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Summer Travel with the Sensitive Child

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In the last post, we explored strategies to support your child on vacation if he or she is a sensory seeker, but what if your child is sensitive, more of a sensory avoider. Some children have nervous systems that are easily overwhelmed. They may demonstrate sensory defensiveness and/or poor sensory regulation/modulation. As a result, careful planning is needed to make a vacation successful.

Establish familiar routines

Children with sensory defensiveness benefit from predictability and familiarity. Establish a routine to the days. In thinking about the day’s activities, less is typically better. If you are using sensory supports (deep pressure protocol, sensory diet, therapeutic listening, etc,) continue these and ask your child’s occupational therapist if any adjustments should be made to the program you are currently implementing. Pack favorite clothes, soap, shampoo, toothpaste. Remember sunglasses and hat for outdoor activities. Ear plugs or sound-occluding headphones may be helpful.

Don’t push interactions with relatives

For many children, visiting people they don’t know very well is overwhelming: people wanting to hug and kiss them or even pick them up; people that may be loud; houses that may smell funny; food that is different from what they are used to, etc. Let your relatives know what works for you child (and that your child’s need for space is not a reflection on whether or not they like that person):

• let your child initiate any physical interaction;
• establish a safe, quiet place your child can retreat to as needed;
• bring familiar items (toys, music, books, foods, pillow, blanket) to make sleeping, play, and eating comfortable.

Plan for down times

Remember that even when your child is having a good time, it can still be draining on their nervous systems and they require some quiet time to recoup. If touring a busy city, find a quiet place to eat, go back to the hotel room or play in a park for a while. Giving a sensitive child time to regroup can help them manage themselves better and reduce/prevent meltdowns.

Honor your child’s perceptions

While it can be frustrating to parents, when children react negatively to experiences that are generally perceived as being fun, it is important to recognize that their reacts are based on how their nervous system perceives the experience. Listen to them and modify your plans. While it is fine to expose your child to new experiences and gently encourage their participation, be careful not to force your child to engage in an activity that for them is at best uncomfortable and at worse triggers a fight/flight/fright/freeze response. For some children, the beach is overwhelming: the sand; splashing, cold, salty water; hot sun; lots of people. For some children, movement is frightening: going on rides, esp. roller coasters is the last thing they want to do. Keep it simple and low-keyed.

Vacations that may work well

(Varies tremendously from one child to the next)

Vacation at home

Build your vacation around day trips, which allow your child the security of returning to the security and familiarity of home each night.

Base vacations

Establish a home base at a cabin, motel, etc. Consider children’s museums, zoos/aquariums, and parks. Take your time and be flexible, ready to change if a destination does not work out.

Amusement Parks

Go in the off-season, mid-week if possible. Consider, smaller regional parks. All parks offer a variety of experiences. Pick those that are low-key and geared to your child’s interests if possible. If you do make the Disney trip, ask your doctor for a medical release to obtain a Guest Assistance Card, so that you can avoid waiting in long lines.

Bonnie J Hacker MHS, OTR/L is a pediatric occupational therapist with extensive experience working with children with sensory processing disorders. Bonnie writes monthly at Our Journey Through Autism

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