D.M.
When my baby was 3 weeks old, my milk supply diminished greatly. I was just about to give up breastfeeding. I gave my baby one bottle of formula (after hours of crying from both my baby & me!). I was at my wits end, and was ready to quit. My husband wouldn't let me quit. He knew the benefits were much greater for our baby than with formula. He had me call the lactation consultant at the hospital, and finally he drove me and my baby to the hospital to get help from the LC. She was great help! I was in there maybe about an hour, while she showed me how to latch my baby on correctly, how to massage the ducts (my milk ducts were plugged and very full by that time). She was a life saver! When i got home, I pumped my breasts and gave my baby a bottle of breast milk. For several weeks I pumped my milk and gave her a bottle of it. I also drank plenty of water and Mother's Milk tea, and ate lots of oatmeal to get my milk supply back up. After a few weeks, I felt comfortable enough to put my baby back on my breast. Things were much easier by then. I'm still nursing her, today, at 13 months old. I plan to let her self-wean. I've decided breast milk was best for my baby (it broke my heart formula-feeding her that one time). I hope you don't give up just yet. It is hard, but with the right help and support, you really can get past this stage, and things will get better for you. Good luck!