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Afraid 12 Year Old Step-daughter Is Sexually Active. What Can I Do?
Asked by L.W. from Cleveland
on November 9, 2008
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Here is the situation...my 12 year old step-daughter who doesn't live with us, spends LOTS of time text messaging and no time studying (last report card 2 F's, 2 D's, ...
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- Dear L., I would find a support group where your entire family can benefit. Church is a great place to find a godly positive influence for you and your family. Find...
- I am going to go with the old saying "Better safe than sorry". Even if she is not sexually active right now it is a VERY thin line between talking like you are and act...
- you might check out www.sexrespect.com and see if there is anything there that you think you or your step daughter could benefit from...and lift her up in prayer! Go...
18 Yr. Old Living at Home, Still in Highschool - Need URGENT HELP!
Asked by T.F. from Orlando
on August 16, 2009
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Our 18 yr. old is just starting 12th grade. He is internationally adopted and has serious language difficulties, thus he is behind in school. We have several issues ...
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- T., so sorry you are going through all this. I agree with the other responses that all privileges need to go until he complies with the house rules. Is he interested i...
- ok so i know you said you did not want to throw him out but girl, DO IT!!! he sees it like "well they won't do anything so i can keep doing what i want!!!"he needs to ...
- He is 18 and living in the ways of the world. This destructive path he has chosen will sooner or later reveal the consequences of his actions. I understand that he i...
Seeking Help on Dealing with Teenage Girl Relationship with Boys
Asked by M.S. from Chicago
on August 15, 2009
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I have a 12 year old daughter who has been on the internet pretending to be older than what she really is. she uses graphic language to describe how she will interact ...
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- Run, don't walk, to a counselor. In addition to the suggestions to take away and monitor computer access, which I agree with, there has to be something else going on ...
- Time on a computer is a privilege-one that she has clearly abused. Need to set some hard and fast rules Mom, after having a serious talk with her about her behavior. M...
- Hi M., get a grip on her before it is too late. First things first, take away her computer time. She is headed for disater. Don't let her use it. If you have to, t...
Married, but Never Was Sexually Attracted to Him
Asked by J.F. from Killeen
on August 13, 2009
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I married my best friend, a wonderful man that makes me laugh and is almost everything one could ask in a mate. I love him with all of my heart.
That said...I have ...
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- You've got to figure out what works for you. Have you tried any books on the subject? My friend just read a Dr. Laura book The Care and Feeding of Husbands. She sai...
- Is it just about sex or are you just not physically attracted to him? Physical attraction plays a big part in sexual attraction. Maybe you should advise him to make s...
- i wish this were advice but it is more like sympathy. i have the same prob with one acception....my drive is gone. otherwise it is exact. i had to respond because it h...
15 Yr Old Son and Sexual Activity
Asked by M.C. from Binghamton
on December 30, 2007
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My son is 15 and is becoming sexually active. However, I know this only because I have read his IM and text messages to his girlfriend. The stuff he says shocks me. ...
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- I first want to say that I use to teach sex ed to teens when I was a teen myself. So I know a bit about how kids will laugh and act silly when you talk to them about ...
- Sadly, parenting is such a vicious cycle, don't you think? We thought we knew everything at that age and now that we are older, we realize we didn't. Of course, here w...
- Have his Dad talk to him. It should not have to be about specifics--just general information, health issues, safety and being a good "guy".
Sexual Exploration - 7 Year Olds
Asked by S.S. from Charlotte
on February 28, 2007
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Hi. My sister-in-law (we'll call her "A") walked in on my 7 year old daughter and her 7 year old daughter (cousins) under the covers rubbing each others' privates. S...
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- S., I would leave her alone, she has been mortified enough and I am sure she understands perfectly what happened. I don't think this will affect the way she'll live ...
- Hi S.-I have a similiar tale to tell. My neighbor when I was growing up, was found in a closet with another little girl.They were in a compromising position. There mot...
- Hi S., I would leave it alone unless and until your daughter asks more questions. As for A, I would keep the children apart as much as possible, her daughter has t...
Break up Help
Asked by K.G. from Pittsburgh
on April 21, 2009
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Before i start, i just want to say i'm asking for help and suggestions. I have seen too many times here where people respond with critisicm in parenting and make peopl...
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- Hi K., I'm sorry you are going through this. I know it will be sad for your son but he WILL get over this. You are his mom and he is your priority. That is evident...
- Are you able to afford a family counselor? Not so much to help fix the problems, if they can be great, but, to help in how to deal with this situation in the best way...
- Hi K., I feel so badly for you and your son. But then again, the man knew that you had a son and that involves another man in and around your life forever. He nee...
Support Group Needed****
Asked by K.R. from Austin
on September 23, 2008
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Hi, my fellow ladies....Does anyone know of a support group for parents of sexually abused kids? I have called hope center, crisis center & safe place. I am wondering ...
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- i would look into a few things. i'm not sure what will fit your needs exactly. here is a list of support groups hill country bible church offers http://www.hcbc.com/te...
- K., I am a lay minister with Austin Vineyard, and I can offer you and your husband a 2 hour session (separately) at my home that will help you through the worst mental...
- Hi K. - This happened to my friend's child. Her little boy was a year younger then yours and she opted to get him some therapy and it did amazing healing for him. ...
Not Letting Our Kids Sleep over at Anyone's Home to Much???
Asked by M.B. from Chicago
on February 2, 2008
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As a child (5-6) I was sexually abused by a friends Father and then again later when I was 12-13 by my (then) Step Father. So needless to say I am very protective (ma...
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- I believe that you should get to know the other parents. Sleepovers are fun, and not all of them lead to bad experiences. You are expecting other parents to trust you,...
- M. No you are not being paranoid. Our parents were to trusting and that's not to blame, them. The best we could do is learn from their mistakes and our own. I do n...
- Hello..First sorry what has happened to you....I have 2 boys ages 6 and 8...They stay at grandmas all the time....but my 8 year old has stayed with a friend several ti...
My 13 Year Old
Asked by T.M. from Jackson
on April 21, 2007
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My 13 year old son was found touching another child a couple of years younger than him. I put him in therapy and I am hoping it works. But what else can I do. I don't ...
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- I have one question about this - when he touched the other child, did he do it in private? If he did it in private then it would seem he knew it was wrong. Doing it ...
- I do belive that you have to make sure that your son does not do anything to harm younger children, physically or mentally. But keep in mind that he may have just bee...
- I think you already have some great advice, but I'm going to express my opinion as well. Okay, he is going through puberty. He is going to be sexually curious. Be ca...
