Bringing Sexy Back!

Updated on March 15, 2009
B.C. asks from Fort Worth, TX
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How do I get my husband to notice me? Just had a baby 6months ago need to get my confidence back. I need him to look at me the same way he did when we were dating. Any ideas ladies?

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A.M.

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Two words for you, B.. BRAZILIAN WAX!! ;)

Also, do some walking whenever you can. Take the baby with you in the stroller. If she is 6 months, she is old enough for the kids club at the gym if you prefer to use the treadmill. No need to run, just a fast walk. 45 minutes a day,5 days a week. I usually go(24 hr fitness) at 9 pm when hubby is home and the kids are fast asleep. You'll tone up in no time. :)

Also, try a new perfume. A very sexy perfume is Tom Ford. Men go crazy for it. :)

Good luck!!

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K.L.

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Gary Chapman writes, “To touch my body is to touch me. To withdraw from my body is to distance yourself from me emotionally.” Perhaps your husband feels as unconfident as you do, for any number of reasons. Talk to your husband. He likely doesn’t know how you feel. Date your husband. Swap babysitting with another couple, so the two of you can have time alone together. I encourage you to attend Marriages that Last, an upcoming marriage enrichment seminar at Lake Pointe in Rockwall. You can learn more about it at the link below. https://rockwall.lakepointe.org/Registrations/MarriagesTh...
Rockwall is a little over an hour from Fort Worth, but I think this opportunity will be worth the drive. My mother often reminds me that the best thing I can do for my daughter is to love my husband. Praying God will rekindle the passion in your marriage.

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J.W.

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Some men have a hard time knowing when it's okay to get back in the groove of seduction. Your body was your baby's for awhile and things have changed. Let him know you still desire him and although your body may be diffent, there's a whole new level of things for you to exlore now. There's a sexiness in what you've done by carrying and having a baby - let him find out!! After baby is in bed...light some candles, play some music, start a massge and enjoy eachother again!

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S.L.

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date nights...sexy outfits/heels...good conversations...12 years later after meeting, hubby and i are still connected in every way. when we start drifting, we go back to basics.

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S.A.

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sexy lingerie, it doesn't have to be the most reveling so if you still have issues with you that will help too. and wear heals they do wonders for your confidence.

good luck

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T.J.

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There are strip tease aerobic classes that you can take in Dallas. I can't remember the name of the studio, but I bet you could do a quick Google search to find them. That might give your confidence alittle kick!

T.F.

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Tabitha is right, there are some sexy dance classes like strip tease and pole dancing.

Also, keep yourself looking nice...throw on some sexy heels with a short skirt, etc and greet him at the door!

One thing I have always done as SAHM is to wear nice clothing and greet him at the door daily with myself looking nice.

PS: Date nights are important. Since our 14 yr old daughter was born....we don't miss date night at least once a week. We've been married 20 yrs....LOTS of date nights.

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