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The Aftermath of Having Your Kid's Birthday at Chuck E. Cheese
My baby turned five. My baby. My last child.
When I brought my last child home from the hospital, my oldest child was only four. Not to mention those two kids in between. My goodness I am an overachiever… or deranged.
I asked my last child what he wanted to do for his impending birthday. He didn’t even take time to contemplate all of his options before he blurted out: Chuck E. Cheese!!!!!
Upon hearing his response a slow, steady chant erupted: “Chuck E. Cheese! Chuck E. Cheese! Chuck E. Cheese!” The other kids joined in.
I remembered loving it, too. We went as kids. We played the games. We chased the mouse.
Except I was not a kid anymore. The sweet, blissful innocence of my childhood is long gone. I could no longer look at Chuck E. Cheese so fondly. Now I saw him for what he really was; the gatekeeper to Germ Wonderland.
I spent the next ten minutes trying to come up with other ideas. ANY other idea. I tried everything I could think. I am pretty sure I even offered him a helicopter ride… to pick up his very own pony.
He was not to be denied. He wanted the mouse. Nothing else would do.
The day arrived – party day. We loaded up the kids and headed out. I was filled with dread, and my son, only with excitement.
As we pulled into the lot I saw him. He was right there on the building; his picture anyway. The mouse appeared very charming – inviting, almost – he was smiling.
Had I misjudged him?
But there was no backing out. It was his birthday wish and we were there to party.
I took a deep breath, reached for the door handle and walked inside. We found ourselves in a holding pattern waiting to be stamped for entry. We were corralled, if you will, just like cattle.
It was now too late to make a break for it as the line was quickly forming behind us. He had us in his clutches.
A Chuck E. Cheese employee met us with a huge smile. He was to be our escort. Our escort to the bowels of germ hell.
My son squealed with delight. Of course he did, he has been known to lick a handrail or two.
The kids scattered like, well, mice. Our party was not the only party though. There were many, many parties going on that day. Hundreds of handrail-lickers were running amuck.
I watched this kid touched that ball, right after that kid, who touched this handle which was just turned by that other kid with the bad cough. Had my son contracted the flu? Had my daughter contracted strep? Was anyone to leave here today with the Bubonic Plague?
I couldn’t rule it out.
I tried to relax. After all, you simply cannot keep your kids away from germs. They are everywhere, but some places more than others though… like Chuck E Cheese… where hundreds of snotty kids congregate.
We partied for what seemed like days – games and rides, pizza and cake – even dancing with the devil himself. That’s right. Chuck E. Cheese showed up to party.
Look at that smile.
Then, finally, it was over. The kids had a great time. Once I Purelled the crap out of everyone and put them in the car, I was able to take a breath. The party was over, and everyone was still alive.
And then… we waited. What had we left with? No one knew. Would we be able to escape the ordeal without any infectious diseases? There was not a snowball’s chance in… well… you know.
That was Saturday. Fast forward to Tuesday morning at 5:00am when I heard the very words I had been expecting:
“Mom, my stomach hurts.”
I was no rookie. I leapt to the floor and raced him to the toilet where he threw up. Three times.
Except it wasn’t the birthday boy. It was his brother. My son was pale. I could hear his stomach rolling from outside his body. This was not going to be your average stomach bug. This bug was going to be… epic; kind of like a six-foot mouse.
I placed him on a pallet by my bed. (If you do not know that term “pallet” please refer to your Southern-to-English dictionary.)
I could not chance him lying in my bed. I had been burned that way too many times before. A king size comforter is not puke friendly.
I gave him a bucket and a cup of water, covered him with a blanket and told him to try to rest.
Five minutes passed. It was just enough time for me to get groggy again when I heard him make a break for it. He was running for the toilet. I jumped up and ran as well in an effort to minimize certain bathroom disaster and comfort him. Once my foot hit the cold, bathroom floor, it was too late.
I slide through the vomit as though I was on roller skates. I only stopped when the wall rammed all five toes on one foot, back into their joints. I went down. Surely all my toes were broken.
I screamed out into the night,“Damn you Chuck E. Cheese!!!”
From my position on the floor, where I was holding my foot trying to work through the burning pain, I looked up at my son. He was standing over the toilet. The look on his face made me remember that I was a mother, and there was no time for selfishness. I had a job to do.
I pulled myself up and without any regard for the vomit dripping off my legs or the pulsating pain radiating through my foot and I hugged him. Then I got a wash cloth and wiped his little mouth.
As a parent we want our children to be happy. And when what makes them happy, also makes them sick, well, we are there for that, too.
I hope everyone enjoyed the birthday party. Because this family will never darken the door of a Chuck E. Cheese again.
So help me God.
Tonja used to live in the grown up world, but now she has a husband, four kids and a princess dog. She refuses to lose her sanity, or herself. If she’s going to be the mother of four, she’ll do it in great shoes. You can read more about Tonja’s hilarious escapades on her blog. You can also find her Facebook. and Pinterest.