9 Week Old Will Not Take Bottle from Daddy...

We had the same problem with our daughter around that time. I would remove yourself from the situation. Take a walk - go get a coffee - but leave the house if you can. I couldn't stand to hear my daughter cry and after 5 minutes I would run and feed her myself. The other thing, is to try to help your husband calm down and not get frustrated. My husband would get upset with himself thinking he "was doing something wrong" -- and I told him it's just her - she's a baby and doesn't know any better. Babies can sense when someone is frustrated and it just gets worse.
Will she eat from anyone else? I had to have my dad come over for a week for her 6 pm feeding so that she would learn to take from people other than me. Keep with it - they go through phases with food - and this one will pass! Good Luck!

We also experienced the same thing with our daughter. And like the other two women before me wrote, you have to remove yourself from the area so that she can't hear, smell or see you. And just let your husband know that it is nothing personal and to just keep trying. We actually had a hard time with my daughter taking a bottle at all the first few times, but after a bit she got used to it. They just get comfortable with you and it is easier to nurse then drink from a bottle! Keep working at it and keep encouraging your husband to keep trying... it will happen!

We actually went thru the same thing! The best thing you can do is be as FAR AWAY from her when he is feeding as possible! She is more aware of you now, can smell and sense you, and prefers you. Even if I was in the dining room and my husband was in the family room, my son would not take the bottle. If he heard me talk, sneeze, anything. My suggestion would be to go upstairs, downstairs,whatever while he feeds. That way, there is not sense of smell of you, the milk, etc. Also, tell him when he is getting frustrated to take a minute and try and relax. Think about golf, basketball, whatever. It's okay if she cries a minute or two. The best thing is that he needs to relax so that she relaxes. Your right, she does sense his tension, and that will make things worse. And ya know, it doesn't get much easier with her crying and so forth. So he has to learn to breathe, relax, let her cry and know he can fix it in a minute or two. It's nothing personal on him, just let him know she is learning him as much as he is learning and loving her. Hope this helps.

Yes, like the other mommies said, get out of the room and let your husband and baby struggle on their own until they figure it out.

A couple things to suggest to him is to make sure he's focused on her when feeding instead of watching TV (this was the main issue with my husband). And if she starts to get really worked up, have him put the bottle down and play with her or rock her until she calms down, then try again.

Good luck!