It may very well be that others can run things cheaper. But I make no apologies that I like things to be clean and like new as often as possible. I don't think keeping a couch for 5 years in a daycare full of children is taking advantage or that I should make it last longer and I don't keep toys if they have he tiniest crack in them. No one can keep a child from ripping a book if they have unlimited access to them and I absolutely teach my kids how to take care of things. Nothing lasts forever. I am open 7 days per week, 24 hours per day. So perhaps my things get MORE wear and tear than average. I would NEVER do carpet because carpet is gross. I'll take my dull floors that I can clean everyday over carpet that harbors all kinds of germs. And really, 1000-2000 for toys is too much? When ONE toy story character toy is often 50 dollars and I buy QUALITY cars that don't crack and the wheels don't fall off, it's not much to spend. I only have to get one big ticket item that's 300-400 dollars to have much of that budget gone. I buy cars that were mad in the 70's and 80's that I get on Ebay because the metal was solid and the wheels simply don't fall off. I understand quality and I know that I can NOT afford the 5000 dollar play structure in the backyard. So instead I buy more in electronics, computer games, etc. We have to visit a park for a nice structure.
I have been adding to this over time and may continue if this thread continues to be popular.
I just remembered the cost of my water filters and air filters. In this day and age too many kids have allergies and keeping the water and air clean helps.
I just keep adding... to those that think we don't need help...There's no way I get through a year without getting some kind of help. Even if it's just bringing in someone to help organize or clean or mow the lawn. My focus is on the kids all the time and my husband can't bail me out all the time. Most people do not have a home large enough for the husbands to have any privacy. So they stay gone a lot LOL! We finally have a home that is large enough for him to get away. In most cases with most providers I've talked to, the real question is whether or not there is ANYTHING left over at the end of the day.
Many of us choose to be small for the sake of the kids. I care for 4 on days, 4 on nights, and 4 days and nights all weekend. Add in a few on call type situations for when I have parents on vaca, deduct for when people are gone and I need to replace them.. 120 per week full-time but several situations are only part-time at 75... I bring in around 48,000 per year and only end up keeping about 20,000 and my final taxable amount is usually only around 10,000-12,000. I'm also open 7 days per week, 24 hours per day. I love what I do. But it's not a get rich quick scheme.
It's also more costly to get out and buy groceries and items the family needs because there's no time for bargain shopping. No one is going to work 13+ hours per day and then clean for another few hours and THEN, clip coupons and go to more than one store. Sometimes we need to buy convenience foods just to get through the week and then there's having to buy Almond milk and soy products and gluten free products for children that need them.
Adding to this list.. Organizers.. My shelves, buckets, rolling toy carts, and wicker baskets take a beating. I carry them everywhere, the kids often climb in them, and I must be able to organize my house or I'd live in a zoo. I buy some kinds of organizers at least twice per year.
Adding also movie rentals, websites for preschool that I pay for, computers that I have to keep running, replacing computer peripherals when they get old, paper, ink, and supplies for printing and record keeping, flashlights, wickless candles, and other things to get us through power outages, buying bottled water for when the water mains break which happens 2-3 times yearly in my city... Just a few more things to think about.
1) I'm quite certain you are so wrong about toys. I've never had a year where I didn't spend 1000-2000 per year. For one thing my toys disappear. It's just too easy to slip cars and building toys and little characters into bags and pockets and I can't search them daily as they come and go. Things get broken and need replaced.
2) BATTERIES... This is an expense most would not think of. But my battery operated toys eat at least 20-30 per month.
3) Utilities- We can not conserve energy. We are always home. We have large amounts of blankets, wash clothes, and rugs that need washed and the cost is high. That alone puts wear and tear on the machines and then there's laundry soap, fabric softener and the cost of heating the water and the water. My water bill alone is 130 per month.
4) Cleaning supplies, toilet paper, wet ones for when parents forget, extra diapers, diaper creams and all kinds of small miscellaneous expenses.
5) Cribs, high chairs, wear and tear on our furniture, kitchen tables and chairs that get scratched and dinged and chairs that fall apart. I buy at least 1000-2000 per year in replacement furniture.
6) Painting of walls, plumbing bills if someone puts something in the toilet or crams too much paper in it, replacement of window screens if someone pokes on them too often when we can open windows...
7) Trash haul away-- I have to pay extra because I have so much. Probably many providers do.
8) The cost of doing our taxes is higher whether or not we get help or use turbo tax. It's expensive.
9) Extra costs in building projects.. We can't just build a deck or fence to any specifications. There are other things to consider.
10) Changes in equipment.. The state often comes up with new rules about the kinds of fire extinguishers or emergency lighting or the types of beds we can have.
11) Advertising.. Staying full is no small feat with people losing jobs, getting laid off, moving away, kids going to school..
12) Bad checks.. Our banks will charge us when they go bad.
13) Personal items lost or broken and even stolen.. My mother laid her glasses down for 30 seconds the other day to wipe her face and a child grabbed them and bent them instantly. I've had all kinds of things stolen through the years from watches to phones to my sony digital reader and my daughters purses, billfolds, etc. I've learned to keep things like fort knox. But I can't hide everything all the time.
14) Social Security expenses. If you work outside the home your employer pays half the cost. We pay 15% off the top and that's on top of other taxes paid.
15) Health insurance through our husbands jobs are not cheap or free. My husband pays 500 per month. I still can't afford to take a day off or pay a co-payment.
16) paper, crayons, pencils, glue, and all kinds of small items...
17) BOOKS... This is actually one of my largest expenses. Babies chew the board books and rip the regular ones. I refuse to hover and put them all up all the time. They need to have access to them all the time. The other day I had a girl pee all over 6 books. I had to throw them away. There simply is no way to clean paper books.
18) There is no way that the food program covers all the costs. I haven't done that in years and there is no way the reimbursement is big enough to make me go through that red tape. Besides I honestly believe parents need to feed their own kids. It's built into my weekly fees.
And 12 kids?! REALLY... I so don't want my kids to be lost in the shuffle. I used to do that and did it for 6.5 years. That many kids only means that more things will be broken and treated badly. It's hard enough to watch them all every minute now. Last week a little girl was trying to figure out the woody hat on my grandsons woody doll. She broke the head off. She didn't mean to. 50 bucks down the drain.
Then there are those of us that do more things like taking them on field trips at our own expense and buy big ticket items like moonwalks. I've gone through an enormous amount of cribs through the years. The mesh gets ripped and there's no doubt that after awhile they look bad even with vigilant washing.
I need a new couch in a desperate way and it will be my 5th in 25 years. My desk is pot marked and looks horrible and my kitchen table looks bad and I just paid it off. The chairs are getting loose and my husband can only re-glue them so many times. My floors are dull and I can't resurface my wood floors because I'm always open and can't afford to close. But some day I'll have to.
Goodness gracious... This is just off the top of my head! I could get out my tax return and show you line by line why I keep very little of what I take in.
I am NOT saying I don't have loads and loads of benefits. The benefits simply don't include a great financial life. But then again, maybe that's because I believe that if the profession could pay us for the years of experience that we have, then we'd be CLEARING 100,000 per year by the time we've dedicated 25 years to the business. In any other profession we would have a combined income of very close to that when we consider the matching 401 k, vacations, profit sharing, at least our own insurance provided at a lower cost than what we can get it on our own and the list goes on.