I am a mom of one 12 year old daughter and my husband and I would love to have another one except that my daughter is not conceived from my husband and he seems to think he can not have kids !! We want to have another child and are ready for this but we can not get pregnant !!! We have been together for 11 years and we only used protection at first !! We have not used protection for years figuring it would eventually happen !! We do not want to have surgeries or anything like that !! We would prefer natural ways to get pregnant so my question is WHY HAS IT NOT HAPPENED YET !!! We are both medically ok and nothing stopping it so what is the problem!!PLEASE HELP!!!
Read the book "Taking Charge of Your Fertility" and follow it to a "T". It's worked for everyone I know that's used it. More times it's usually something going on with the woman and possibly your cycle, not the man (as my doctor explained).
S.,
my hubby just had a v thing done and we found out that men sometimes don't have two tubes so this could be it or something like it b/c my husband has two tubes but one don't work what we found out but it didn't keep from us having kids b/c i have 5 kids but we didn't know this till he had the v thing done but the man said some men are only born with one some times or one don't work. So this maybe something to look at. And i know you can have kids even if this is the problem b/c i had my 5 kids with no problems so don't be scared about that. if anything else just ask.
C.
were you ever on the pill??? I've heard of people having problems after being on the pill, which is why I HATE taking it everyday. You two should just relax.... take an evening out, rent a room or something, maybe a nice dip in a hot tub, you know? the best way to get ANYTHING done is to not be stressed about it. Good luck and take it easy!
S.,
Not sure if this will help you out, but my ex-husband and I was married 10 years and tried conceiving a child not long after we were married. We did everything from the fertility drug to surgeries. Nothing helped until one day in a discussion I told him that there was to be know more surgeries, medication or anything, that if we were to have a child it would happen. Much to our surprise about 3 months later I found out that I was 3 months pregnant and now have a very healthy 9 year old little boy. Never was able to conceive again. So my advice to you is dont give up. Try to put your mind on something else and when you least expect it, you will be prenant. Good luck. L.
