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I have a 4 year old Mama's girl that constantly disrespects me.

C. R. asks from Dearborn

My daughter is disappointed when I pick her up from pre-K, and doesn't like me to take her to dance or gymnastics. She tells me she doesn't want to be seen with me, because I am ugly and she is embarrassed of me. She sticks her tongue out at me frequently, and tells my...

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2nd grade son is behind in reading

m. d. asks from DHS

Dear Moms, My second grader who just turned 7 is still behind in reading. He reads at a first grade level (level G/H Fountas and PInnel by the end of the 1st grade). He is quite discouraged this year, and feels that second grade reading is very difficult! He likes to...

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Rubbery Chicken Legs (Blahhh)

A. M. asks from Tampa

Before my cooking/woman card gets taken away... how does one cook chicken legs in the oven? I seasoned, little EVOO and then put them in the oven and they come out rubbery. I cooked them at 350 for 25-30 mins.. or longer if needed (I check them for done) Cooked, but r...

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How does Life 360 work?

G. . asks from Springfield

I am entering the world of junior high and my son having a phone and being much more independent ... and not always mature enough to handle it. Last week he lost his phone, and I wasn't able to locate it. I have an iPhone, and he has a Samsung, so I tried Life 360. ...

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Direct tv or Hulu live?

L. S. asks from West Mifflin

We are moving and considering canceling our direct tv and going with Hulu live. Does anyone have any experience with Hulu live?

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3 Periods in the same month?

A. Y. asks from Anchorage

I'm 13 and I started my period on the 17th of August. I had my next period one week earlier than a month, and had two more after that. If necessary, I weigh 44kg and I exercise regularly at school and outside. My exercise has partially changed since school started and I'...

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Health issues and family drama !

E. C. asks from Rancho Cucamonga

Hi moms my husband became very ill earlier this month. He was in ICU for 10 days then to rerurn for surgery. He just had renal arterial bypass & had an emergency surgery due to complications. It’s been very difficult to say the least. Currently still in recovery & no...

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9/11 Memorial

by Karen E. Rosenberg

My heart ached. I sucked in my breath. My eyes filled with tears.

I did not expect to have this reaction to the 9/11 Memorial.

I expected to see a nice monument with the names of those that lost their lives in the towers and on the planes. What I got was so much more. No picture, no articles, no first-hand accounts had prepared me…. More

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Coping question to moms who have recently moved or just ponder it.

B. F. asks from Newark

For moms who have recently moved to a completely new area who live far away from any family and don't know anybody: How does it feel? Have you felt like a complete stranger in a foreign land? Maybe even invisible? (All this is speaking of times when your husband is w...

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Letter to My Daughter

by Corby J. Caffrey-Dobosh

When I was only a daughter, a sister to brothers, a sister to one sister, a wife to a husband, and a mother to sons, I prayed to a father-God. I did not doubt, sway, or psychologically challenge the camouflaged examples of sexism. I hardly questioned the existence of veiled capitalist-North American social-structure yolks that were to be borne only on the shoulders of women. I rallied against abortion. I submitted to touch and affection against my gut’s will. Blind, unwilling to see the pieces of woman-hate that pushed their way into my life’s puzzle, I was a soft feminist who focused on fitting in with patriarchy, earning validation from my family, and being under-welcomed by a church unworthy of my fealty. I bestowed more value on men’s accomplishments. I felt guilt and shame. I hated my body, my curves, and the shiny swirls etched in my skin that marked my babies’ becomings. I ignored the sanctity of my femaleness. I blamed my mom. I trash-talked other women, while comparing my shortcomings to theirs. I buried my needs, and blamed myself for the sexual violence I experienced. I was insecure and incapable of seeing and wielding my power. I cared for people and things that would never understand me, appreciate me, or return my care. I laughed at girly-ness. I thought my qualities and traits unimportant when they weren’t applauded by others. I disguised my voice with pixie pleasantries when I needed to rage. I dieted…. More

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The Ultimate List of Things to Do While You're on Bedrest

I’m currently on pregnancy bedrest (for the second time) due to preterm labor and a handful of other issues. Bedrest is one of those things that has been around virtually forever but hasn’t been proven to be particularly effective, not to mention it comes with its own set of risks. For those reasons, it’s prescribed only when all other options have been exhausted, and there just isn’t anything else to do. While the idea of lounging around for weeks or even months at a time might sound like a luxurious vacation to some, believe me, it gets old fast. I’ve always thrived the most when I keep busy, and I love to be out exploring the city versus being cooped up indoors, so if I don’t have some sort of a plan my mental state starts to suffer pretty quickly. That’s where this list comes in, I began to compile it during my first pregnancy and wrote everything out in earnest as soon as I found out I would be prescribed bed rest again. Hopefully, if you find yourself in a similar situation it can be of some help to you, I’ve tried to include as many resources as possible along with the suggestions, so you’ve been warned, I’m not joking when I call it the “ultimate” list, it’s long. I’ve tried to break it up into sections to make it easy to jump around and find what appeals to you, and you can always bookmark it and come back to it later…. More

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Similar websites to this one, but different?

B. F. asks from Newark

Does anyone know of any websites that are primarily for married couples? Sometimes I kind of want to ask around about something that involves couples. I have hunted around, but all I've found were ones that try to suck you into counseling--for a fee. Or else they were ...

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Home Educating While Abroad: A Beginner’s Guide

Homeschooling your children can be a daunting task, but doing it while traveling abroad? That can be downright scary at first thought. There is, of course, a lot to consider. You may want your children to have an immersive educational experience. Or, you may want to focus on art and music in Spain. Two months later, when you’re in Greece, you may want to them to learn about science. You might favor a schedule that balances out the curriculum in a more traditional way such as focusing a little on each subject per day. Whichever way you choose to create your homeschooling environment, here is a starter guide to help you navigate the waters…. More

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Seeking suggestions from former hoarders

B. F. asks from Newark

We have a lot of stuff/clutter in our house, especially basement. It's hard for me to part with things because I change things around all over the place, always trying to find a more efficient way to do things. I will get an idea for a room and decide I want a _____. ...

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Does anyone out there hate their name?

B. F. asks from Newark

I'm talking legal name here. And the name you've gone by since birth. I have an unusual real name. I get compliments on my name from time to time, but I'm not really impressed. Other than that I get annoyed, sometimes more than others, when somebody asks me what i...

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Need suggestions on how to stand it

B. F. asks from Newark

This is kind of a bedroom matter and hopefully not TMI. IMyI r guy, like a lot of guys, gets to needing "release". Sometimes I think he wants to do "it" just for something to do. Having never been a guy myself, I can only try to imagine the need/want/urgency, and the...