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I Am Really Upset
Asked by F.A. from Las Vegas
on December 17, 2007
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hi, iam really upset about what happened yesterday ,we went for grocery and on our way back my 3 years old son had an accident on the road (peepee) just on the s...
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- Oh F., I'm sorry. Some people are just big old twits! I know about people assuming they know what's going on. There are those who are bigots - I'm sorry. My moth...
- You and your son did NOTHING wrong. As far as the rude woman goes, I try to follow the philosophy of Don Miguel Ruiz in his book "The Four Agreements,": Don't take a...
- Hi F., I really feel bad for you and your family that you all had to go through this. I am not making any excuses for this person, but unfortunately we do have peo...
Respect
Asked by T.R. from Dallas
on May 3, 2007
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What can I do to make my kids respect adults more?
I have noticed this with most kids but I'm not accepting it with my kids. My kids are not as bad about this as o...
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- My 10 1/2 y/o was having some serious "talk back" issues. Not to mention tone of voice, eye rolling,. etc... I was getting tired of always arguing w/ him over things,...
- T.--I totally agree with you about this. Kids these days do seem to think they have equal rights as adults. We, as a society, have nothing but ourselves to blame but...
- My son is taking Karate lessons and they focus a lot on respect, discipline. It might be something you want to look into.
Teenage Uncle and 3 1/2 Yr Old Nephew Who Fight like Siblings
Asked by L.A. from San Francisco
on February 14, 2009
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I have an issue with my brother, who is 17, and my son who is 3 1/2. I know this sounds ridiculous, but they argue. My mom watches my kids for me while my husband and ...
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- Take your son to daycare, many people don't have the option of free child care. It will be tight money wise, but your son will be happier. It should also open up your ...
- my only advice would be to find other day care. I would be wondering all day, everyday, how my kids were doing in a situation like that. Your mom doesn't seem to be do...
- Hi L., I'm a therapist who specializes in teens and their families, and I think you're underestimating the emotions of your brother-- he may be annoyed/peeved/livi...
Putting Career on Hold Temporarily or Permanently?
Asked by E.J. from Chicago
on February 2, 2009
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Looking for opinions/insights from all of you mamas that have put your careers on hold either for a couple years or completely to raise your kids. I am wondering if yo...
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- Look at things long term. What do you want to do when your kids are in school and you're not being super full-time mommy all the time? Do you want to return to the s...
- I am going to give you the best advice I ever got when my son was born. The mom had older children than I did and had quit her career when her children were born. She ...
- Hey there Mommy!!! I think you know in your heart what you want to do...what all of us moms want to do...have it all. I like you went back and forth many years ago. ...
Disobeying
Asked by T.R. from Dallas
on September 29, 2007
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I have raised my step kids since they were 2 and 4. Now they are 14 and 16 and we have had an okay relationship. They call me mom and I accept them as my own kids. But...
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- Drug test them. You can buy a kit at the drug store today and have your answer in less than 5 minutes. Many family counselors they aren't trained in recognizing or dea...
- 16 and 14 is a difficult age. Listen to them as much as possible -they are going through a lot. They are naturally selfish at this age and so I wouldn't "do for them...
- Hi T., While I don't know your particular situation completely, I think I can offer some general comments. Sometimes stepchildren can feel unloved by the stepparent...
Kids Grades
Asked by C.N. from Honolulu
on April 12, 2008
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I used to be a stay-home mom, keeping on top of my kids schoolwork and outside activities. Since starting work full-time almost a year ago, I find that my kids seem t...
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- I am reading a great book called 'Screamfree Parenting' by Hal Runkel. I really recommend it. It tells you not to take the kids actions personally. Take a deep brea...
- If at all possible, quit your job, even if it means borrowing or taking a loan for extra money. It is so worth the investment in your kids. Kids are much more import...
- Either work part time during the hours they are in school or quit and budget your lifestyle accordingly. They'll all be out of the house before you know it and you can...
Grandparent's Sabotage of Our Parenting & Discipline
Asked by C.B. from Detroit
on June 18, 2008
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I am a mother to a 14-year-old son, 13-year-old step-daughter (that lives with us, her mother is deceased), 12-year-old daughter, and 16-month-old daughter. This is t...
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- C., So sorry to read about your struggles - and your guilt! I have two strategies for you to consider that I hope will decrease your guilt. 1. You have not to...
- This is all coming only from my heart... so please do not be offended as it is not intended to be meanhearted in any way. I am only sharing from my previous hurts and...
- C.: Stay strong! Consistency is critical, and it soundslike your disciplinary actions fit the situation. Communication and discussion with your daughters about the p...
Seeking Advice on How to Handle Pushy Mother-in-law
Asked by S.S. from Columbia
on April 27, 2007
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My husband and I are expecting our first child in a few weeks. I have REPEATEDLY expressed to my mother-in-law (as well as all other members of the family) that we wi...
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- S., you are the one who is doing all the work.. not the inlaws.. not your hubby .. YOU .. so as someone who has been in your shoes .. Don't give in at all But don...
- I was in the same position when we had our first and second children. My mother-in-law lived in another town, so I had the benefit of surprise as it was early, her ha...
- Dear S., Best wishes for your upcoming birth! I sincerely hope all goes well for you and whatever you decide to do. I was in a similiar situation with my mother i...
Teen Trouble
Asked by L.T. from Dallas
on February 18, 2008
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I am very concerned about my 15 yr old son! He is a freshman who is having social problems, grade issues, respect issues etc. I've had him in counseling for quite awh...
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- My Freshman is having a bad year too, but I took her in November to a psychiatrist because I thought she was depressed and he gave her Welbutrin which worked almost ri...
- L., My heart goes out to you. I have had 2 teens go through a rough period at that age. One we had on antidepresents and counseling. We were constantly involved wi...
- I'm not sure of the counselor you have him seeing, but I can tell you from personal experience that one is not like another. I went through 4 counselors as a youth an...
Sibling Rivalry with Dog
Asked by K.E. from Denver
on January 2, 2009
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Hey there ladies you all seem to have a wealth of experience and I am at a loss on what to do with my daughter and her jealousy with our dog. I have a five year old li...
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- If your daughter is saying she thinks you love the dog more than her, then she must really be feeling that. It sounds to me like you need to have more specific one-on...
- Hi K., First when you have told her you love all your girls, You should tell her you will always love her more because you are my special and most precious baby g...
- Before we had kids, we got a book it was either "Dog-proofing your child" or "Childproofing your dog". I can't remember after so many years. It sounds like you are doi...
