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Teenage Son Suspected to Be Drinking
Asked by B.B. from Columbia
on September 1, 2009
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Recently, events in our household have exposed the news that our 17 year old son has been drinking alcohol. He has had our trust for a very long time, with a few of th...
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- My husband's family would allow my husband to drink alcohol on certain holidays or family reunions but it was always to remain "in check" and no drunkenness. So when ...
- Those days I remember well. the way it sounds it probably isn't a big problem of like drinking all the time. I'm 23 and I remember well when I was a teenager and drink...
- You can purchase a drug/alcohol screening kit at a pharmacy. Tell him your concerns, that if he passes weekly screenings, it won't go further. If he won't, get him to ...
15 Year Old Daughter Is Lonesome
Asked by C.A. from Macon
on February 27, 2008
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My soon-to-be 16 year old daughter has had a falling out with her best friend and even thoguh it was her decision, she is deeply hurt. I am proud of her for breaking ...
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- My sister and I are 11 months apart (Pisces) and we're both like this. We only have one or two friends that we associate with consistently. As a matter of fact, I br...
- I read the responses, which were very caring and helpful, I thought. I also wondered about her judging others to not be "worthy" of her friendship. High standards? ...
- Hi, I was and still am like your daughter, I just got back on good terms with my best friend of 12 yrs but I will never fully get over what she did. anyway my advic...
Need Advice on Teenagers
Asked by C.L. from Philadelphia
on August 12, 2008
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Hi my name is C.. I am new to the group. I am at my witts end with my 16 yr old son. My husband and I have done everything we possibly can. My son has just found out t...
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- I just wanted to tell you that i was pregnant in my senior year in highchool. We got married when i was 19, have been married for 12 years and have 4 beautiful daught...
- Hi C.. I have a 16 year old boy myself, but fortunately (so far) we have not gotten to the fork in the road that you've reached. One of the things I've noticed, an...
- Ok, C., first take a deep breathe and understand your son is not the first and won't be the last to have a teenage pregnancy. And you are doing the best you can with ...
Help with My 9Yo Step-daughter
Asked by M.B. from Washington DC
on July 28, 2008
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As a step-parent I dont know if I am at my witts end or what so I need some advice. I am not asking anyone to be critical because if you are then please dont bother re...
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- I have a soon-to-be 20 year old daughter, so I feel your pain :) I think it's great that you're taking on the responsibility of raising your step-daughter and seem so ...
- Hi M. I've been a stepmom fro the past 18 years to two grown up stepdaughters. They were 7 and 8 when we moved in together. I have seen and been through many of t...
- I have been going through the same thing with my now 13 year old daughter since she was around 9. To let her have some control over herself, I began to let her choose...
Out of Control 10 Year Old Neice, Please Help!
Asked by J.B. from Tulsa
on June 19, 2007
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I have a neice that is 10 years old and is way out of control. She yell's at my sister and tells her "No" all the time. It has gotten so bad that she will throw a fit ...
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- Hello, My sister-in-law try this and it work. When she throwing her fit. Have the mother throw one too.. On the floor kicking and screaming just like the daughter...
- Hi J., Well I have a couple of suggestion's I would start by saying your sister needs to make sure she is not comparing one child to another, then she n...
- We just signed on with Tom Scott, a therapist who specializes in kids who have emotional problems, particularly anger. He also has a group thing for kids, on Monday &...
Ear Piercing & Tat Request from My 15 Yr Old!
Asked by B.J. from Washington DC
on June 23, 2009
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My son is adamant about getting a tattoo (2 of his sisters have them w/o prior consent) to memorialize his father and an earring for 'fashion'. I am against both and ...
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- Although others might say "What's the big deal?", I agree with you. Piercings / tattoos seem to B. all the rage right now, but they can B. a drawback come employment ...
- B. J, I'm on the "discourage the tattoo" side of this. I have an uncle who has a blue blob on his arm from a bad tatoo artist. It was supposed to B. a cartoon wolf ...
- Great job, Mom! I'd thank him for seeking my permission. That shows he is a very mature young man. You can also appreciate his honesty. He is going to B. a wonderf...
Teen Compulsive Liar
Asked by J.V. from Grand Rapids
on February 28, 2008
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How can I help my teen to stop lieing about EVERYTHING!!! It doesnt matter what it is about, she lies about it!! We give her time to think about what she is doing. tel...
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- Advise for a young teen and advise for an older teen would be very different.... My oldest, strong willed daughter had a hard time with lying when she was younger.....
- Try to catch her being good. This is tough, because she wants to be independent and yet she may not be ready for it. Next time she asks to do something, I would tell...
- I would explain to her all about 'crying Wolf!' It's going to happen once too often and then when she really needs help, no one will listen because she's become a lia...
So Lost with My 14Yr Old Help
Asked by S.H. from Dallas
on November 17, 2008
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this year has to be the worst of all so far.. She started highschool (although the end of 8th grade is when it all started). into boys now and failing classes at schoo...
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- S., First... counseling for you and your daughter together and separate. Second... you may have gone too far. Not that she shouldn't be punished, but if you go to...
- the answer is called military school. It will give her structure.
- Have you tried contacting your local Juvi? Sometimes they can schedule a visit so she can see what it is like to live there and the kind of girls she will be living w...
My Son Will Be 13 Soon. Is Always Arguing Normal for a Boy His Age?
Asked by S.G. from Los Angeles
on May 31, 2007
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I remember being 13 and pretty much nothing my mom could do was right. I was always moody and preffered to be alone or with friends. I know this is normal for girls bu...
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- Check out the book: How to Talk So Teens Will Listen and Listen So Teens Will Talk by Adele Faber and Elaine Mazlish. It's all about validating kid's feelings. So, w...
- My grandson did it, the arguing, so it is what some teen boys do. You may have added irritation because of his disabilities but what I did with my grandson is to tell...
- I have a 14 and 15 year old boys and at this age they are trying to find their independence, that is why they argue. They want their opinions heard and want to feel t...
HELP! My Daughter Is Turning into a Teen Nightmare!
Asked by L.F. from Norfolk
on June 13, 2008
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I thought I could handle most anything....but my teen daughter(going on 14)has me at the end of my rope. She has had a very traumatic year and w/o going into detail, I...
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- Your daughter sounds like mine was at that age. It is very difficult and the best advice I can offer is to take it day by day; remember who the adult is; and run (don...
- Hi L., I suggest that you go to the nearest Mediation Center and get an appointment with a Family Mediator to resolve this present issue. Next I would urge you t...
- There's so much going on in your family! You acted appropriately not letting her sleep over at the friend's house, the mom doesn't have great judgement. Take your dau...