relationship issues
Related Questions & Answers
Results 1-10 from 37 articles
Husband Stopped Talking to Father
Asked by K.C. from Dallas
on March 1, 2008
-
Here is the scoop in short. My husband and his father got in a huge fight over a month ago over a legitimate issue and now are not speaking. Here's the catch.. His f...
Answers
- My husband is going through something similar right now, and I just told him if your dad dies through this surgery, your the one left here to have on the guilt laid on...
- Wow, tough call, so I approached my husband for a male perspective. His point of view the best thing and only thing you can really do is try to get both in the same p...
- Hello KC, Great advice given here. specially about telling you husband how much you love him and support him. maybe they need to agree to disagree and pick a date 3...
Am I the Crazy One?
Asked by N.M. from New York
on August 18, 2009
-
Hi Moms,
Just hoping to get some feedback from other women out there. My relationship with my husband is strained at best. We have just really grown apart over the ...
Answers
- I would never let a total stranger stay in my house. I wouldn't let someone I knew pretty well stay over without keeping my child in my room with me. You can never b...
- I have to tell you... your husband sounds like a teenager in search of excitement. I would not let some stranger sleep over, if your husband insists then you and the k...
- oh gosh...H..LL no for bringing a stranger into the house you are NOT crazy i don't know what the deal is with your husband. maybe midlife crisis? whatever it is, yo...
My Friend Is Putting Me in the Middle
Asked by M.L. from Los Angeles
on August 7, 2009
-
I have a good friend that I dearly love that is putting me in a situation that I feel uncomfortable with. She is married and states that she is not happy in her marri...
Answers
- Why would it be so hard to do the right thing? Why do you question yourself? You know what she is doing is totally wrong, and to even support her in her indiscretion...
- Very simple! Don't do it. Better she's disappointed and mad you and she'll get over it than for you to go through it and will call a lot of chaos between you and your...
- M. L I am sorry you have been put into this situation. If your friend were a true friend she would not, I repeat NOT ask this of you. Be her friend and refuse. S...
Unequally Yoked Marriage
Asked by J.F. from Killeen
on July 31, 2009
-
We have been married 11 years, unequally yoked (I am a born again Christian and my husband is not). Anyone in this type of relationship knows the issues that come with...
Answers
- First question is why did you marry him if you are not attracted to him and have no communication with him? Yikes, that is just a failed marriage waiting to happen. ...
- I'm impressed you've made it 11 years and I mean that sincerely, not sarcastically. I don't hear the word "love" anywhere in your request (I'm sure of your love in...
- J., my story is much the same as yours except that I always found my husband physically attractive. It was his behavior that was the turn off. I tried everything I kn...
Someone Analize Me!!!
Asked by C.A. from Sacramento
on December 17, 2007
-
ok, I'm going to put myself on a limb here... I divorced a very controling abusive man after 13 years (because I'm a people pleaser). Since then, I've been attracted...
Answers
- C., you say you just got out of a 13 year marriage with an abusive control freak, and you are a nurse, and have 3 children. You sound like a responsible, caring educa...
- C., There is a great resource called the Enneagram. It is a study of the 9 different personality types . I highly recommend to anyone and everyone to learn their Ennea...
- Oh You are so not alone! Remember,the path of parenting and love is all a path of the heart. Not your head. If you doubt any part or get lost in your mind there is no...
Shared Experiences in the Area of Relationships
Asked by J.P. from San Francisco
on September 14, 2008
-
I am the mother of a ten month old adorable, sweet natured litte boy. I have a rocky relationship with his dad and we are not married but loosely engaged and we live t...
Answers
- People don't change that much. And keeping an abusive man in your life may actually be bad for the child. Do you want that to be your child's example of how to behave?...
- Sorry you are going through such a hard time.... Adjusting to a long distance relationship becoming a live-in relationship is hard enough on its own (BTDT last year),...
- My heart goes out to you. Thanks for writing here. Your feelings are your guide: if this feels abusive, it is. I've learned from many relationships--at least on...
How Do I Talk to Him About How Unhappy I Am
Asked by A.S. from Phoenix
on June 16, 2008
-
I am having a hard time talking to my boyfriend about how unhappy I have been lately. I am dealing with alot of issues and feel very un supported. We have an eight mon...
Answers
- Amamda, After I have been married for 13 years sice 20 years old. I have been through the same grueling schedule with now 3 kids. It gets worse before it gets better -...
- Wow, all I can say is welcome to the real world. Relationships take work. I do beleive in marriage so I am not even going to address that one with you! You are young ...
- Hi A., In reading your post, I am a little confused about what it is you truly want from him. Do you want to talk to him about how unhappy you are? Or, do you wan...
What Would Your Reaction Be ....?????
Asked by E.G. from Atlanta
on July 5, 2008
-
Our day started out innocently enough. My husband suggested we go out and look for a BBQ and some patio furniture today. We were having a neighbor of ours over for d...
Answers
- Well, I must say I am quite jealous that your husband was even open to buying patio furniture and a BBQ in the first place. Hee hee. Pretty ambitious shopping trip fo...
- Yep, sounds like a typical type of BS fight me and my hubby would have. If he was insistent on going home, I would have said "Fine. We'll go home, you and the kids can...
- Hi E., I'm so sorry you and your husband are at odds on this. I would have certainly had issues with it as well. I would like to mention first that sometimes sit...
Spouse Drops No More Kids Bomb
Asked by J.B. from York
on February 13, 2009
-
I guess I am just looking for some advice, or someone to talk to, or just to vent. I feel like I have no one to talk to. If I talk to my friends or family, they are ...
Answers
- The last time I looked "love" isn't suppose to make you feel miserable and stressed. True love is working together on issues - not just you giving in and having everyt...
- Hello, Your situation sounds similar to mine. I feel your pain about the wedding etc. We did finally get married and it was a huge mistake. We did have the second ...
- Big decisions are meant to be made by the two of you. You discuss, ponder, anguish, pray, seek advice, read, whatever it takes. He sounds much too controlling and does...
Relationship Issue
Asked by H.H. from Elkhart
on March 26, 2008
-
My fiance thinks that I've cheated. The main reason he thinks this is because I defened myself about it when confroted rather then laugh it off. So I guess my question...
Answers
- Hi H., I always found it to be the other way around, he doesn't want to trust you! How on earth and why would he want you to be around his brother, when he knows yo...
- Oh Girl, you have 2 kids to think of. If this relationship is not stable it will never be. There is nothing to keep him there, and no commitment.Do not have the brothe...
- Hi H., It is a really tough situation when you are accused of cheating. My first reactions depend on how he confronts me with it. However, it is natural to be def...
