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Hi Bobbie,
Have you ever tried Arbonne's baby line. It is AMAZING! My girlfriend sent me the baby products as a shower gift for my baby shower and I loved them. (she also sent me something for stretch marks....I don't have any!) They are herb and botanically based and do not have any harmful ingredients. And totaly safe for the baby. I'll never stop using them. Now I give them as gifts to my friends. If you don't know the sex of the baby, you can put them with blankets, hooded bath towels or anything that doesn't set the gender. She will be thankful that you thought about her babies health and wellness. Babies are a precious gift! If you're interested feel free to email me. Good Luck