9-Month Old Refusing to Drink Formula

Updated on October 21, 2010
C.B. asks from Arlington, TX
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This is my biggest frustration and worry right now. Around 6 months, after breastfeeding exclusively I started him on solids. I have always had trouble pumping enough for work, so around that time we had to give a couple of bottles of formula to supplement, which he was fine with. (one of the Enfamil powders, if it matters). Then I had problems with my gallbladder and we had to give formula for two days while I flushed some medications out of my system. Well, he threw up several of the bottles that day (Enfamil and Similac powders..he threw up the Enfamil first so we tried the Similac...but this was before the recall came out). The next bottle we tried he refused..which I figured was because he had just thrown it all up so I thought maybe after awhile he would go back to drinking it. I was wrong...we were able to make it another two months since I had to take some time off of work before we needed to try and supplement again. He completely refused it. So my DH mixed in an ounce of apple juice to 4 oz of formula and he ate it...problem solved, right? Nope, the following week I went back to work and he refused it again, apple juice included. We have also tried mixing it with breastmilk which he refused. We've tried giving it in a sippy cup as well as just a cup to maybe make it more interesting and separate it from drinking out of a bottle. With a few exceptions its always my husband or my mother in law trying to give it to him...I nurse him when he's with me. We have tried a bunch of different brands, Gerber Good Start, Enfamil and Similac, cold, warm, powder, premixed..you name it.
I'm at a loss...I'm able to pump two 4 ounce bottles a day of bmilk but I work a 12 hour day 3-4 days a week, so he needs really three bottles while I'm at work. I nurse at 600 am before I go to work and at 730 pm when I get home...he's also eating 3 meals of solids a day in addition to the 8 ounces of bmilk. When I'm at home I nurse him about every three hours plus his solids and he seems to get plenty..its just the pumping doesn't seem to work as well. Am I worrying too much...he is growing steadily but he is (and always has been) on the low end of the growth charts, so I am scared about him not getting enough to eat. I know that formula or breastmilk is supposed to be the main source of their nutrition until they are about one years old.
I do have a call into my pediatrician, and am waiting to hear back from her. I really don't think trying to increase my supply will help, because my supply is sufficient for him to nurse...its just the pump isn't effective in getting it out and that has been that way since I went back to work when he was two months old. I don't think taking a leave of absence is going to possible for my job, so if anyone has suggestions about how to motivate my child to drink formula just a couple of times a week......

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So What Happened?

Thank you everyone for your answers...in the end I figured that we would just stop offering the bottle of formula...it really is only one bottle a day 1-3 times a week. My pediatrician agreed that he would be fine with just my two bottles of bmilk and his solids on the days that I work, but she does think I should not introduce any kind of milk until he is a year. But it was comforting to hear that other people had babies that had to go through different arrangements and turned out just fine.

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J.A.

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Each child is different so I don't know if this will work for you but I started giving my 9 mo old daughter Good Start formula mixed with vanilla almond milk. It is lactose free so as long as he does not have an almond allergy the ped should be fine with it. Formula mixed with water creates a consistency that is no where near as rich and sweet as BM. The vanilla flavored almond milk is sweet and makes the consistency richer when mixed with the formula. Good luck

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M.J.

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I think the taste buds develop at nine months. Both of our kids threw their bottles across the room at nine months and refused any formula from that point on, whether it was in a bottle, a sippy cup or regular cup. They each had different pediatricians at the time this happened and both said as long as they were getting nutrition from the baby foods, they would be ok (and they were). I would definitely check with your own pediatrician, though, to find out the best strategy for your child.

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J.P.

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If he is having enough wet diapers and nurses fine when you are home, those two bottles should be fine when you aren't there. I know many babies that wait alllllll day long and refuse all bottles, and do just fine till mom comes. If he is hungry enough, he will eat.

Have you tried pumping first thing in the morning, every morning? You are most full then. I pump 2 ounces from the side I feed on and empty the other side each morning. This helps me supplement my pumping during the day if it is an off day.

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J.M.

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One idea is to mix formula into his foods (cereals, purees, etc).

Bur ultimately, if he's nursing several times a day, he's probably getting what he needs. Hopefully your pediatrician will say something similar so you wont need to worry.

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A.S.

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Have you ever tasted formula compared to Bmilk? I don't blame any kid for not wanting that nasty stuff... Even though my son didn't care whether it was Bmilk or formula, most kids do care and I completely understand.

I agree with the ladies that said he should be fine with what he's getting without formula.

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D.S.

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sounds like he is allergic to formula. try changing him to soy. my oldest did that and he was allergic to normal formula but could drink soy. the regular I guess hurt his stomach too bad.

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M.J.

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My son did the same at about 8 months and the pediatrician suggest that we give him yogurt and Homogonized milk and as long as your child is eating well and getting good nutriants (as stated by other moms) your child will be fine. Check with your pediatrician for thier suggestion.

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D.J.

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I think your biggest problem may be that your baby is eating quite a bit. If you are pumping, nursing, and supplementing then he still should only be getting like 30-32 ounces. He's eating 3 meals, too, though. I would try to feed him his cereal or whatever in the morning and follow that with about 6 oz. He may need another snack-like bottle in mid-morning, but it should only be 6-8 oz. At lunchtime he's need a veggie or entree and fruit followed with about 6 oz. A mid afternoon bottle of about 8 oz should tie him over til dinner of entree, veggie, and fruit and a 6-8 oz bottle. If you nurse him in morning and night then he may be developing a late stage nipple confusion or desire to get what he wants--which is you and your milk. He can probably tell the difference between the comfort of your nursing and milk and the formula he's given from the bottle when you're not there. Mixing the breastmilk and formula equally, if possible, is my last suggestion. If it's the taste he prefers, then mixing them will help alleviate some of his aversion. Hope this helps. Nursing this long is awesome,and it's great that you are doing so much to get your little one healthy. I have 5 that I nursed and it's not always a picnic. You're a great mom!

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A.T.

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If you just let him do without then eventually he'll get hungry enough that he will take a formula bottle, but that's only if you can handle the furber method. My 2nd child wouldn't take a sippy cup for a while & only wanted her bottle, i just quit giving her the bottle. It took a while but she finally started using the sippy cup. Same goes from breast to bottle.

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V.T.

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do you have a medela pump? Have you thought about renting one from the hospital. From my understanding they can make a big difference on how much milk you get out

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