" with your breasts it can actually cause you to start lactating again (I had a patient who was never even pregnant, but her Dh was a "boob guy" in her words and she was panicked that she started leaking). The only fix? Hands off (or mouth off or whatever) for a long while!
That said, anytime you notice a change in periods and/or nipple discharge that has "changed", you should see your doctor to rule out a pregnancy, thyroid disorder, other endocrine disorder, or issue with your pituitary gland.
Very important!
Good luck!

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M.P.

answers from Portland on

leaking from your breasts is NOT an indication that you're pregnant. Your breasts do not respond that quickly.

I do suggest that you use two forms of birth control if getting pregnant freaks you out this much. When I suggest using two forms of birth control, I'm speaking of barricade kinds such as a spermicide, diaphragm, cervical sponge. You can get information from your doctor or talk to Planned Parenthood.

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J.B.

answers from Los Angeles on

wait a week and take a test.

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If you were to start your period today, you can take a test now.

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